Tolerance and forbearance, translated by Zhang Bao 2018.1.20

They have been married for two years. He loved literature and often published his works online, but almost never read them. He also likes photography and often takes wedding photos for others. He loved her as much as she loved him so much. She has a short temper and always bullies him. He was a gentleman and always subservient to her. Today, she is headstrong again.

She said, "Why can't you be the photographer for my friend's wedding?" and she promised to pay you. ”

He replied, "I didn't have time that day. ”

She snorted with an eyebrow raised. And he replied with a grin.

Then she said, "Why don't you have time? You don't write all those useless things, don't you have all the time?"

"I can't say that, my work will be liked one day," he said. ”

But she said, "I don't care, you have to do it for her!"

He said, "No." ”

She said, "Just this once, what?"

He shook his head and said, "Not really. ”

Negotiations broke down. So, she issued him an ultimatum, "You must give me a positive answer within three days, otherwise, you will be responsible for everything." ”

She went on strike, stopped entering the kitchen, and didn't care about the bathroom, the computer, the refrigerator, the TV, the hi-fi, etc., in short, except for the double bed, she didn't care about anything at home. The reason why she also has to make the double bed is because she also sleeps on it. But he didn't mind, because he at least had cash in his pocket.

The next day, she conducted a raid, pulled everything out of his pocket, and said in a warning tone, "Don't ask anyone for help, or you will do it at your own risk." "He was very nervous about it. That night, he lay in bed and pleaded with her, hoping that she would end the situation, but she showed no mercy. No matter what he said, she wouldn't budge until he agreed to work as a photographer for her friend.

On the night of the third day, he lay in bed, looked over to the other side where she was lying, and said to her, "We need to talk." ”

She said, "Unless it's about a wedding, forget about it." ”

"It's a very important thing," he said. ”

So, she made a deaf look.

He said, "Let's get a divorce." ”

She didn't believe her ears and said, "Why?"

"I met a girl," he said. ”

When she heard this, she was very angry and gritted her teeth and wanted to beat him, but she held back, wanting to wait for him to finish speaking. But tears were already welling up in her eyes.

He pulled out a picture from his vest pocket on his chest. It was the only thing she missed when she rummaged through his pockets yesterday. She was so careless.

He said to her, "She's a good girl." ”

Her tears had rolled down.

"She has a lot of personality," he said. ”

She was devastated because he had put the picture of the girl on his chest.

He continued, "She said she would give my full support to my literary pursuits when we got married. ”?

She was jealous, and she had said the same thing in the past.

"She really loved me," he said. ”

She wanted to sit up and say to him aloud, "Am I not like that?"

"So, I don't think she's going to force me to do something I don't want to do." ”

She was reflecting, but still angry.

At this point, he said, "Do you want to see the pictures I took of her?"

She looked a little hesitant.

He held the picture in front of her eyes and shook it. She was furious, and it was a slap in the face to him. He was startled, and felt a hot sensation on his face. He looked at her with exasperation and sighed. But she withdrew her hand and stretched it under the blanket, and she began to cry.

He put the photo back in his pocket, turned off the light, and went to sleep. But she turned on the light and sat up from her bed while crying. After a while, he fell asleep. But she couldn't sleep. She regretted that she shouldn't have treated him like that. Thinking like this, she began to cry again and remembered many things. She wanted to wake him up, have another cordial conversation with him, and show him that she didn't want to force him anymore. She stared at his chest to see what the girl was really like. She took the picture out, and looking at it, she wanted to cry and laugh.

It's a very good photo, and it's a picture he took for her. She bent down and kissed him on the cheek. He smiled, but was still pretending to be asleep.

In this way, in life, you must not only learn to love the perfect person you find, but also learn to look at an imperfect person in a perfect way.