The beautiful gorgeous sunshine Zhang Baotong 2018.1.27

Recently, I've seen some British couples talking about how they've been in love for decades and just like their first love. At first, I couldn't understand how these forty or fifty-year-old husbands and wives still loved each other like their first love. Because at least half of the old husbands and wives of this age have been divorced in the United States or the United Kingdom. However, when I watched their love trajectory, I found that they have always lived separately from each other, and often only see each other once or twice a month. And every time we meet, it's only a day or two, and before we have enough intimacy, we're going to separate again. In this regard, I thought that if many relationships broke down, and the couples could live apart like this, they might not have divorced.

In our dealings with our lovers, family members and others, we also feel and feel distance and beauty everywhere. It is precisely this sense and feeling of distance beauty that influences the changes in our relationship with them. If we want to have a good or good relationship with them, we must keep an appropriate distance from them, maintain a good image, words and attitude when dealing with them, and try not to talk to them about sensitive and inappropriate topics. If you encounter their irrationality and misunderstanding, you should explain and avoid them skillfully. In fact, many siblings who live together act like enemies for the sake of their parents' property or some right and wrong. Distance produces beauty, and distance destroys beauty. This requires us to adjust the focus of our interactions with others and keep a good distance. In this way, we can build a fence around us in the midst of many rights and wrongs.

A high quality of life and life requires a keen and thirsty for beauty. It fills many of our mundane and subtle lives with joy and joy. Sometimes when we listen to a famous song, read a good book, watch a famous painting, or read a Tang poem, it will make our mood fresh and bright, and the poetry and painting will overflow in our hearts. Piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, poetry and ink printing, as well as singing and dancing, gymnastics, sports, photography, etc., all contain the characteristics and connotations of beauty. If a person takes books as his friend, dances as his companions, takes ink as his pleasure, makes a living from painting, and puts the interest and pleasure of life in the pursuit of art, then he will definitely have a deeper understanding of the meaning and realm of beauty, and feel quite satisfied and satisfied with the meaning and value of life.

The value of beauty is not only in its appearance, but also in its connotation. A beauty will make us touch our hearts and fall in love at first sight. However, there are good and bad beauties, the good can take you to heaven, and the bad can send you to hell. Many of us have failed and been persecuted in our lives because we have found a woman who is outside of the gold and ruined in it. And the beauty of the heart is the most beautiful embodiment of a woman. It will make you grow in brightness and relaxation like sunshine and rain and dew, and make you feel the most beautiful comfort and feeling in the world. Either Goethe will say: beauty on the outside can only please for a while, and beauty on the inside can endure!

The connotation of beauty is the soul of beauty. The melody of a song makes us feel wonderful and pleasant, and the connotation and artistic conception expressed in the melody will make us have endless aftertaste. We can't put down the picture of a painting, but the deep and rich background meaning of the picture makes us amazed and amazed. The first time we played chess, the first time we played, the first time we sang and danced, we didn't feel any beauty, but when we gradually went deeper and higher, we found that the beauty of art was boundless and endless.

It is because of so much beauty that this world is so beautiful. Whenever the stream of beauty flows in our hearts and the waves of beauty stir in our hearts, we will feel that the meaning of life begins to sublimate and the flowers of life bloom in our hearts. Gradually, we discover that beauty not only exists in our eyes and hearts, but also that beauty can be emulated and created. We create fairy tales, create myths, create reality, and create the future. We create art, create harmony, create life, and create miracles. Beauty is the source of creation. The power of beauty is immense.

"The moon frolicks in the autumn water and the water breeze kisses the willows, the fish plays in the lotus pond and the swallows cut the clouds" is beautiful; "Parking and sitting in love with the maple forest at night, the frost leaves are red in February flowers" is also beautiful. "In the past, I went back, and the willows were still there. Now I think about it, "rain and snow" is beauty, like flowers, like water. Morning clouds and twilight fog, eternal nostalgia is also beautiful. It is beautiful to treat each other with all your heart and stay for a lifetime, and it is also beautiful to be sad and parting, and it is also beautiful to have a blank thought. The blue clouds and red leaves, brilliant as the glow are beautiful, the wind and the snow are remnant, and the moon is also beautiful. Beauty is pleasing to the eye, relaxing, and beauty is exciting, and the aftertaste is endless.

Our aesthetics and love of beauty are not just for pleasure and pleasure, but more to let it nourish our body and mind like sunshine and rain, optimize our speech and behavior, poetize our conduct and temperament, let us get rid of ugliness and vulgarity, become a person with a pure appearance and an elegant heart, and become a respected and loved person. Because beauty makes us happy, makes us intoxicated, moves us, immerses us in it, and makes us obsessed with yearning and pursuing a lifetime. That's what beauty means.

Beauty is so magical, so that our mood and soul become rich and beautiful, so that our body and mind are sincere and natural like the sun, filled with the breath of beauty, and always maintain the innocence and beauty of the heart.