Beauty is so important to usZhang Baotong 2018.6.22

Everyone has a love for beauty, and a love for beauty is born. The love of beauty is the trend of human evolution, and it is also a sign that human beings are constantly moving towards perfection. People's love for beauty is not taught by others, but is already in the genes. The baby doesn't know who is good and who is bad, but he is very happy when the charity man hugs him, but when the ugly man hugs him, he cries and makes a fuss and refuses to let him be held. Some time ago, the neighbor took his granddaughter who had just turned two years old to eat in the restaurant, but when the meal was served, the granddaughter cried and refused to eat, and when she asked about the situation, the granddaughter pointed to an aunt on the opposite table and said, that person is too ugly, and I don't want to eat when I look at her. So, the neighbor took her granddaughter to change the table. But for a two-year-old child, who taught her about it?

Some people may think that this two-year-old girl is judging people by their appearance. From very young children to very old people, who doesn't like young and beautiful women? Who doesn't like handsome and handsome guys? Whether it's the written descriptions in literary works or the pictures in photography and painting, especially those beauties in movies and television who are as beautiful as flowers and captivate the country and the city, who doesn't like it?

Young and beautiful people are always loved and admired, while ugly and ugly people are always disgusted and despised. Even villains like Xi Shi and Minchan, and even villains like Pan Jinlian and Chen Yuanyuan, often make people sympathize with them because of their beautiful looks and natural appearance. It is said that Su Da has been as beautiful as a peach blossom, enchanting and moving, bewitching the king to indulge in women's sex, absurdity and misleading the country, when the Zhou people destroyed the Shang, when killing Daji, even the executioner was fascinated by its beauty, and could not bear to start. Throughout ancient and modern times, there are thousands of examples of such as "heroes are sad to pass the beauty pass" and "love the country and love the beauty more"?

Even Albert Einstein explained the theory of relativity and said, "If you spend two hours with a beautiful girl, you will feel as if you are only one minute, and if you sit on the stove for one minute, you will feel like you have been sitting for two hours." "Not to mention sitting with a beautiful girl for two hours, even doing two hours of heavy physical work with a beautiful girl, it also makes people feel pleasing to the eye and relaxed. Or, people are going to say, "Men and women are matched and they don't get tired of working." Of course, this woman refers to a beautiful woman, and if this woman is an old and ugly woman, it will definitely feel very different.

In ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, who does not admire the appearance of flowers and the moon and the fragrance of the country? Who does not want to find a peerless and independent beauty who looks like a fairy? However, the beautiful appearance will easily disappear, in addition to the reasons why youth is fleeting and Shaohua is easy to grow old, the fragrance of the distance and the smell of the smell and the change of thoughts are also one of the very important reasons. Otherwise, when people become infatuated with a certain beauty and marry her, it won't be long before they feel that she is not as beautiful and lovely as she used to be. Otherwise, there are many people who love each other to death before marriage, and soon after marriage, they begin to divorce. The reason for the divorce is because I found that the other party is no longer as good as it used to be. Especially in front of the emperor, there are so many beautiful women dangling in front of his eyes every day, how can he not be dizzy and dazzled? However, there are always some beauties who can make the emperor collect thousands of favors in one, which cannot but make people feel stunned and amazed.

In fact, this is the most important place for women to explore and study. For example, Yang Yuhuan, such as Zhao Feiyan, such as Mrs. Li, such as Concubine Dong E, especially Wan Guifei, who is 17 years older than Ming Xianzong, can make the emperor unmoved no matter how beautiful and gorgeous the three thousand in the harem are, how bright and moving, and always love her very much, and pamper her to tolerate everything that Wan Guifei did, and also abolished the queen Wu for her.

It is really not easy for a woman to be favored by the emperor for a long time or even a lifetime. Although these women are all beautiful and beautiful, but if a woman only relies on these to please the emperor, I am afraid it will not last long. However, if the appearance is not beautiful, a woman will not even be selected for the palace. Even in our marriage today, finding a partner is the easiest thing for people to judge people by their appearance. We often say that appearance determines whether it is possible to be together, personality determines whether it is suitable to be together, material determines whether they can be together stably or not, and trust determines whether they can be together for a long time. If the appearance is denied, then there is no need to say anything about the rest of the matter.

Why is it that some women give people a sense of beauty before marriage, but after marriage, they are shocked? Maybe she doesn't feel the need to act for that man anymore. Because acting requires makeup, makeup is very troublesome and time-consuming. Imagine a woman who often wears makeup and suddenly stops wearing makeup, what kind of change will it be? Giving up makeup, not only just want to be lazy, but more importantly, you relax yourself, start to slow down, and no longer regard the man in front of you as so important. So, the man in front of you will also start to see you less important. This is the prelude to the beginning of marriage and love to disintegrate.

