"The French only pay attention to their true feelings, maybe only the French can tolerate that there are other women outside the husband after marriage, if it is a woman from other countries, it will definitely not be able to stand it, will be hysterical, will scratch the face, quarrel with the husband, go to the lover outside to argue, and the quarrel will be turned upside down. ”

Qu Lihua listened to Professor Abner, and listened to the head of Xia Yuxiang joke to him, "Professor Abner, how did you meet your wife? Tell me about your love experience!"

Professor Abner smiled, "My personal experience is very simple, my wife was my high school classmate, and then we were admitted to college together, and then we became college classmates, and we spent a long time together, and we were together almost every day, and our feelings were cultivated. ”

"Then do you have a lover outside besides your wife?"

Professor Abner smiled, "That's not true, I'm still a bit perfectionist about relationships, I choose marriage because I really love my wife, I think family stability is the most important, that's the choice of smart people, so not every French man will have a lover outside, an honest person like me has only one wife!"

"Hahaha......" Everyone was amused by Professor Abner.

As we walked down the street, we still saw young couples walking their dogs on a leash on the street.

Qu Lihua asked curiously, "Are there many dog owners in France?"

Professor Abner said: "Dogs are loyal and good friends of human beings, and now many young people like to have pets, and raising dogs is no longer for the purpose of taking care of the home as before, but raising a pet that they like, and the puppy can also interact with you, and the French dog can not be too fierce, generally the dog is docile, there are golden retrievers, Erha such cute breeds, of course, there are other breeds of dogs, and there are very pleasing curly pugs." ”

"It's cute to have a puppy, the puppy is very smart, you are good to it, it knows it, it can remember the smell of the owner, can remember the appearance of the owner, and when you get home, it can't wait to pounce on you, pounce on your arms, lick it with its tongue, I also raise a dog, my golden retriever dog character is very docile, whenever I finish a day's work, back home, the golden retriever pounces on me, sometimes I even feel that the relationship between people and dogs, than the relationship between people and people, is much simpler. ”

"The dog is really loyal, if you treat it well, it will treat you well, it will not harm you, you don't have to guard against it!"

"And the relationship between people and people is different, people are much more complicated than animals, some people smile at you on the surface, but you can't guess what he thinks in his heart, if you reduce your defense against him, you don't know when, he will stab you behind you!"

"This kind of person, I also encountered it when I was young, and I was hurt, snatch your credit away, become his credit, use very despicable and shameless means, don't think this kind of plot can only be seen in Chinese palace fighting dramas, in fact, the world is the same, no matter what country, what nationality, as long as there are people, they will fight, people always have to go through tempering, only after tempering, after the test of years of wind and rain, can they mature and grow up, can they understand what the world is, what is society, and know how to take their own way. ”

"Everyone goes through this process, and I often use my own upbringing to teach my students, and I hope that my students can use my personal experience as an example to avoid detours in the future. ”

"In the university, I see that there are new students enrolled every year, and every year we send away batches of graduates, life is always like this, there are new students enrolled, there are graduates sent away, the society needs talents, needs fresh blood, the task of our university professors is to cultivate talents, and use their professional knowledge and personal experience to guide students, answer their questions, my students also love to ask me questions, for them, they are very curious about the world, very want to understand the world. ”

"Young people are always full of curiosity about the outside world, they always want to see what the world is like, you Chinese have a saying, 'Read ten thousand books, travel ten thousand miles'!"

"Yes, that's it, this sentence gives me a lot of feelings, since I went to China for academic exchanges, my horizons and horizons have also broadened, I went to many cities in China, I think China is full of opportunities, the future development is unstoppable, China is a very attractive oriental power, it is a lion awakened from its slumber, it has proved itself in its way!"

"In front of us is a big country in the East, it has become the second largest economy, GDP is growing, Chinese are getting richer and richer, long changed the previous impression that we think Chinese are poor, now many rich Chinese can afford very expensive luxury goods, those prices are staggering, many rich people have mansions abroad." ”

"Living in villas, driving luxury cars, the impossible before, has been realized, the people of China's first-tier cities have also moved into modern high-rise buildings, the most representative is Shanghai, I like the city of Shanghai very much, Shanghai is still Shikumen before, I have been to Shanghai, I have seen the French plane tree, I have also seen Shikumen, Shikumen is still relatively old, in the past, Shanghainese family crowded in Shikumen, it is very likely that Shikumen also lived in several families. ”

"Housing is difficult, and some families share a kitchen and bathroom, so it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and quarrels!"

"Now when I go to Shanghai again, a lot of changes have happened, Shikumen has been a lot less, a lot of demolition, there are very few retained, many places have been modern high-rise buildings, many families have happily moved to high-rise buildings with elevators to live, the environment of the community is very green, there are also planted French plane trees, there are green pines, and Japanese cherry blossoms, what is good, what is planted, the city of Shanghai is very foreign, the sea is inclusive, what is good, what is planted, the good places abroad are learned, but Shanghai people have their own smart, do not copy the old and bring forth the new, always find their own suitability。 ”

"This is what I admire about Shanghai, I also like Shanghai as a city, the climate there is also very livable, I also lived in Shanghai for a while, I went to the university to give lectures to college students, I also met a lot of Chinese teachers and students, and Chinese friends together to exchange views on the world, it is really happy, now looking back, I still think it is very interesting. ”

"These changes are not thought of before I went abroad, so I advocate that young people still take advantage of their youth, if there is a chance to go out to see, to which promising countries to go, because there are many opportunities, economic development is good, for young people means that there are learning opportunities, job opportunities, and even the opportunity to meet friends, to meet a partner in life, which is still good for young people, more going abroad to see means that your life will open another door, that is a new door, everything is possible！”

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