(ninety-two)
The two sisters and brothers divorced in 96, and after the divorce of the sunny monsoon, he worked hard to be a father and a mother with his daughter to live a sunny life. Because of my poor conditions at that time and I had children, it was difficult to find another partner.
It's been almost fifteen years since I got divorced. It's so good that from the divorce to the present, the conditions are getting better and better. People are following the development of society, even when they are divorced, there is basically no shortage of food and clothing.
It's just that this sunny monsoon took the children, went to work and took care of the children, and finally survived until now. So for so many years, he didn't think about personal problems, and he also thought that he himself was not capable of thinking about personal problems.
The child has been studying since he was a child, and when the child reads until the first year of high school, her own grades are poor, so she will not go to study. Now that she was twenty years old, she had already found a job to do.
In fact, Zhu'er knows some of these situations, but she usually doesn't pay attention to them, because although they are classmates, sometimes they play together at class reunions. But the classmates are not very good, so I haven't paid much attention to the sunny monsoon.
What's more, Zhu'er has only recently divorced. Before her divorce, her own feeling was that she couldn't even worry about her own affairs, so she didn't think about it so much.
Now when she heard Concubine Wu talk about the situation of the sunny monsoon, her heart suddenly remembered the dream she had at the Huayingshan Hotel, so she felt very strange. It was precisely because she felt strange that she called Concubine Wu to come with her all the way to Xiaoyu to ask for Xiaoyu's opinion.
According to Concubine Wu, the personality and character of this sunny monsoon are relatively good. Of course, Concubine Wu had never fought with Xiaoyu and didn't know enough about Xiaoyu, but she heard Zhu'er talk about Xiaoyu's situation. So she said that this sunny monsoon is similar to light rain in many ways.
Xiaoyu agrees with Zhu'er's evaluation of him, because people always have to have the same point of view to get together. He knew that Pearls liked people like him, so Pearls compared him to the sunny monsoon.
At this time, Xiaoyu thought in her heart: Zhu'er has been married to Yu Hua for so many years, and she has not lived a few comfortable days. Now that she is divorced, she seems to have just felt relaxed for a while, and someone has come to introduce her to someone. In her own heart, only she knows whether she wants to marry or not. Oh, she wants to get married, and if she doesn't want to get married, how can she come here to talk about it.
In fact, I have always regarded her as my own sister in my heart, as a piece of pure jade, and I am most worried that this piece of jade in my heart will be tarnished. From my heart, I hope that she will be like this, pure and pure in front of me forever for a lifetime.
Because deep down in my heart, I hope that she will have a good relationship with me in the next life. My idea was selfish, ridiculous, and even a little mean. But I always think that she is so important in my heart.
I think she must have seen how I usually behave in front of her, and she must have understood my heart. But as herself, she can't just live my life. Because she is also an independent person, an independent person, she should have her own wishes and desires, and she must live a wonderful life.
Other times, I feel in my heart that she is like my junior, or even like my daughter. Some people say that a daughter and her father are lovers in their previous lives. So when the daughter is older and is about to get married, not only the mother, but especially the father, is still very reluctant and uncomfortable. Therefore, as soon as I heard that she was going to marry her partner, I also had this feeling of attachment.
Then there is the dream I had more than 20 years ago, I wrote that dream and sent it to her, and she didn't receive it, and then she returned it, and I put it back for another 20 years, and I didn't show it to her until the year before last. The meaning of that dream was that she and I would not be able to be together until the next life. So I'm following the meaning of that dream again, and I will maintain her as if she were my lover in the next life. My idea was ethereal and funny, but I thought I was sincere.
Here Zhu'er is asking for Xiaoyu's opinion, and this Xiaoyu has thought so much in her heart. But in the end, he still felt that if he really cared about her, he had to support her to find a good partner. In the end, Zhu'er is only in her forties now, and the days ahead are still very long, as long as the object is found, the second half of her life is still possible. Although his heart is a little unreasonable, he has to think about others.
So he said: "Listening to what Concubine Wu said, the person of the sunny monsoon is still okay." It's just that since you have said this, you have to learn more about him in the future to see if you are compatible. It's good that you are already familiar with your classmates, and it is easy to get to know him. ”
Concubine Wu said: "Also, this matter still has to be understood by Zhu'er herself, and see if she thinks it is appropriate." Anyway, in my opinion, it's still possible. Because he and my mother's family are next to each other, we grew up together, and we are classmates, so he and I can still talk about each other. I sometimes see him when I go back to my parents' house now, and I see that he is really a little lonely. So I just thought like this, I think Pearl's divorced now, why not let Pearl'er and him be united. I thought so I told him. He was very satisfied when he heard it, so he asked me to tell Zhu'er. ”
Zhu'er said: "Okay, anyway, we are all classmates, one day call him, and a few more classmates, it's okay to play together." I'm not busy with this thing anyway. ”
At this time, Zhu'er talked about her dream again, and at this time, Zhu'er had already thought of that dream, that is, the dream she had at the Huayingshan Hotel. What the Buddha in the dream said, what he said didn't understand, Yu Yu, Qin Qing, Yu Yu, Qingqing. Or compare this "Yu" to "rain", and I don't know which "Qing" it is Qin Qin Qinqin. Now the classmate that Concubine Wu is talking about, he happens to be surnamed Qing. In this case, the only way to do this is to put it into the word "sunny" now. If that's the case, wouldn't that turn a rainy day into a sunny day? Isn't that a dream hinting at my marriage? Isn't that according to the meaning of the dream, my marriage to the surnamed Qing changed my fate?
Therefore, Zhu'er buried the signs of this dream deep in her heart. So she listened to this dream in detail. She also took the words she wrote down immediately when she woke up from her dream, and she was afraid of forgetting it, and flipped it out of her mobile phone for everyone to see.
