There are many things that cannot be believed, but you must not believe in the thing of empathy, because the body is different, and the feelings are naturally different.

It is often said that things gather by like, and people are grouped, and most of the time, it does conform to this law, after all, it is the experience summed up over the years, and it has a certain guiding significance.

Of course, there may not be much involved here, as the title suggests, unbelievable empathy! It means that we can't trust someone to know our feelings, we can't trust someone to understand our emotions, we are just deceiving ourselves.

Where does empathy come from, the meaning of the word is to expose this lie.

Of course, the charm of language is infinite, and the meaning of empathy can probably be explained as: although I have not experienced it, it is like I have experienced it myself.

The average person's understanding should be like this, you will know if you look at it carefully, it is not deceiving you, but you are deceiving yourself, it tells you clearly, "I haven't experienced it, I'm just like I've experienced it"!

Many times we "think" that others can understand, but most of the time, they can't.

To put it simply, you break up, find your best friend, drink together, and spit out bitterness to him, thinking that since you are your friend, you will naturally have a certain understanding of you, and will definitely give you some comfort and persuasion at this point.

And we are stupid to think that our friends can empathize, so we say everything, but others don't think anything. Maybe he hasn't even talked about love, how can he know what it feels like to break up, maybe it's your first love, it's the first beauty in your life, but it's over, who can "empathize", I think it's no one.

In fact, many times, we seem confused, but in fact it is clear, we know that the person on the other side does not understand our feelings, but we only need an object to communicate with, and we need a comfort, so we enjoy the feeling of deceiving ourselves, because if someone can really do "empathy", then his words must be full of negativity, must be as depressed as I want to laugh to death, and I have no ability to comfort myself, so I just need someone.

Empathy sometimes doesn't even believe in yourself, but it is just an occasional pastime, lamenting the unsatisfactory life, and a way to get closer to others.