Good habits are better than Wanguan family property Zhang Baotong2016.10.18

Habits are the most important and stable quality of a person. The formation of any kind of ability www.biquge.info pen, fun, and pavilion is the result of forming good habits. Good habits are the foundation of a healthy personality, the foundation of a successful life, and a shortcut to success. Bad habits, on the other hand, lead to failure. For our lives, good habits are often better than thousands of family assets.

There is a coal boss in Shanxi who is worth billions of dollars, only in his 40s, and has undergone two or three surgeries for liver cancer, but after the third operation, he is whimpering. People are so sad and helpless, although he has a lot of money, but money can't save his life. Wang Junyao, chairman of Shanghai JuneYao Milk Company, had assets of 3.5 billion yuan when he was 38 years old, which can be said to be a miracle in the industry! He already had everything that others wanted to have, but it was a pity that just when his career was going to glory, his body collapsed, and rectal cancer eventually took his life. His wife remarried his driver, and his children became someone else's child as a matter of course. Everything he once owned became someone else's thing! And this man drove his car, lived in his room, hugged his woman, and when he was unhappy, he would abuse his children, and his mouth would say: "Wang Junyao's life is the life of working for me!" Everyone think about it, isn't Wang Junyao's final result very sad? After a lifetime of hard work, even his life was put into it, but in the end, he was cheaper than another man!

There are many such cases, such as the unfortunate death of the owner of a listed company in Jiangmen, Guangdong, with a net worth of 3 billion yuan, due to a sudden myocardial infarction. According to Kinglight's third quarterly report this year, Tian Chou holds 107.643 million shares of the company, with a shareholding ratio of 57.66%, and a net worth of more than 3.1 billion yuan before the suspension of the stock price of 29.56 yuan per share. In the Hurun Report disclosed earlier, Tian Chou and Jiang Xiaorong ranked 1561st on the list with a net worth of 2.4 billion.

Xu Ming, a 44-year-old former chairman of Success Group and Success Club, died of acute myocardial infarction. Xu Ming founded Dalian Shide Group in 1992 and served as the president of Dalian Shide Group. In addition, Xu Ming has also served as the chairman of Dalian Shide Football Club, the vice chairman of Dalian Commercial Bank Co., Ltd., the director of Pacific Insurance (Group) Co., Ltd., a member of the Standing Committee of the Liaoning Provincial Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, the vice chairman of Dalian Zhi Gong Party, the vice chairman of the Liaoning Chamber of Commerce of the China Chamber of International Commerce, and the vice chairman of the China Guanghua Science and Technology Foundation. In 2005, Xu Ming was ranked eighth on the "Forbes China Rich List". In 2011, in the first "Northeast Wealth Report" released by Hurun Institution, Xu Ming ranked fifth with assets of 13 billion yuan.

Wu Huitian started from a small workshop and created the myth of the DVD industry, which is an admirable "benchmark" in Zhangzhou, serving as a member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, a member of the Standing Committee of the All-China Federation of Industry and Commerce, and a member of the Executive Committee. This outstanding private entrepreneur, who has repeatedly created miracles in the business world, finally fell to his job. Wu Huitian died suddenly of pancreatitis on the evening of May 15, leaving behind 3.6 billion yuan in assets and a Malata ranked 34th among the top 100 electronic information companies in China.

Our Daming Palace area in Xi'an has created many very famous big bosses because of the real estate business, and their beginnings and operations are talked about by the locals. I've met some of them and know that they have a lot of money, they can't spend it for generations, and they have changed wives, but many of them have one common concern, which is that they are seriously ill. Among them, the two richest brothers in the Daming Palace area have five building materials cities and two large building materials markets in Xi'an and Baoji. is also worth billions. However, two years ago, my brother had already died of kidney disease, and now my brother is not in good health, and he has undergone major surgery on his liver in the United States. What a sad thing it must be for a person to have so much money and not have a good body.

Why do some people always try their best to earn money, regardless of their body, until their body is overdrawn, there are serious problems, and even when they are terminally ill, they understand the importance of their body and health. In fact, who doesn't know the importance of health and health? However, they have already been dominated by some unhealthy lifestyles and formed habits. And these bad habits put them in a state of chronic suicide. By the time his condition deteriorated and he lost his strength, their lives were nearing the end.

