It didn't take long for Qinglan to come over.

Her house and Tong Shuang's house are very close, and it only takes seven or eight minutes to walk.

"Why are you here again?"

Tong Shuang rolled his eyes, his mouth disgusted that Qinglan was too diligent.

"I'm here to see if you're dead, I said you really, one or two gave birth to children at a young age, were you under the spell of ecstasy by a man, so desperate, is it bad to ruin your limited youth. Look at what the hell you look like now, I don't like ......"

"Standing and talking doesn't hurt your back, don't have children if you have the ability. Tong Shuang said that he was weak.

"I'm sitting now, and I mean not to have children, I mean don't give birth so early, you see Zhu Zhu gave birth to a child, you can't go out with a scream, you have to report to your husband when you go out, there is no freedom. Wouldn't it be good to get married when we're tired of playing?"

"When are you tired of playing, thirty or forty?" Zhu Zhu asked.

Qinglan leaned sideways, half-lying on Tong Shuang's bed: "It's hard to say, if you're tired, I'll get married, anyway, I'm not even twenty-six now, so I won't consider getting married." ”

"I'm telling you, there's something wrong with your thinking. ”

Tong Shuang disagreed with Qinglan's point of view: "You yourself are also studying medicine, don't you know that women are too old to have a lot of problems?"

"I know, but I can't just pull someone and have a baby. No matter how old I am, I won't get married for the sake of getting married. Besides, there are more children in the elderly, and now that technology is developed, fifty or sixty children are still born. ”

"Yes, when your child goes to kindergarten, other children point to you and say to your child, look at your grandmother to pick you up. Tong Shuang sneered.

Zhu Zhu watched the two arguing and didn't plan to interfere. Youzai is eating fruits, although she disapproves of Qinglan's idea, but everyone's concept of marriage is different and cannot be forced.

It's just that these two people are still noisy, and Zhu Zhu has to make a clear judgment.

"Tell me, little girl, do you think you're free after you get married?"

Everybody has a different view of this marriage, some people think that marriage is the grave of love, the wall of freedom, but some people would rather be trapped in this walled city, not for anything else, because of the love in their hearts, this love makes them feel that this is not a tomb but a harbor of the soul. ”

"A haven of the mind?"

Qinglan said with contempt: "How long can this harbor be warm, when the feelings are there, it is a harbor that can hide from the wind and rain, and when the feelings are not there, the turbulent waves set off by this harbor will swallow people mercilessly." Although I am not very old, I can see too many people's warmth and coldness, and I don't believe in these ethereal things. ”

Zhu Zhu never tried to change a person's opinion.

Everyone's experience is different, and their thoughts are naturally different, just like she wants to believe that there are sincere feelings in this world.

Even after many years, that feeling has faded and deteriorated.

She believes she can have the courage to face it.

"Speaking of which, I also want to remind you, don't think that the relationship is good now, it will be the same for a long time, you are now a housewife at home, and after a few years you are out of touch with this society, you will regret the decision you made today. It's better to go to work as soon as possible, and if you have a job, you will have confidence in your marriage. ”

Qinglan said as she peeled off her fingernails.

"Well, I agree with what Qinglan said. ”

Back home, Zhu Zhu kept thinking about what Qinglan said, although she had the idea of going to work for a long time, but considering that the child was still young, she kept dragging it out.

This question has also been evaded.

Now that Qinglan brought it up again, she had to seriously consider the current situation.

The next day was Mr. Dai's birthday, Zhu Zhu gave her the belt she had chosen early in the morning, the two went to buy vegetables after breakfast, and Zhu Zhu cooked a big meal for Mr. Dai at noon.

In the afternoon, the two pushed the stroller out and went shopping.

Since she became pregnant, Mr. Dai has been very busy and has no time to play, she has a big belly, and it is inconvenient to play.

Now that the child has been two months old, Zhu Zhu's body has recovered well, and it is a good time to come out for a walk.

Mr. Dai drove to Wansong Mountain, where they met for the first time, and walked around the bottom of Wansong Mountain with his child in his arms.

"In this flash, two years are about to pass, and I remember the first time we met, it seemed like yesterday. ”

Zhu Zhu said with some emotion.

"When you're happy, you feel like time flies quickly. This shows that you have had a relatively happy life in the past two years. Mr. Dai replied with his daughter in his arms.

Oh, yes!

Overall, she was still very comfortable.

Although there are sometimes quarrels, Mr. Dai lets her go most of the time.

Sometimes he is really stubborn, and he has never slammed the door and left, nor did he scold, sleep at night, even if there is still a stomach in his stomach, he still can't help but cover Zhu Zhu with a quilt.

These details, Zhu Zhu usually doesn't say, but he has always kept them in mind.

Sometimes when I go home, I will complain to my mother.

But her mother told her that no matter how good a couple is, they will quarrel, but loving couples still can't help but care about each other after quarreling, and if it's not good, they will only quarrel again and again.

Zhu Zhu looked at Mr. Dai, who was interacting with her daughter, and remembered that there was a quarrel, and she said the word divorce angrily.

Mr. Day's hurt expression.

After that, he made three chapters with her:

First: No matter what the circumstances in the future, you can't mention the word divorce, and you can't talk about it or anything like that.

Second: When you quarrel, you should talk about things, and you can't bring up old things again, and the leftovers should be fried again.

Second: You can't run away from home, and you can't answer phone calls and text messages you don't reply.

Now that I think about it, this decision of his is still very useful, at least it has allowed her to avoid saying chilling things on impulse many times.

She looked at the two of them quietly.

I'm thinking about going out to work, how do I speak?

In her selfish heart, she enjoys the current time very much, but she also knows that after a long time, it is not a way after all.

Zhu Zhu's happiness and displeasure are all hidden on his face, whether there is something on his mind or not, Mr. Dai can quickly detect it.

At night, after the child went to sleep, Mr. Dai asked, "Bao, you have something on your mind." ”

"It's not a concern. ”

"Talk to your husband. ”

"I just want to go to work, but I don't want her to bring it to others. ”

It's a dilemma.

"You think you need to make money, otherwise you don't feel sure, right?"

Well, Mr. Dai's analysis is too good, and sometimes I really think that Mr. Dai can change careers to become a psychological counselor. The books I read are still very useful.

"Well, after a long time, the distance between us and you has been widened, and our marriage relationship may be in danger. ”

Mr. Dai hugged Zhu Zhu: "It's a good thing that you have such a sense of crisis, but your purpose is to improve yourself, you don't necessarily have to go to work, right, you can make money at home, we can change our way of thinking, or you can take advantage of this time to enrich yourself is also a good choice." ”