Chapter 21: The Child's View of Marriage

"Sister Qi, the judge has asked many people about you, but you have confessed before, so we all said that it was everyone's idea, and later the judge suggested that we go to participate in national dance competitions, such as CCTV's dance competition, the national children's dance competition, she recommended us to sign up, the director is very excited, if we really win the award, the reputation of our kindergarten will definitely rise, and the parents of the participating students are even more enthusiastic to listen, and they strongly suggested to the director to open a dance class. Wang Jing's eyes were shining.

Si Qi heard her kindness, and reluctantly squeezed out a smile at her: "That's good, Xie Min must be interested in this." ”

"But, why do you want to refuse the principal, we all know that the principal wants you to be in charge of this dance class, and even Xie Min only wants to be your deputy. Wang Jing was a little puzzled: "You don't want to jump ship and go to those private kindergartens, and you don't want to go to dance training classes part-time, then you can take an interest class, and your salary can be doubled!"

"For no reason, I hate dancing, and I don't want to take any dance classes. When Si Qi heard this, he immediately put away his chaotic thoughts, coughed lightly twice, and said with a smile: "You also know that this show was originally in charge of Teacher Hao, if it wasn't for a sudden accident at her family, I wouldn't have been driven to the shelves. ”

"But..."

"Well, it's nothing. Si Qi did not hesitate to interrupt her unspoken words, and instead said with a smile: "I finally have a boyfriend now, I want to accompany him more, while each other is not fresh, quickly cultivate and cultivate feelings, and it is logical to finalize the lifelong event, this is the most important thing in front of me, everything else is now floating clouds, otherwise my mother should recite the mantra for me again." ”

Wang Jing has already seen Comrade Zhang Xingmei's indomitable spirit, quite sympathetic, plus every time Zhang Xingmei comes to Jincheng, she will send food to all the teachers in the kindergarten, and concentrate on gathering everyone's strength to marry her daughter as soon as possible, now that she finally has a boyfriend, no matter how big her career is, I am afraid that it is not as important as marriage, thinking of this, she can't say anything, she can only nod and reluctantly agree:" Eh, what you said also makes sense, Auntie's pass is really difficult, my mother often says that no matter how good a job is, it is better to find a reliable person to marry, for women, marriage is the most stable job. ”

It's a novel statement.

Si Qi couldn't help but ask, "Your mother treats marriage as a job?"

"That's exactly what happened. Wang Jing said quite old-fashioned: "You see we work so hard, in order to get a salary, get a salary, if you get married and teach your husband and children at home, you deal with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all day long, and then your husband gives you money to support the family, living expenses, and the same income you get from your labor, and we are now a nature, but the job of marriage, with the gauze of love is gently covered, otherwise it is not as good as our current job." ”

Si Qi raised her eyebrows and asked in disbelief, "This is what your mother said?"

"Of course not. Wang Jing smiled: "This is my summed up experience, how could she tell me this, but she does regard marriage and motherhood as a job, from the day she married my father, not only asked my father every month for salary, bonus, but also gave rewards for giving birth to children, and gave year-end bonuses for the New Year, since we can walk, if you want to eat, you must first help her work, when we grow up, we have to pay food expenses, health fees, accommodation fees when we go home to eat, and we have to write an IOU for school tuition and living expenses." ”

It's not the first time Si Qi has heard Wang Jing listen to those things in her family, but every time she listens to it, she feels very informed, "Then does your mother have a relationship with your father?"

"Feelings? Wang Jing shook her head and said with a smile: "They couldn't eat enough in those days, it was too extravagant to talk about feelings, my mother was not good, my father and ancestors were authentic farmers for three generations, one couldn't get married, the other was too poor to get married, and then they probably walked together to make a living, they were too poor when they got married, and after giving birth to me, they dared to have a second child after a few years." ”

Wang Jing never hides her background from people in the countryside and her poor family background, when she was a child, she worked hard in order to be fed and clothed, and when she grew up, in order to leave home to get rid of the past, and studied hard, she has never been afraid of anyone's eyes, because those strange eyes will only be thin and empty compared to survival, meaningless, if she cares, it can only make her more sad, sad and ridiculous.

In fact, it's okay to treat marriage as a job, maybe you can really grow old. Hearing this, Si Qi was silent for a while, and suddenly said: "If there is no expectation, there will be no disappointment, it is never as good as loving yourself to love others, your mother lives a very philosophical life, she must be very happy." ”

"It's true to live well, but I don't know if I'm happy or not. Wang Jing blinked her eyes and said with a smile: "However, in my experience, a life without feelings is not only empty, but also boring, basically no different from the walking dead, just like eating without salt, although it can fill your stomach, but it is absolutely not delicious, so Sister Qi, there must be drops in love, it is nothing more than to keep your eyes open and find the right person." ”

"Cut, you little brat, you haven't talked much about love, and you dare to talk about experience. Si Qi immediately rolled her eyes, didn't want to pay attention to her anymore, turned around and left.

