"My daughter is obviously so good, she has never let me worry about her studies and life since she was a child, why should she be judged by others now that she can't get married?"

"Mom......" Qiao Anning's voice choked, and she couldn't help but redden, "I don't care what others say about me, really, I don't care about ......"

"But I care!"

Qiao's mother's voice suddenly rose, and the hand holding her hand suddenly pinched her hard.

Qiao Anning pursed her lips and tried not to cry: "Do women have to get married in this life? Mom, can't I not get married?"

"No!" Qiao's mother had a tough attitude, as if she had heard some fantasy, and looked at her in disbelief, "Which woman doesn't want to get married?!If you don't get married, what will you do when you get old and sick in the future? Who will take care of you after I leave with your father?"

"I can take care of myself, I have a pension, I can pay for a nanny......"

"How can you have such a terrible idea? Tell your mother honestly, have you always had such a thought, so you haven't found me someone to marry?"

Qiao Anning felt that she couldn't communicate with her mother: "I didn't. ”

"There's no best, you'd better not give me this terrible thought. Qiao's mother patted her chest, "It is a natural thing for a woman to get married and have children, and your life cannot be complete without marriage or children." ”

She persuaded bitterly, "An Ning, you don't understand now, you don't understand the importance of marriage. But my mother is a person from the past, and my mother knows what is most important to a woman. You are your mother's own daughter, will your mother still harm you?"

Qiao Anning did not speak.

Of course, she knows that her mother will not harm her, but sometimes what parents give is not what the child wants.

Qiao's mother continued: "When people come to this world, they will never be able to avoid the eyes of the world. Do you know what the neighbors and the people at the banquet say about you? They all say that what is the use of just studying well, and in the end it is not that you are left at home and cannot get married. A person is a stage at an age, and he should do things at this stage at a stage. Now that you have reached the time to get married, if you don't get married, others will only look down on you, look down on me and your father. They don't know the reason and don't want to understand the reason, they just think that no man can look up to you, you know?"

Qiao Anning finally couldn't hold back her tears.

"Mom doesn't want to force you to do things you don't like, but there are really some things that you have to do if you don't do them now, but it's too late to do them later, and it's too late to regret it. ”

Qiao's mother hugged Qiao Anning and choked and cried.

"You're twenty-seven now, and twenty-six seems like yesterday. Time goes fast, a woman's youth is only a few years, and your mother doesn't want you to complain about your mother when you are old, and she didn't remind you well when you were young. ”

"I know, I know, Mom, I know. Qiao Anning sobbed and hugged Qiao's mother's neck.

"There's one thing I'm telling you, don't be angry. Qiao's mother said nervously.

"What's the matter, you say. ”

Qiao Anning let go of Qiao's mother's neck, sat up to face her, and wiped her tears.

"It's your father's classmate Aunt Gu last year, do you remember her, the young man she introduced?"

Remember, how can you not remember. That's the best of all the blind dates she's met since she started a blind date.

Qiao Anning nodded, with a tear still hanging on her eyelashes.

"Yesterday she called your dad again. Qiao's mother said and sighed, "She explained to your father that the reason why she didn't explain the other party's family situation clearly before was because she was worried that we would miss a good marriage because we would preconceive that the man would not see him or not." Although the man has been divorced, he is really good. Although he has a son, he is already in elementary school and is very obedient and sensible. ”

Qiao Anning was silent, she knew that her mother would not mention this for no reason, it must be that her mind had changed.

She also said that last time it was actually the man's aunt who fell in love with you when she went to your unit to do business, and only after a few inquiries did she know that Gu Fang knew our family, so she asked Gu Fang to pull the strings. You see, after a year, you still haven't met the person you like, and he hasn't met a suitable candidate for marriage, and his aunt thinks of you again, thinking about letting you meet again......"

Speaking of this, Qiao's mother had a trace of sadness on her face, "To tell you from the heart, which mother is willing to let her carefully raised daughter marry a divorced man? What mother is willing to let her daughter be a stepmother to someone else's child? Mom doesn't want you to be wronged, but ...... But the reality is so cruel, age is a huge threshold for women who want to get married. A man can still marry a young and beautiful wife when he is old, but once a woman is old, she is just a yellow-faced woman in other people's mouths, and even childbirth is at risk. ”

Mother said all the truth, and reality is so cruel to women.

Qiao Anning couldn't help but feel sad.

"Mom has a colleague whose daughter is 32 years old and is finally getting married this year. Do you know how much older the person she married is than her?" Qiao's mother compared, "Ten years older, a doctor, ordinary-looking, and a pair of younger siblings at home, the most important ...... He was also divorced once. ”

Qiao Anning looked up.

Qiao's mother looked sad: "My colleague is just like me, I also think that my daughter is a baby, the best child in the world, and naturally she must be matched with a person worthy of her conditions." Her daughter had the same attitude as you now, this is not good, that one is not liked, and she doesn't want to get married, but it dragged on to 30, and when she saw that her colleagues and friends were all married and had children, she knew that she was in a hurry. ”

Qiao Anning pursed her mouth.

Qiao's mother continued: "But the good men have been picked by others, and the rest at this time are all picked by others. The young don't look down on her old, and the old ones are bad in one way or another. It's not that he doesn't look good, or his family conditions are unsatisfactory, and he is divorced. She also knew that she regretted it, and in the end she lowered her requirements, as long as the other party's conditions were acceptable and she could be good to herself, she would not choose. No, I've only known each other for two months and got married to the current doctor, and the wedding card has been given to me, and the two are about to get married. ”

In fact, hearing this, Qiao Anning's heart was already greatly touched.

Qiao's mother continued to say, "It's the first time you've been with that Ye Huaijin...... It's called Ye Huaijin, right?"

Qiao Anning nodded.

"Didn't you also say when you met him for the first time and came back, his conditions are quite good? There are not many people with such good conditions, since you have encountered them, it is better to try it, and it is most important to live a suitable life. Mom knows what you always say you like or dislike, but silly children, liking is false, and suitability is practical. Speaking of feelings, that also needs to be cultivated. If you don't get along with other people, how do you know that you won't like them?"