What happens when two people talk together and talk about a third person? Of course, that person has to have something to talk about, that is, something to talk about, so it's very common for two people to fight a third person together.

In college dormitories, it is often a dormitory with people chatting behind closed doors. Close the door because you are afraid that others will hear what you say, and here others refer to people other than the dormitory, and the speaker feels that the people in the dormitory are more intimate, and there is nothing wrong with saying these things to them, but there are also people with ill intentions and sowing discord, and passing on what he said.

Closing the door and saying bad things, first closing the door, has a certain degree of secrecy, the door represents a fixed space, saying is our behavior, bad words as content is also very important.

When it comes to having an object, one is to say these things to whom, and the other is to say bad things about whom. As the receiver of our conversation, they may be classmates, teachers, friends, family members, or even strangers, it seems that anyone can do it. But face-to-face, hidden in the door, it is nothing more than roommates, classmates, family members, people within reach, it is best to know a third party, otherwise it will lose its flavor and less echo. Of course, that person may not agree with your words, just to nod his head occasionally, and deal with you, the most afraid thing is that he and that person are friends, and you don't need to be too embarrassed to say bad things about him in front of his friends.

Or those people, classmates, teachers, friends, family, except for strangers, of course, because there is no need, and speaking ill of a stranger may seem too calculating. We have to say that those who have contact with us, those who have lived together, and those who have caused us a certain amount of "harm", of course, this injury is not physical, it may be that he said a word to make him uncomfortable, or it is possible that his behavior has touched his elastic bottom line, and there must be something to talk about, and there is a reason to crusade against him.

Most of the bad words will be echoed, why? Because it is really worth taking it out, if a person is stingy, then it can be said that he is a hundred and eighty examples, because there is common contact, that person's code of conduct, personality and character will not change much, inertia. It is also possible that one is saying bad things, and the other person is secretly thinking about how to perfunctory, and try to avoid the person who speaks later, for fear that one day he will also be said badly.

There are a few points that can be said here, one is who we say badly, this "who" is uncertain, we can say bad things about anyone, these bad words may drift away with the wind, or they may enter his ears with the wind, and the subsequent development will not care about it. The second is who we talk to, whether we can guarantee that they will not reveal what we say, you will find that many times, "who to say" and "who to say" here are interchangeable, that is to say, we will say bad things about this person at some times, and we will say bad things about others with this person at some times.

The wind will carry your bad words to the ears of others, so be cautious in your words and deeds, if it is really worth saying, then you might as well get it on the bright side, be happy, dry and crisp, no need to close the door, it seems to be beep and swish, short momentum.