Qu Lihua felt that it was very fresh, and looked around, the architecture of the old town of Lille was still the same as other cities in France, influenced by the Renaissance, although the building had the vicissitudes of time, but it was still beautifully designed, revealing the luxury of European classical architecture.

Qu Lihua felt that the architectural style of each country was different every time she went to a country, she followed Xia Yuxiang to Russia, then followed Xia Yuxiang to Pakistan, and now she followed the delegation to France.

These countries have different histories and cultures, different architectural styles, and different customs, and it is only in such an environment that you can feel the characteristics of this country.

The French are indeed romantic, leaving Qu Lihua with the impression that French young men are handsome and handsome, they have European characteristics, their hair is blonde or brown, their eyes are blue, and they have white skin, and there are many beautiful women in France, who look like Barbie dolls, with blond hair, or brown eyes, white skin, and they look very good.

And the French are very fashionable, young people are particularly fashionable, which is very different from Pakistani women's dress, many young French beauties are wearing fashionable clothes, when it is hot, they are showing their shoulders or navel, which is very different from Pakistan's feudal and conservative attire, Pakistani women are wrapped in themselves, are not allowed to wear too revealing clothes, women have to wear scarves, wrap themselves so that only two eyes are exposed.

Women are not allowed to talk to strange men, and even if there are guests coming to the house, only men can come out to receive them, and women cannot come out, nor can they wear too revealing clothes, let alone fashionable and revealing clothes.

The status of women in Pakistan is far lower than that of Chinese women, and Chinese women can still decide what they wear, and after the society advocates equality between men and women, women can also receive higher education, go to university, and join the workforce after graduation.

This is the progress of society, go to a country to see the social status of women to know whether the country is progressive, if the social status of women is far inferior to men, and they are discriminated against and oppressed, it means that the country's society is not progressive, and it is still in feudalism and backwardness.

Qu Lihua and Meng Wenjie talked about her feelings, and Meng Wenjie nodded, agreeing with her opinion.

"Yes, after going to these countries, I also feel this way, in fact, I still admire our Chinese women, I feel that many girls are more motivated than young men, young men lie at home and play a lot of games, and their academic performance is also better than that of girls in the class. ”

"Girls mature earlier than boys, mature early, and do things more thoughtfully and steadily, China's young women in the workplace show great ambition sometimes greatly beyond men of the same age, through hard work, some women have also been promoted to become supervisors, even managers, directors, to become business elites. ”

"They are not satisfied with the requirements of the feudal society for women in the past, just stay at home and teach their husbands and children, young women in China, their hearts are very eager for their value to be recognized by the society, and hope that through their own efforts, they can also have equal opportunities to work like men in the workplace, and many cases tell young women in China that if they want to have a happy marriage, women must be financially independent, do not rely on men, even if they want to divorce, women dare to compete with men. ”

"I have already thought clearly about this, so I work hard, just to settle down, to make money for myself, to be able to make a down payment, to buy a small house by myself, and to buy a small car, just to meet the needs of daily life, and live the life I want, as for I don't have a boyfriend yet, then just let it go, talk when I meet, don't get married, and don't force it!"

Qu Lihua said this, her point of view aroused everyone's interest, Xia Yuxiang said: "Xiaoqu, your idea is quite unique, don't your parents put pressure on you to go on a blind date? Don't they urge you to hug your grandson?"

"Urge, why don't you urge, I'm 30 years old, I'm going to become an older leftover girl in the eyes of society, and in a few years, I'm going to become an elderly mother, how can I not be in a hurry?"

"Hahaha!" Professor Xia Yuxiang smiled, "Don't worry, I see that Xiao Meng's age is about the same as you, he is still a year older than you, I have already asked him for you, he is also busy with work, and he still doesn't have a girlfriend!"

"That's good, Xiao Meng, you hurry up and make a statement, I think you and Xiaoqu are very suitable, it's rare to have the opportunity this time You all joined the delegation, got to know each other, got along for a while, and became familiar with each other. ”

"Head Xia, I also think Xiaoqu is pretty good!"

"Oh, that's good, the fat water doesn't flow into the fields of outsiders, the single men and women who are not married in our delegation can come to me to sign up, I, the head of the group, will not only take you abroad to see the world, but also willing to help you match, by the way, do the work of the old man, if you can introduce success, it is a beautiful thing!"

"Hahaha, everyone laughed!"

"Okay, the point is over, let you young people develop, Xiao Meng, you are a boy, you have to take the initiative, there are really not many girls with such good conditions as Xiaoqu, people have beautiful parents, good families, good work, they are quite motivated, the future is bright, very promising, you have to take the initiative, I won't teach you specifically, you take advantage of the opportunity yourself!"

Qu Lihua blushed, and the head of Xia Yuxiang also saw it, and quickly diverted the topic.

"Professor Abner, how do you young French people talk about love?"

Professor Abner smiled, "France is more free, Western countries are more open-minded, of course, in comparison, France is more open, sometimes Americans feel that we French are more open, you also know that Americans are still more traditional, they advocate what men do before marriage, no matter what, but after marriage, men must pay attention, must focus on their careers, have a stable family, in order to better develop their careers, but also advocate monogamy." ”

"And France is different, the French are more romantic, advocating liberalism, the French pay more attention to their own feelings, and even some people are married, and they have their own lovers, such a situation is really incredible in the eyes of other people, people in other countries are unacceptable, a married man has a lover outside, and even goes home to live with his wife, and when there is a holiday, he accompanies his lover out on vacation. ”

This seemingly divided life, not recognized by traditional values, is also condemned, Americans are surprised, they say that only the French can be like this, but the French married man has a wife on the one hand, and a lover on the other, they feel that there is no contradiction at all, the wife does not ask much, the lover is not greedy, they are all right, they are all right, they are safe, the wife pretends not to know anything, turns a blind eye, and the lover does not come to the door to grab the position of the main room. ”

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