Zhang Baotong, the woman behind the man, 2018.1.26

To talk about this topic, we have to tell a story first. The boss took the employees to a crocodile pool and said, "Whoever dares to jump into the pool will give him a million, and if anyone dies in the pool, I will give him five million." "A million is a lot of money for everyone, but no one would joke with their lives for this million. Five million is a lot of money, but there is no life, why do you want such a lot of money? So, listening to the boss's words, the employees all stood on the edge of the pool and looked at each other, indifferent.

Suddenly, only to hear a "plop", a person jumped into the pool. And he saw the crocodile pounce on him. The man was chased by the crocodile and swam as fast as he could, his face pale, and he swam desperately towards the other side of the pool. Swim and swim, he finally swam to the opposite shore and jumped out of the pool. So, the boss gave him a million. However, when everyone was about to applaud him, he scolded angrily, "Who pushed Lao Tzu down?"

At this time, a woman walked up to him and said, "I pushed it." You go down, I'll take a million, and if you die, I'll take five million, and then marry someone, what's wrong?" the man was stunned.

The woman behind the successful man is like this: at the critical moment, she can push you.

When it comes to the women behind successful men, we can name a few. Hawking's ex-wife, Jane, can be said to be one of them. When Hawking was 21 years old, he met the young and beautiful Jane in a bar, and the science student in the bar fell in love with the liberal arts girl at first sight, and quickly fell in love. However, not long after the two got along, Hawking suddenly fell into a coma and was diagnosed with a rare serious illness, and the doctor told Jane that he would only live for two years at most. But Jane resolutely married Hawking despite her family's opposition. Marrying such a man whose life is in danger requires not only love, but also great courage and responsibility. After Jane and Hawking stayed together for 30 years after marriage, the two fell in love with each other, and Jane finally left Hawking with the sentence "I loved you, I did my best". We can think about it, without Jane's company and care, Hawking could not have achieved such a great cause.

The love between the famous Chinese architect Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin can be described as brilliant as summer flowers in life and as quiet and beautiful as autumn leaves in death. The two are from famous families, talented, childhood sweethearts, not only life partners, but also career bosom friends, architecture is their eternal dream. They used to use their honeymoon trips to visit and inspect Western architecture in various European countries, and to organize what they saw and heard; He also went to inspect Chinese classical architecture in the midst of war, sacrificed his life to protect precious architectural materials, and solemnly refused the invitation of the Japanese. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, they not only designed the national emblem by themselves, but also cultivated many architectural talents for the motherland. They are like-minded, and the beautiful conversation of helping each other has become a good story for the ages.

There is a famous saying that "men make the world their home, and women take their home as the world." "Traditional Chinese culture always requires men to seek fame, while women are required to marry and teach children. Men have to study and study angrily from an early age, and when they grow up, they will either be in business or become officials. And as a man behind the inner help, to help them achieve greater success. It is not easy for men to succeed, but it is even harder and harder to help men succeed. Because the success of men can also pose a threat to women. For example, Qin Xianglian taught her husband and children, took care of housework, served her mother-in-law, and helped Chen Shimei gain fame, but what was the result? Therefore, women not only have to help men gain fame, but also know how to protect the fruits of their labor and tightly tie men's hearts. For this reason, some people have formulated several rules for women behind successful men: 1. Understand and support her husband's career with your own open-mindedness, 2. Appreciate your husband with joyful eyes, 3. Be considerate of your husband with delicate feelings, and 4. Please her husband with unique charm.

Perhaps some women may feel that it is not necessary to treat their husbands in this way, which will make their lives very tiring. However, if you think of the scene when you push him into the pool and make him terrified and die, you should love him with great affection. Unless you feel that your husband is unproductive and incompetent, or you don't expect him to succeed. In fact, there is no woman who does not want a man to be famous and get ahead. However, there are women who just want men to succeed but don't want to pay for it. A woman I know was very happy to hear that her husband was going to do a big business, but when her husband wanted to invest tens of thousands of yuan in the family, she resolutely refused to allow it. The husband had no choice but to give up the business to someone else. There is also a newly married woman, who heard that the company was going to transfer her husband to another place as a manager, and her husband went to the field, although his position was promoted, but the two of them had to live separately, she was very angry about this, and even asked her husband to resign and not let him leave her.

In fact, there are many women, but great women are very rare. Because many women do not see the greatness in the ordinary, and do not know that if you want to be the wife of a general, you must follow him to a remote place when you are young, and do not know that if you want to become a rich man, you must follow him for many years to work overtime and guard the store. What woman behind a successful man is not silently dedicating? Even Liu Bang's wife, Empress Lu, and Tang Zhongzong's wife, Empress Wei, have experienced many hardships and thrills.

Of course, there are also some women like the beauties Helen and Minchan, as well as women like Yang Yuhuan and Wu Zetian, and even women like Chen Yuanyuan and Dong Xiaowan. They don't seem to have the experience of following a man through a lot of hardships and finally achieving positive results, but how many women can have their beauty, talent, and luck? In fact, there are very few beautiful women with excellent appearances, and there are not many beautiful women, and the vast majority of women can only be regarded as good-looking. Therefore, the woman who can directly marry the fifth king of diamonds in one step is probably one in a million. However, marrying the fifth king of diamonds does not mean that you can sit back and relax, if you can't play a role in his success behind him, you may be fired before you are old and decrepit.

There is a lyric in "Tianxian Pei": "You plough the field and come to me to weave, and you carry water to me to water the garden." It depicts an idyllic atmosphere of husband and wife love. However, the relationship between husband and wife is not so strong, or it will not be seven years, but I am afraid that after two years, the relationship will change greatly. At this time, the man has no further growth, let alone pushing you into the crocodile pool, it is a sea of swords and fire, and women dare to push you down. On the contrary, if the man is trying his best to work hard, and the woman has nothing to do, neither can take care of the family for him, but is not willing to pay for him silently, then it is not that you are pushing him, but that he wants to push you out of this family.