118. Why get married
"The doctor said I was recovering well. ”
In fact, Zhu Zhu knows what Mr. Dai is thinking, since he was pregnant and gave birth to the confinement period, he has been a child for almost half a year, he can rub her every day these days, and sometimes he sleeps until midnight and his clothes are taken off. When he woke up and asked if he did it, he only said that he was confused and didn't know if it was, maybe it was.
Let's see, what we have to hold onto.
When Mr. Dai heard this answer, he was very happy.
I couldn't wait to pull Zhu Zhu to take a mandarin duck bath, the two of you look at me, I look at you, the more you look at your body, the hotter it becomes, and you can't help yourself in the depths of your love.
Just when the two were about to do business, the baby who had slept well woke up.
The two woke up suddenly, still holding each other, looked at each other twice, and then stared at the little cub, not knowing whether she was hungry or pulling.
Mr. Dai took a small notebook from the bedside table with his free hand, looked through the time of the last milk drink and diaper change, and determined what was the reason why Xiao Chengcheng woke up.
"I guess I'm hungry!"
It's cold in November, even if the air conditioning is on in the room.
Mr. Dai had to re-dress, got out of bed to make milk powder for the little cub, drank the milk and the little guy was in good spirits, the little hands and feet were particularly happy, and after a while he smelled a foul smell, the child was really rectum, and he pulled after eating.
After some tossing, it was already an hour or two later.
The good atmosphere just now has dissipated without a trace, and Mr. Dai looked at the sleeping cub and gritted his teeth, helpless.
Zhu Zhu and the others yawned and became drowsy.
"Or tomorrow?"
There was a thick nasal voice between the words, and I was really sleepy.
Mr. Dai's tone was resentful, holding Zhu Zhu and humming: "I'm about to hold the monk!"
"Besides, you have been a vegetarian for more than 20 years, and this time it is only half a year, why can't you help it? ”
Zhu Zhu said this sentence with a little weakness.
In the past six months, she has sometimes thought about a woman, not to mention that Mr. Dai is a big man.
"You haven't heard a sentence, from thrift to luxury, from luxury to frugality. Have you ever seen a wolf that eats meat go back to a vegetarian diet?"
"Wolves are meant to eat meat, and that's not the right analogy. ”
"How can it be called appropriate, otherwise you can talk about it, lady!" Okay, for the sake of the lower body, all sweet words are used, and even the lady is called.
"Even if you don't have me, in your single-headed career, don't you have your good partner "Five Girls" to accompany you, in this special period, you can also let it accompany you, I will pretend not to see it. ”
The two chatted with each other, and Zhu Zhu's drowsiness woke up a little.
She wanted to see Mr. Dai's reaction when she heard this, but Mr. Dai was very calm, holding her from behind, and the movements of his hands did not stop: "Didn't I say it just now, it is difficult to go from luxury to frugality, and with a lady by her side, it has completely fallen out of favor." Besides, if the "five girls" can completely solve the problem, why do so many people still bother to get married. ”
"Then tell me, why do people get married?"
"Why get married, there are many reasons, for love for love and desire for inheritance are the reasons, some people feel that talking about "sex" is a very shameful thing, but I think, "sex" occupies a very important part of the relationship between husband and wife, I have also seen a lot of people who say that they want to have a sexless marriage, I do not criticize other people's concept of marriage, but in my personal opinion, I am not optimistic about this kind of marriage relationship, human evolution has so far, even in the most primitive time, the instinctive impulse in the body, there is a "sex" thing, it is impossible to say that there is no no. But the difference between humans and animals is that people don't just go up to people, they have to be with the people they love. With the person you love is called "doing, love", and with anyone who has no feelings, it can only be called **. ”
Zhu Zhu turned his face to Mr. Dai: "But many people say that there is no difference between men and animals, they all rely on the lower body to think, even if they have no feelings, they can do it." ”
Mr. Dai touched Zhu Zhu's head helplessly: "I don't deny that there are such men, maybe there are many, but I don't believe that there are no such women? Is it just because I have met one or two scumbags that I have to accuse all the men in the world of not having a good thing?"
Zhu Zhu grabbed the clothes on Mr. Dai's chest, as if talking to herself: "You mean, did I find a treasure......
The voice was very soft and soft, and the last words were drowned in Mr. Dai's kiss.
This sleep is Zhu Zhu's most comfortable sleep from pregnancy and childbirth to the present, Xiao Chengcheng slept until six o'clock in the morning after eating milk and changing diapers last night.
What a surprise.
"If you can continue like this, you don't have to feed at night, and when I go to work, you won't be too tired with me. ”
"Chengcheng is only more than two months now, so I won't have to feed at night so soon. ”
Mr. Dai is very confident: "What's impossible, her parents are by her side, and her schedule is very clear, I think it's very possible." Anyway, you relax, the child wakes up at night, even if she is crying, don't hug it immediately, first find out why she is crying. Only by figuring out why she is crying and giving her what she needs in time will the child not stop crying. ”
Zhu Zhu ate breakfast, listened to Mr. Dai's long discussion on how to take care of the child, and looked at him suspiciously: "Where did you see these truths?" ”
"Book, of course. I think it makes sense. ”
"I'll show it later. ”
"Okay, I bought another book in the past few days, called "Love and Freedom", I can read it while I have time now. ”
Later, Zhu Zhu really felt Mr. Dai's vision, in the process of getting along with the child, the child appeared a lot of incomprehensible behaviors, and the answers could be found in the book, so that she could not be so anxious. Of course, that's an afterthought!
Later, as Mr. Dai said, when the child is two months old, there is no need to get up at night.
Basically, after she feeds at 11 o'clock in the evening, she can last until about 6 o'clock in the morning, and she will not cry immediately when she wakes up in the morning, and will lie there and play by herself.
When she was pregnant with this child, she didn't feel uncomfortable, morning sickness or something didn't exist, now the baby can sleep in two months, every time she sees this scene, Zhu Zhu feels that she gave birth to an angel baby.
Mr. Dai didn't go to the company much, and wanted to go to Seoul early this year for the New Year.
"There is still more than a month before the New Year, Tong Shuang is pregnant, I estimate that the wedding date should be at the end of the year, although four or five hours is not far away, but I don't want to run, otherwise I will wait for half a month?"
For this trivial matter, Mr. Dai naturally would not fight with Zhu Zhu.
"Then I'll say hello to my dad, now my sister-in-law hasn't given birth yet, and when she is born, it's better for the two great-grandchildren to go to see grandma together." ”
Zhu Zhu was satisfied, and went to visit Tong Shuang the next day.
I thought that after ten days and half a month, her morning sickness would be better.
Unexpectedly, I didn't see her in a short time, she was not in human shape, and it is said that she went to the hospital several times to protect the fetus.
"You haven't gotten a drop of water?"
Tong Shuang leaned weakly on the side of the bed: "I vomited whatever I ate, I vomited when I drank water, not only did I vomit bile, but my stomach also vomited blood." ”
Zhu Zhu shuddered when he heard this.
How uncomfortable it is.
"You look like this, and you can't get married at the end of the year. Zhu Zhu herself has experienced it, and naturally knows how tired she is to get married, and she has no time to eat when she is busy, and she can't remember what dishes she ate when she got married the day after she got married, because she didn't eat a few bites at all.
She was just a little red at that time, Tong Shuang, but now I'm afraid it's hard to get up.