The reason why they have this situation is nothing more than the hardships and costs they have paid more than ordinary people in the process of entrepreneurship and development. Of course, this kind of hardship and price is not to endure hardships and fatigue of manual labor, but to have too much entertainment in order to expand the territory or expand the business. Most of these socials are eating, drinking, and having fun, the most well-known of which are drinking and playing mahjong, and even looking for a lady. If there are many people who drink and play mahjong, there are not many people like them who do it as a job.

As you know, things are usually not easy to do in China, and if private bosses want to expand and develop, they have to ask for help from many government departments, such as industry and commerce, land, environmental protection, as well as banks and other departments. Therefore, these departments and personnel have to be counted and eaten. And often it is not used once or twice, but it has to be invited four or five times or seven or eight times. So, during the period of their business, they had to eat and drink almost every day, and then ask someone to play mahjong with them, so that they could send some money to those they asked for help.

In the same way, because they are big bosses, they have a lot of resources and land in their hands, and the people below them have to turn to them for help, including many relatives and friends. They also come twice a day to invite these private bosses to eat, drink, and play mahjong. Therefore, these private big bosses are invited to eat and drink every day for lunch and dinner.

Not to mention that they "commit chronic suicide" like this every day, but how many of them fell on the wine table on the spot? A district party committee leader in a certain district of Xi'an collapsed at the wine table while accompanying the wine table. This incident has had a very bad impact in the whole city, even in the province and the whole country. Another trade union cadre who I used to work with was transferred to a middle school as vice principal for general affairs, but after only two months of going to school, he collapsed during a drink. In the past, we used to eat and drink together, and he not only liked to drink, but also drank a lot.

Excessive alcohol consumption and daily gastronomy are actually a form of chronic suicide. You can think about how much harm a person's health will be caused if he eats the food and wine in the restaurant all day long and has formed a daily habit! If he arranges to play mahjong at night after dinner, or arranges a young and beautiful lady to serve him. Then his life is just like that of the ancient emperors. And how many of the emperors of antiquity were not short-lived?

I have a very good friend and my apprentice, who used to work at Xi'an Station, he is only a year older than me, but he has been away from us for more than 20 years. He was not yet 40 years old when he died. His untimely death was entirely the result of bad lifestyle habits. He was a heavy drinker and gambler, and he worked three shifts, often without sleeping at night, so he went to play cards, and when he played cards, he went to drink, and he drank more than a dozen bottles of beer. And he has a large group of drinking friends and card friends around him, and his daughter-in-law can't control him at all. This life lasted for more than ten years, and finally it took his life. Moreover, several of their drinking and poker friends died or were paralyzed before the age of fifty.

I have another typical example of chronic suicide with bad lifestyle habits. I have a student who taught in middle school, he was born in 85, and he should be 31 years old this year, but when he was 27 years old, he suddenly had a stroke, fortunately he was sent to the hospital in time for rescue, although his life was saved, but due to the large infarction, his left limb was paralyzed, and his speech function was impaired.

This student did not do well in his studies in the past, and after graduating from high school, he did not go to university, so he started a small business on his own. Later he opened an online store. Because of Zhang Luo's business, he sat in front of the computer for a long time and ordered takeout when he ate. The online store can only be supported by itself, and it is often busy until one or two o'clock in the morning before returning home every day. Over time, he developed the habit of staying up late and eating supper. On the day of the illness, he was already hungry and had no intention of sleeping, so he invited a few people to have a barbecue and drank a few beers, and did not return home until 3 o'clock in the morning. When he got home, he took a shower and was just about to leave the bathroom, when suddenly his left limb couldn't move, and his breathing began to be difficult, and he couldn't even say anything when he wanted to shout for help, so he had to twist his body and hit the bathroom door. Fortunately, the noise in the toilet woke up his family, and he was taken to the hospital in time for treatment.

The central hospital gave him a CT scan, and found that he had a large infarction of the brain, resulting in the immobility of the left limb, the crooked corners of the mouth, and the dysfunction of speech, which is commonly known as a stroke. Currently, the rehabilitation doctor is still performing acupuncture treatment, gait training and speech training. In the training room of the rehabilitation department, he can only walk in a circular gait, and it seems difficult to grasp objects with his left hand. After a few language trainings, he was able to make simple sounds such as "pain" and "eating". Parents still can't believe that strokes don't happen to the elderly, but how can their son have a stroke when he's so young?