Don't underestimate this "beauty", it is a magnet for men and women to love and attract each other. Men and women are not related by blood, unlike fathers and sons or mothers and daughters, no matter what happens, they always break bones and tendons. This relationship can never be changed. But husband and wife are actually lovers. A lover's relationship is to treat each other in the same way as a lover. And the most important relationship between lovers is mutual attraction. Otherwise, there is a risk that the two will part ways. Because it is a lover relationship, neither men nor women can do excessive things, and they cannot make the other party feel disgusted and disgusted with you. So, you have to keep yourself in good shape all the time. Men need to be self-motivated and make women feel safe and comfortable. Women should maintain their beauty, whether it is in appearance, temperament, temperament and soul, they must show more beauty, so that men can appreciate you and love you. Once a man appreciates you and loves you, he can tolerate and forgive any mistakes you make; if a man doesn't love you anymore, he will turn a blind eye to any of your advantages, and he will yell at you when there is nothing to do, make a big fuss, and force you to divorce.

A woman's sense of beauty in temperament and soul is often more important than the beauty of her appearance, and it can last for a long time. The beauty of appearance is easy to be affected by the vicissitudes of time, but the beauty of a woman's talent and temperament can be appreciated and tasted for a long time. The reason why we are talking about Yang Yuhuan, Zhao Feiyan, Mrs. Li, Concubine Dong E, and the Wan Guifei is because they have a kind of beauty that the emperor can't give up, and this beauty is irreplaceable by others. If both our men and women have a beauty that the other person loves deeply and can't let go, then do we still worry about our marriage disintegrating, or our other partner cheating on each other?

We naturally love young and beautiful young ladies and handsome little brothers, but beautiful women and handsome guys who are not beautiful in their hearts make us extremely disgusted and even hated. We don't like older people, but some of them make us feel as amiable and respectable as our parents. In fact, usually colleagues, friends or acquaintances are together, and it doesn't matter who is beautiful or ugly, even if their wives or husbands are good-looking or not, they don't care too much, so at this time, people pay more attention to their hearts and temperaments, and their style of dealing with people and things. This is what we said earlier: appearance determines whether it is possible to be together, personality determines whether it is suitable to be together, material determines whether it can be stable together, and trust determines whether it can be together for a long time. In other words, marriage and love are a combination of appearance, temperament, money, and trust. And the appearance, personality and trust in it all belong to the category of beauty. Especially in today's situation where living conditions are relatively good, most people no longer worry about their livelihood, so the beauty of each other is particularly important.

Well, who wouldn't want to live with a woman with a charming appearance, but if this charming woman has upset you and cannot be at peace, then we might as well find a woman with a mediocre appearance. Because a person with a beautiful appearance and an ugly heart is like a poppy flower, which can only bring poison to people.

Our hearts always yearn for beauty and longing for beauty, but in the world, there is no gold and no one is perfect. The word perfect is also only relative. Therefore, when we pursue the beauty of women or men, we should focus more on the beauty of their temperament and the beauty of their souls, and look at the beauty of their appearance a little lightly. As ordinary people, if you want to find a beautiful woman or man, you have to put up with their arrogance and willfulness. On the contrary, if you find a woman and a man with a mediocre appearance, maybe she will take you very seriously and love you deeply. Because a person who takes himself very seriously is unlikely to take you very seriously, on the contrary, a person who takes himself very lightly can easily take you very seriously. And whether the beauty of the appearance is an important factor in whether a woman or a man takes himself seriously. Therefore, when we choose a lover or marriage, we should not regard the appearance of the other person as the first priority, but put the beauty of the other person's temperament and soul first. As the saying goes, seeing people's hearts over time, will make the other party's appearance become peaceful, and will see the other party's heart very thoroughly over time, so you will slowly discover which things can be tolerated by the other party and what things cannot be tolerated. Over time, we will be able to see the beauty on the outside and the ugliness on the inside, or the people or things that are ugly on the outside and beautiful on the inside. "Notre Dame de Paris" is about such beauty and ugliness.

Beauty can make us mature and beautiful. We yearn for beauty and desire beauty, but we can't just need others to provide you with beauty and pleasure, and you yourself are unwilling to provide beauty and express beauty for others. If this goes on for a long time, you will be disliked and disgusted by others, and eventually abandoned by others.

Beauty is so important to us that it's hard to buy. Although it is not clearly priced, and it cannot be bought, sold and traded, it is the most direct reason for whether we love each other and whether we are attracted to each other. Because of beauty, two couples who live in poverty can live happily and happily, on the contrary, because they lose their sense of beauty, two people who live in high-end villas will also easily divorce.

If you pay a little attention, you'll see that we're very good at judging and talking about things around us and around us. And these comments and arguments are to show what is beautiful and what we like, and what is ugly and what we dislike. As long as we continue to improve ourselves in the places that everyone likes, and continue to discipline ourselves according to the aspects that everyone hates, then we will become more and more beautiful and more and more likeable.