06. What do others think of unmarried women of appropriate age?

Back at home, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother were still sitting on the sofa watching TV absentmindedly as the night she went out on a blind date for the first time.

When I saw her come back, the first thing I asked was, "Why did you come back so early?"

Qiao Anning sat down on the single-seater sofa on the other side, and said weakly: "The person is very handsome, tall and handsome, and polite, just like Aunt Gu described. ”

Qiao's mother was very happy to hear this: "Then you are looking at the right eye?"

Qiao Anning turned her head and saw that Qiao's father's face also showed a little joy, although she couldn't bear to hit them, she still threw the bomb information to them expressionlessly: "Mom and Dad, do you mind being a grandparent when you come to the door?"

Qiao's father and Qiao's mother's face changed: "What are you talking nonsense, what do you mean by this?"

Qiao Anning looked at Qiao's mother and said, "Mom, aren't you also curious about the fact that the conditions of the family are so good, why are you still on a blind date and not getting married until now?"

Qiao's mother nodded.

"Tonight he told me that he is 35 years old, that he is divorced and that he has a son living with him. ”

After saying this key sentence, Qiao Anning's whole person seemed to be drained of strength, and his mind lay blank on the sofa.

Qiao's father and Qiao's mother's faces changed greatly, and they really didn't know about it as she guessed.

"What kind of high school classmate are you?, why are some messy people embarrassed to introduce us to our daughter?!" Qiao's mother stood up angrily and vented her frustration to Qiao's father, "Does she hate you for not agreeing to marry her before, and deliberately tricked our daughter?!"

In front of Qiao Anning, mentioning the gossip and private affairs of the previous generation, Qiao's father's face was a little unbearable. He furrowed his brows and pulled Qiao's mother into the room: "In front of your daughter, what are you talking nonsense?!"

"Isn't it?" the mother's voice retorted, "She only praised in front of you how good the conditions of the man's family were, and why he didn't mention a word about such a big thing as a divorced and a child?!"

The door to the master bedroom was closed, and there was still a lot of noise.

……

At night, she still shared her unforgettable blind date experience with Yu Fengfeng.

"Actually, according to what you say, putting aside other factors, you already have a good impression of this man at first sight. It's just that this goodwill didn't have time to ferment, and it was ruthlessly wiped out by reality. Yu Fengfeng calmly peeled back the cocoon in her words.

"yes, in today's buzzwords, he looks like my dish. Qiao Anning sighed, "It's a pity." ”

"What is a pity?" Yu Fengfeng smiled, "Let me, an old-timer in the blind date world, tell you that on the road to marriage, there are many, many different modes of transportation, and blind date is actually a high-speed and fast train." ”

"You and I, the two of us, divided by our own conditions, are actually passengers in an ordinary carriage on this express train. And the man you see tonight can at least be a second-class seat, if he is not married and has no children, a first-class business seat is possible. ”

With the same purpose in mind, a blind date will save us a lot of unnecessary speculation and temptation, and save more precious time. Of course, when something is too purposeful, it will lose some passion and excitement, as we do now. ”

"You've been on a blind date a few times, and you'll find that unconsciously, we're actually secretly considering the value of the blind date. ”

"Some people's physical conditions have kept up, but their economic ability has not kept up, so they haven't looked at it. ”

"Some people's economic ability has kept up, but the appearance conditions may not have kept up, and they still haven't looked. ”

"There is also a kind of repeat customer like you said, a second-married man who drags his family to take a ride, or even a third-married, fourth-married N married man. I think there are even more people who don't look down on it. ”

"Of course, if you're willing to lower your requirements for the other person, then it's not a problem that he has been divorced a few times and has children. If you don't want to, then don't grieve yourself. ”

"Look at me, I was urged to marry and forced to go on a blind date before you, and I still continue to wait and stay up?"

Qiao Anning was amused: "Your parents should be more ruthless than my parents urging marriage, right?"

"That's not it!" Yu Fengfeng's voice sounded a little proud, "Didn't I tell you last time that I met a blind date again, and I'm still chatting." ”

Qiao Anning asked, "Do you like him?"

Yu Fengfeng sighed: "I've eaten together and come out to play, but I always feel that I don't have the slightest feeling of falling in love." I also have a headache. ”

Qiao Anning smiled bitterly: "We are really difficult sisters and sisters." ”

Yu Fengling was also worried: "It's not." ”

……

The meeting with Ye Huaijin ended in the end.

Qiao's mother wanted to call Aunt Gu several times to say that she was stopped, but Qiao's father stopped her and didn't let her.

The days finally returned to a temporary lull.

In just a few months, Qiao Anning has stepped from a blind date to the realm of a junior scholar. Recalling that Yu Fengfeng talked to her at the beginning, there was really a sense of time passing.

As her 27th birthday arrived, the anxiety on her mother's face became more and more obvious.

My cousin's child made a birthday wine, and the mother's face was embarrassed for a day.

The reason is that someone at the banquet talked about it: "Isn't An Ning seven years older than her sister? Why is it that my sister even gave birth to a son, and she is still not married to be a sister?"

Back at home, Qiao Anning didn't want to touch his mother's moldy head at this juncture, so he was ready to close the door and go back to the room to hide. As a result, before the plan could be implemented, his mother died halfway.

"Peace, come here. ”

Qiao's father left the place for their mother and daughter very discerningly, and went back to the house and closed the door.

Qiao Anning sat beside her mother, and Qiao's mother's eyes looked at her from head to toe inch by inch.

"Mom......"

"Did you hear what those people said at the banquet today?"

Qiao Anning nodded: "I heard it." ”

Qiao's mother asked, "Don't you feel anything?"

Qiao Anning raised her eyes: "Mom, let them say whatever they like, I know how my life is, and others can't care about it." ”

Qiao's mother's eyes turned red all of a sudden: "But my mother felt it when I heard it, and my mother was very uncomfortable when I heard it." ”

"Mom......"

Qiao Anning couldn't see her mother crying, especially her mother was still sad because of her affairs, she was so anxious that she wanted to wipe her tears, Qiao's mother didn't open her face and wiped the corners of her eyes and shook her head.