"Yes, you young people have a future, you must take advantage of the opportunity! Let's go, let's go over there and have a look!" said Head Xia Yuxiang.

Qu Lihua saw a handsome French man and a woman passing by on the street, French girls are really fashionable, they pay attention to fashion wear, Paris Fashion Week has many big brand clothing manufacturers to participate in the exhibition, these clothes are popular with young people, representing the aesthetics and standards of the upper class of society.

Of course, young people in France should also be at the forefront of fashion, Qu Lihua can see many fashionably dressed young women on the streets of France, they are tall, can be models, blonde hair and blue eyes, really very beautiful.

"The French girl is really beautiful, Xiao Meng, have you ever thought of marrying a young and beautiful girl in France?" Qu Lihua said deliberately, making fun of Meng Wenjie.

Meng Wenjie shook his head, "I can only raise my eyes, I can't marry home!"

"Why?" Qu Lihua didn't understand.

Meng Wenjie smiled, "Choosing a wife is not choosing a model, French girls are really beautiful, but there are still differences between our Eastern and Western cultures, we Chinese men are still more traditional, I watched a variety show blind date, there was a boy on a blind date, the young man was very fun-loving, he liked to go out to dance, dressed up very fashionably, with Morse on his head, the host also said that he was very surprised in appearance, looked very fashionable, and the three young girls all expressed interest in him. ”

But the next plot has changed, I was surprised, I had frequent interactions with him before, very beautiful, very cheerful, and a young beauty who loves dancing and traveling, they interacted very friendly, the audience thought he would choose this beauty who matched him, and when his mother came on the stage, she chose a Shanghai girl with a very ordinary appearance, who looked very quiet, didn't talk much, and was not inconspicuous at all. ”

When it was the boy's turn to choose, he surprised the audience, he chose to listen to his mother's suggestion, and chose the girl who has a Shanghai household registration, a house, a stable job, but an average appearance, completely inconsistent with the word beautiful, introverted, and not good at words. ”

"Why is this so? Don't men like beautiful women?" Qu Lihua was puzzled.

"If you look closely, you will find that the wives of many big people are not good-looking and average-looking, but they all have one thing in common: they are knowledgeable, understand the general situation, take the overall situation into account, and have good wives and mothers. ”

"A man can allow himself to be dashing, to play outside, to go out to dance, to travel, to attract bees and butterflies outside, to linger in the flowers, but he will never allow his wife to be like him, fooling around with other men outside. ”

This is the selfish psychology of men, choosing a wife is not choosing a model, the wife does not have to be too beautiful, many men choose a woman with an ordinary appearance, in real life, no matter how handsome and handsome a man is, but they eventually choose a woman with an average appearance as a wife. ”

The reason is very simple, there must be something in the wife that satisfies him, either to give him money or to give him a stable life, men are actually very practical. ”

"The ideal is very full, but the reality is very cruel!" Qu Lihua sighed.

"Xiao Meng, will you also marry like a French man, have a wife at home, and find a lover outside?"

Meng Wenjie smiled, "How dare I? We Chinese men are still very traditional and conservative, living in society, people must be constrained, marriage is also very important, having a good marriage, building a good family, is also very important for men, men have to work outside, if something happens at home, let men worry, it will not work." ”

Of course, now the status of women has risen, and many women are not so stupid, and they will not pay for men stupidly without asking for anything in return. ”

"These conditions have become the necessities of life, living in a city, if you don't have a stable job, an independent economic foundation, a house to live in, food and clothing are guaranteed, the mother-in-law can rest assured that her baby daughter can be entrusted to you. ”

"So young men in China have to work hard, if you don't have a job, you lose your economic income, the whole society can't tolerate you, economic strength represents the dignity of men, if you don't have strength, don't say that people outside will show you a face, even the family will turn their faces. ”

"So men actually have no way to go, only the only way, and that is to work hard and work hard to make money!"

Professor Abner smiled, "You Chinese work so hard, it's really shocking, some time ago, I happened to see a statistic, that is the data of the labor participation rate of all countries in the world, China ranks first in the world, the total labor force is the first in the world, and the labor participation rate is the first in the world." ”

"The labor force participation rate of Chinese is 76%, which means that only 24% of people have nothing to do at home, including the elderly, children and students. ”

"By comparison, the U.S. is 65 percent, Japan is 58 percent, and China is already far ahead, leaving the rest of the world far behind. ”

"India, which is clamoring every day to surpass China and become the largest country in Asia, has a labor force participation rate as low as 55%, which means that half of India's citizens are staying at home and not coming out to work. ”

"China's overall labor force participation rate is as high as 76 percent, and China's diligence has amazed countries around the world. ”

"Why do you Chinese work so hard, get up early and be greedy every day, don't you Chinese know that you are tired and do not rest?" Professor Abner's eyes were full of questions.

"The labor force participation rate of 76% shows that Chinese people are very hardworking overall, so is it that Chinese men are more diligent, or Chinese women are more diligent?"

"Another table shows that if China's men's labor force participation rate is as high as 90 percent, China's women's labor force participation rate is as high as 70 percent, which is the world's first. ”

"Let's talk about Chinese men first, Chinese men are indeed very hardworking, have a very strong sense of supporting their families, and the labor force participation rate is as high as 90%, far ahead of other countries. ”

"Chinese women, nearly 70% labor force participation rate. In comparison, the labor force participation rate of French men is only 62%, which means that Chinese women are more diligent than French men and have a stronger sense of supporting their families. ”

"The labor force participation rate of Indian women is only 28%, who is the one who makes China leave India behind and dominate Asia?

"If Chinese men have pulled China into the ranks of the world's best, then it is undoubtedly Chinese women who have made China outstanding and developed at a super-speed. ”

"From the perspective of age, it is not Chinese men who really support most of China's economy, but those Chinese women between the ages of 25 and 55, who are wives, mothers, and daughters-in-law and go out to work and fight with the world. ”

"You know what? I was shocked when I got the statistic!" Professor Abner was impressed, pushing his gold-rimmed glasses and looking at everyone.

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