Chapter 424
Your Student: Xia Chen"
In the past, Xia Chen's presence was obtained through chatting with friends. Friends are getting busier and busier, and Xia Chen can only be forced to start a new "career". Because what Xia Chen learned was completely out of touch with the current requirements of the class, Xia Chen didn't like to go to class. After class, he turned on his phone, and Xia Chen saw a bunch of new application messages. They are from her three game accounts, two writing accounts, a radio station and an official account. There is a very uncompetitive apprentice in the game account, fortunately, Xia Chen didn't think about relying on him to obtain resources, and took the apprentice all the way to overcome obstacles, and finally helped him to today's position. As a result, because it was too difficult to upgrade and took too much time, Xia Chen could only decide to retreat from the pit. She reluctantly entrusted her account to her apprentice, and she didn't have to think about it, within a month, Xia Chen's savings in it would be exhausted. Xia Chen's current focus is on writing, and in order to collect writing materials, he works part-time as a night radio DJ. Her radio station is called "Moonlight". Being an emotional FM DJ wasn't as simple as she thought. "I'm Chengxing, welcome everyone to listen to the moonlight, I hope your heart can be lit up all night. Let's start reading the letters from readers. ”
"I believe in horoscopes, but the horoscopes book says that we are not suitable, what should I do. "It's easy to do, there are a hundred ways to say a hundred horoscope books, and if you believe in horoscopes, find a horoscope book that you like to read. Next. "I don't know if he likes me or not. I think he might like me. But I'm embarrassed to say. "Oh, then don't be embarrassed by your imagination. Wait with peace of mind. "I said goodnight to him every day, and he never replied to me. "Then you have to ask yourself, is your good night a simple greeting, or a changed form of I love you? Xia Chen has been a radio station for half a year, and eighty or ninety percent of the letters she receives are questions she once asked herself. She always couldn't figure it out. One day she received a strange question. "I said I could make any change, but it was over. Xia Chen laughed out loud when he saw this question.
If a person has the ability to empathize, he pushes himself and others and thinks that others have the ability to do the same. In fact, people are complex and changeable, and different people should be treated with different eyes and different standards. Laws and norms in psychology, law, and logic that apply to general situations, for example, cannot be directly applied to practical problems. In this case, it is most appropriate to seek truth from facts and analyze specific problems in detail. Parents and children are the closest blood ties in the world. But on the other hand, they are also independent individuals. Every time Xia Chen thought that there was a natural relationship between his parents and himself to fulfill their obligations and exercise their rights, he felt incredible. Xia Chen had always been very skeptical about the correctness of their education methods. There is a strange plausibility compared to the way it was learned from other sources.
In the hearts of his parents, it seems that Xia Chen's psychological gender is blurred. They did not deliberately distinguish between male and female qualities, and the excellent qualities of any gender were the criteria for Xia Chen's development. Su Ru is a beauty who meets the secular definition, but Su Ru forbids Xia Chen to pay attention to her appearance. Judging from the public's trial standards, Xia Chenchang is really average. At the age when Xia Chen was obsessed with asking Su Ru "Mom, am I good-looking", Su Ru was always able to change the topic appropriately, Xia Chen did not get any evaluation from his mother about his appearance, and later Xia Chen did not use the theory of appearance supremacy when looking at others. Although from the depths of his heart, Xia Chen still longs for a beauty similar to that of his mother. Xia Wu is even more strange. Half of the time Xia Chen was brought up by Xia Wu. Xia Wu encouraged Xia Chen to stay up late, because when he stayed up late, Xia Wu would take Xia Chen to watch the World Cup, see archaeological exploration, and watch medical anatomy. Xia Chen, who had grown up, suddenly understood that this kind of encouragement was not necessarily a disguised inhibition, because these were not things that children of that age would like. Xia Chen's interest in exploring the world was fully opened at that time. When he should get physiological education, Xia Wu chose to explain to Xia Chen from a medical point of view. Xia Wu asked Xia Chen to read the part about the structure of the human body in the internal medicine book. Know your own body structure. Xia Wu took the trouble to explain to Xia Chen the various physiological phenomena that women may have, and explained to Xia Chen that for doctors, patients have no gender distinction, and they should naturally and honestly accept the examination of doctors of different genders, and at the same time, they should also reasonably judge whether the examination behavior is accurate and appropriate, and does not cross the line. On the premise of protecting yourself, respect and trust the doctor's behavior. Xia Chen's choice not to grow up according to his parents' expectations was actually achieved with Xia Wu's acquiescence.
Xia Chen didn't know, how to explain the strange Xia Wu. Because Xia Wu is a traditional father. He has a strong enough personality.
When peers were accustomed to patriarchy, Xia Wu said that women could hold up half the sky. At a time when everyone thought that grades were extremely important, Xia Wu didn't even glance at Xia Chen's report card. "Health is more important than grades. Much more important. Don't let the small be the big one. Xia Chen heard this sentence since he was a child, and heard that his ears were grinding out thick calluses. But Xia Chen thinks that this is all an excuse for Xia Wu to fail enough in his studies, and because Xia Wu has failed enough in this aspect, Xia Chen thinks that he can surpass Xia Wu at this point. When he learned from He Ze that Xia Wu was actually a perfect score in mathematics in the college entrance examination in an unknown region, Xia Chen felt that the sky had fallen.
Xia Chen likes to read. But it doesn't read books systematically. No one forced her to revise her tastes, and her eyes naturally only fell on books with ups and downs in the plot and bizarre characters. If she is asked to talk about the famous books she has read, she has only read them, and none of the details of a book can really stay in her mind. Even the historical terrain and the laws of formulas that she was once extremely familiar with were completely returned to her teacher. He Ze once said that reading is a lifelong career. But Xia Chen really didn't know how to do this business, she only felt that this matter made her more and more smashed. Yin Feng has loved poetry and songs since he was a child, and works by famous artists. She can comment on the books she has read, and she can use words and sentences freely. In a sense, except for Xia Chen, it seems that everyone around him is in this development mode. Xia Chen felt that they could naturally fall in love with literature, and after working hard for a long time, they still couldn't fit into that environment. She confessed to her teacher that she might not be suitable for literature, and that although she tried her best to get close to literature, literature worked harder than she did, and it tried to cover her eyes. She can look at the author's ideas and style of writing books to replicate similar articles, and when it comes to her true feelings, she can only say that she has no idea at all.