The Taste of Parenting Zhang Baotong 2019.2.23

There is a man who is not from a wealthy family, but he is neatly dressed, well-dressed, mild-mannered, kind-hearted, and gives people a sense of warmth and easy-going wherever he goes. In the morning, when he came out of the house, he saw some confetti and garbage scattered on the ground in front of the door, and he thought that maybe his neighbor had accidentally spilled it on the ground while taking out the garbage, so he went into the house and picked up a broom and dustpan to sweep the garbage off the ground.

Then, he went to the street snack bar for breakfast, but he had just bought steamed buns and soy milk, and before he could eat them, he saw the bus coming. He didn't bother to eat and got into the car. There were not many people on the car, and there were two yellow seats for the elderly, the weak, and the pregnant to sit on, but he didn't go to sit down, thinking that he was a normal big man, and sitting on the yellow seat would be very conspicuous, and he would feel very uncomfortable, so he kept standing next to him until other passengers got off the bus, and then he sat on the seat.

At this time, he can open the plastic bag, eat the bun and drink the soy milk while it is hot. However, he felt that the space in the car was too small, and he was afraid that the smell of leeks in the buns would affect the air in the car and make others smell bad, so he was embarrassed to eat it. Slowly, the number of people in the car began to increase, and it was even a little crowded, and he saw a middle-aged woman leading a three- or four-year-old child crowded in the crowd, so he hurriedly said to the middle-aged woman, come and sit. But when the middle-aged woman saw that he was older than herself, she refused to sit down. But he said sit down, and I'll get out of the car right away. So, the middle-aged woman sat on the seat with the child in her arms and asked the child to say thank you, uncle. It made him feel more comfortable than he did in his seat.

When he entered the desk, he saw Xiao Wang, a colleague in the department, drinking tea and smoking a cigarette. He felt that the young people were good-looking, and he was not embarrassed to say it, so he opened the door to allow air circulation. Xiao Wang immediately realized that he couldn't smoke in the office, so he hurriedly put out the cigarette. He turned on his computer and ate breakfast while watching the news. There was a lot of news to watch in the morning, but as soon as he saw the time to go to work, he immediately closed the news, opened the cabinet, took out the materials from it, and made notes while checking them.

After a while, the section chief asked him to pay his taxes. He came to the street corner and watched as the bus to the business hall was coming this way. As soon as he crossed the intersection, he could catch the bus, but at this time, the red light was on, but no vehicle passed. He could have run over to catch the bus. However, he consciously stood outside the zebra crossing and waited. He didn't cross the zebra crossing until the red light turned green, but the bus was already moving. He couldn't catch the bus and had to stand at the station for another twenty minutes.

When I came to the business hall where the tax was paid, there were a lot of people in line. He took out a copy of "The Reader" and looked at it while lining up. At this time, Manager Chen of the sales department saw him queuing, so he said to him, don't queue up, come over and let Xiao Liu handle it for you first. But he politely waved his hand at Manager Chen, saying that it doesn't matter if I line up, there is nothing else to do anyway. Because he is afraid that doing so will cause dissatisfaction among others and make customers have opinions about Manager Chen. So, he waited in line for an hour before he paid his taxes.

He is such a person, he always feels that his behavior may cause inconvenience to others, or make others feel uncomfortable and dissatisfied, and tries to restrain himself as much as possible and think about others as much as possible. Therefore, wherever he goes, it will be like a spring breeze that makes people feel relaxed and comfortable, and from this spring breeze, people can smell a fresh and refreshing smell. This taste is upbringing.