According to the doctor, stroke is more common in patients with underlying diseases such as hypertension, dyslipidemia, and diabetes, and young people with congenital cerebrovascular malformations are also prone to stroke. Generally, strokes are more common in middle-aged and elderly people over 40 years old, and stroke is indeed rare at such a young age and without medical history. But he said that patients who are tired for a long time, stay up late, and eat irregularly are the biggest factors that lead to stroke. Moreover, it is not uncommon for young people to have strokes due to long-term alcoholism, smoking, staying up late, eating greasy, high-fat foods, sedentary lifestyle, and abnormal metabolism.

Although many of us know that lifestyle habits are essential to our life and health, life and health cannot be repaid by any money. But in fact, many of us only focus on earning more money, and neglect our own health and health. In order to earn more money, we can work overtime, we can stay up late, and we can even ignore the pressure and fatigue. On the contrary, how many people consider that if we work too hard and earn more money, it may harm our health or wear out our life. In our daily lives and around us, we can see that some people, after retirement, still stand on the road to help others with traffic management, drive trains or cars for other private companies, or run substitute classes and janitors. Although some jobs may not seem very physically demanding, as long as you earn other people's money, you have to worry about it. And people are like that, if you're busy with this, you can't be busy with that. You're busy going to work and earning money, so you don't have much time to exercise. The end result is that the more money you make, the worse your body gets. You can't spend all the money you earn, so you can only leave it to your son, and your own health is not good, so you can only suffer it yourself, and it will bring trouble to your children. They don't care much if you give your children extra money, and they don't appreciate it, but when you get sick and trouble them, they will be impatient. And for us ordinary people, we will not be like the above big bosses, we can earn a lot of money, even if you can earn a lot of money, but if your body is broken, can you use that money to buy your health back?

In fact, for ordinary people like us, we can live well without earning that much money, even if we earn that much money, it will not change our lives. Therefore, we should still spend more time and energy on caring for our bodies. Even for young people who are still starting their own businesses, it is necessary not only to think about earning more money, but also to pay special attention to their health and health. Don't develop a bad lifestyle, let alone let a bad lifestyle become a habit for us. Don't smoke, don't drink, don't stay up late, don't overwork, and don't put yourself under too much pressure and burden in order to earn more money.

There is a big boss in Checheng here in our Daming Palace, who almost died because of health problems. Later, he used the fourth floor to set up a table tennis activity room in his car city, with two tables, and specially hired a person who played better to be his sparring partner and the administrator of the room. Accompany him to play and practice every afternoon, and pay him a salary of 3,000 yuan per month. When I first saw him a few years ago, his hands were shaking and his face was very gray. However, over the years, not only has his physical condition improved, but his skills have also improved a lot. Every time there is a competition in the city or district, he has to personally form a team and lead the team to participate in the competition.

There is an urban village next to our community, and the farmers in the village are very rich because they rent out their houses. Therefore, the phenomenon of playing cards and gambling in the village is very common. There was a village cadre who also liked to play cards and gamble. For this reason, not only did he often quarrel with his family, but his body also collapsed. Later, he went to a house in the village with a table to play, and saw that they had invited some people to play. He also tried to play a few times, and as a result, he fell in love with playing table tennis, and also threw a table on the fourth floor of the top floor of his house, and invited some people who love to play to play with him every day. Over time, he not only fell in love with playing and quit playing cards, but also became much better than he used to be.

Good habits are the wealth of our lives, and bad habits are chronic suicide. Therefore, we quit bad habits and gradually develop good habits. We need to set aside time for fitness and exercise every day. When you do the same thing at the same time every day, you can gradually build a habit. Once a pattern is formed, daily fitness and exercise will be as important as eating and sleeping. Everyone has their own habits. Good habits can make people stand in the place of life without regrets. Bad habits often make people miss out on a lot of irretrievable wealth. Habits form character, and character determines fate. We need to develop good habits and get rid of bad habits. Let good habits become the driving force of our lives and a part of our daily routine. (To be continued.) )