She wrote down the dream like this:
It was difficult to be wronged in the previous life, and it was only in this life that I came to repay the debts. Now that the debts have been paid off at the beginning, the follow-up is thinking about enjoying it. Don't remember the past world, grasp the present life and never forget. The first half is like rain with Yu, and the second half is sunny with the sunny.
Ask the female benefactor to think carefully: Yu is like rain, sunny is sunny. Don't forget!
Although these rains and rains were slowly settled by herself, she felt that it was appropriate now.
Zhu'er's dream Xiaoyu listened to Zhu'er that day, and he also read what she wrote, but he didn't memorize that paragraph. Of course, this pearl, she memorized those few words backwards. Concubine Wu had already heard Zhu'er talk about this dream, so she listened to it.
But Yin Hong, who had been with her at this time, read and watched that passage again and again, she thought it was very interesting, very interesting, and even a little superstitious. She thought it was impossible, but the impossible thing happened in front of her eyes, but as for how this dream would manifest in the future, it was unknown. Because at this time, Zhu'er and the person surnamed Qing have not yet had a relationship at all. Therefore, Yin Hong at this time, she just shook her head with a shallow smile that seemed to believe it.
Over the years, because Zhu'er felt that her life was not good, she also believed in Buddhism. Although she is not so proficient in Buddhism, she is still very religious. She also believes that people have past lives, this life, and future lives, and she also believes in retribution for causes and consequences, and she also believes that everything that happens in this life is a test of good and evil in previous lives. Because of this, she believes in dreams very much, and she really regards that dream as a course to guide her destiny.
Later, Concubine Wu Xianfei talked about Qing Xiulan, the sister of the sunny monsoon. She said that not long after Qing Xiulan's divorce, she married a man who was also divorced nearby, and that man also had a five or six-year-old son by his side. But she always felt that this reunited family had no family warmth. The man is basically not a big problem, because both parties are divorced, so in terms of personality and attitude, both parties also have some sensitivities. Besides, it's a makeshift life, and it's not as close as people say about married couples. But both parties also want to get it, if they don't cherish the current status quo, it will be even worse to cause divorce.
What makes Qing Xiulan the most nerve-wracking is the son of that family. That is, no matter how good you are to him, no matter how you treat him, he is not close to you. Don't call your mother, even Auntie, he doesn't want to shout. He thinks you are wild, and thinks that you seduced his father, which made his father divorce his own mother. And he still hates his father, he always thinks that his father is not good to his own mother, so he caused the divorce. He also thought that his own mother was not good, so he abandoned him. He was sullen all day, and his personality became withdrawn, eccentric, and even introverted.
This is the harm that the vast majority of divorced families bring to their children.
Therefore, this Qing Xiulan is in a family that has no family affection and true love, although she and the man are both working in the factory, and they are still financially passable. It's that in mood and spirit, I've always been that kind of melancholy and anxious.
Let's talk about Yuan Yuan again. This Yuan Yuan divorced from the sunny monsoon and immediately married Qi Junhui. This Qi Junhui has a seven-year-old daughter, this daughter was born to Qing Xiulan, and Qing Xiulan did not take her daughter away after the divorce.
At the beginning, Qi Junhui and Yuan Yuan were still very good, because they (they) got married from the sunny monsoon. It is precisely because of the two of them that they are good that these two families broke up.
After the two of them got married, they were so good that they died. And both of these people are very good at enjoying, playing, and spending money. Although both of them are at work, they have not had any savings.
In addition, the daughter has grown up year by year, and the more she reads, the higher and higher the books are, the girl is gradually getting older, her own expenses are also large, and the tuition fee for reading is also high. Although the wages of the two people are rising every year, they are spending a lot of money when they meet these two people, so they are becoming more and more difficult financially.
This difficulty, the two of them have an opinion. This Yuan Yuan always thinks that she has worked hard for so many years, her money is all for this family, and her daughter was not born to her, and her daughter is not affectionate to her, and even hates her.
As for this Qi Junhui, she is becoming more and more unaccustomed to it. Not only did he smoke, drink and tea, but he was also lazy and didn't do housework. At work, he is also lazy and cranky, often criticized by the leader, and his salary is always less than others, and he is not a little self-motivated.
Although she loves to wear, eat, and play, she is in her factory, her work is quite advanced, and her salary is relatively high. Her money is used at home except for her own use, and the family is always in deficit.
Therefore, this pair of perfectly matched lovers who came together from wild mandarin ducks gradually split up. Until now, they (they) are just struggling to maintain this crumbling home.
And her own biological daughter, that is, since the day she abandoned her biological daughter, her biological daughter has been jealous of her. Although her daughter Qinglang was not yet six years old at the time, people who were close to six years old also had a long memory, so in the past ten years, although their mother and daughter sometimes had to meet, it was better to meet strangers when they met.
And the most embarrassing thing is that in the past ten years, there have been times when a family has not had something to do. So when something happens at a very rare time, when the sunny monsoon, Qing Xiulan, Qi Junhui, Yuan Yuan and other family members come together, everyone really feels embarrassed. They (they) are a sorrow when they have to meet, a hatred when they meet, and a worry after separation. But there is no regret in this world. Therefore, many things in the world are smart people or passionate people, who are looking for something to do for themselves.
Concubine Wu recalled these situations, which also revealed the crappy nature of the second marriage, and also reminded Zhu'er to be cautious. Although Concubine Wu trusts the sunny monsoon more, she still wants the person concerned to choose the object she feels like. Because they are very good classmates and the most intimate friends. And Concubine Wu's marriage is not very satisfactory, so she looks forward to Zhu'er's second marriage, which can be satisfied.