Wang Jing hurriedly followed, and said as she walked: "I haven't eaten pork, I've always seen pigs run, Sister Qi, you look down on me too much, when I was in college, I read all the novels of Aunt Qiong Yao and Aunt Yishu, and finally came to this conclusion, although love is not a necessity, but love is a condiment, without the flavor of love, life will become dull and tasteless, and there will be no joy." ”

"With so much experience, why don't you go looking for a boyfriend?" Si Qi glanced at her, and couldn't help but gossip a little: "Is there already a goal?"

"Love and marriage are impulsive, and I haven't met anyone who wants me to act impulsively. Wang Jing said without thinking: "But it is said that impulse is the devil, every time I want to be impulsive, I haven't started to rush, when I think of my mother, the breath in my heart is vented, I don't want to live like my mother, so I am particularly afraid that a misstep will become a thousand years of hatred, and then look back on the body for a hundred years, but if you are not impulsive, how can you know the result, so say, eh, so tangled." ”

Si Qi froze for a moment, paused, and then said casually: "You're right, impulse is indeed the devil." ”

Wang Jing instantly thought of Si Xiaojun, thinking of the rumors in Shiyuan just now, probably Xiaojun was the result of impulsiveness, his face suddenly changed, he hurriedly stepped forward to hold Si Qi's arm, and said embarrassedly: "Sister Qi, I'm sorry, I said the wrong thing." ”

Si Qi shook his head disappreciatively: "It's nothing, what you said is right, so you should still be sober, don't follow in my footsteps, as long as your mother doesn't urge you to get married, you can be completely cautious, as long as you don't lose the ability to love someone, it doesn't matter how long you are single, sometimes a wrong step is a wrong step, it's hard to turn back, and the job of marriage is not all stable, and if you don't do it, you will be fired at any time." ”

Wang Jing stuck out her tongue: "Eh, I don't want to get married, my dream is to save money, desperately save money, and then open a cafΓ© of my own, selling coffee and all kinds of desserts at the same time, if I can find someone who is like-minded with me, I will fall in love and get married, if I can't find a single to get old, it's not impossible, anyway, as long as my mother takes the money home, she won't care if I get married, fall in love or not, have children or not, it's best if I can be single for a lifetime." ”

The world is strange, and people are different.

Si Qi was forced by her parents to marry on a blind date in various ways, but Wang Jing was just the opposite, her parents were afraid that she would fall in love, marry early, and have early childbearing, cutting off the family's biggest financial route, she not only had to send money home to see a doctor for her father, but also raised two twin brothers who were in high school, one person worked three jobs, but often couldn't make ends meet, and life was quite difficult, but fortunately, she thought about it, laughed all day long, never complained, and lived more heartless than Si Qi.

"Sometimes I envy you. Si Qi slowed down, shrugged his shoulders, and said with a smile: "Life treats you like this, but you can always repay life with a smile." ”

Wang Jing stretched out her hand to wrap her shoulders and said arrogantly: " Life is just a few decades, sister, of course you have to live happy and happy, Chairman Mao said, there are always more ways than difficulties, just go over, I won't let life block me, because I am poor, so I am poor and happy, my parents have been patriarchal since childhood, that is the habitual thinking of their generation, I have long been used to it, and I don't want to change their minds, in fact, I am now sending money home, one is to repay their parenting, the other is that my two younger brothers are really good, I don't want the family to drag them down, I believe that there will be a return for paying, even if there is no return, as long as I have a clear conscience。 ”

Si Qi smiled and looked at Wang Jing, her not very outstanding face was shining in the sun, and there was a kind of heroism and fighting spirit between her eyebrows that she didn't have, as if all difficulties and setbacks were not important, as long as she worked hard, the world would be under her feet, she lived as she used to be.

"So, Sister Qi, you have to come on, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome, those unpleasant things are in the past, we always have to move forward, maybe the front is happiness." Wang Jing raised his fist: "You are so good, God will definitely treat you well." ”

Si Qi was also infected by her pride, and the layers of depression in her heart also disappeared.

Today is the weekend, there is no class, Wang Jing dragged her to the playground, and blinked as she walked: "Listen to Dr. Wang, he saw your boyfriend." ”

Si Qi nodded and asked casually, "What else did he say?"

"I didn't say anything, I just asked when you met, what step you talked about, and asked me and Xie Min if you knew what your boyfriend did, whether he was from Jincheng, and so on. Wang Jing scratched her forehead and said, "Sister Qi, Dr. Wang is not a curious person, why does he care so much about your boyfriend this time, he looks strange, and he looks like he wants to speak and stops." ”