"There are a lot of words", sometimes it is a compliment, indicating that this person can speak well, and sometimes it is scolding, indicating that this person is talking nonsense, it depends on who is speaking.

And the words are separable, nonsense, boasting, quarreling, scolding, talking, chatting, love words, lessons, homely things, introductions...... How to divide it depends on yourself, depending on your mood, the mood when you heard these words, the mood is good, everything is easy to say, even if the scolding words are not so ugly, you can simply ignore it, or provide him with some words, let him have fun scolding, and the love words that are in a bad mood are also lies, and it is disgusting to say more.

Ordinary speech and chat will expose a lot of information, and words are made up of information, which is inevitable. For the information in the words, we may do some masking, just like you want to send a message in the car, and know how to mosaic your ID number. But there are some messages that we have said on our own initiative, and what is the purpose of our words? We need the people who hear them to remember, even if it's temporary, it's like two people who have just met, you tell you where you live, what you do, how many people you have in your family, and so on, and you want the people who hear it to remember it, so you don't have to repeat it and repeat it.

And for one situation, that is, we talk to others, it is very laborious to talk about our hearts, and we can't say everything, nor can we simply say it, so we need to think about it. For example, if you talk about your family like a friend you think is very good, this is already a good person to make friends with, many people are reluctant to talk to you about their family, because they think it is a secret, and you are not so familiar with it, when people talk about family members here, it is not simply their name, and your relationship, but it involves work, personality, the way you get along, the feelings between each other, etc.

Secrets, we will always talk about the heart, one or two points, once or twice, the person who talks to you will sum it up, maybe you yourself will not realize that you have said so much about your privacy, because you have regarded him as a reliable friend.

So as the person listening, don't tell others what they are talking about so easily, which may make the person talking feel embarrassed, and it may also make you lose someone to talk to.

In the same way, we should also advise the person who speaks, the secret is always your own, your secret is not a secret to others, it may become a topic of conversation for them, find the right person, say the right thing, it is related to the ability to say something, and before talking to a person, think about whether you can say some things.

Thinking is a time-consuming job, if you listen to all the words, and think left and right before speaking, then you may hold back the words that come to your mouth, and gradually you become silent, at least in front of others, you may be a stranger, it may be a person in society, it will make people think that you are deep, which is another sin.