Five Women (3)
My grandmother also seemed to be a favored little princess when she was young, and in that era, she never suffered a little, and she was very beautiful, and she could still be seen from her appearance in her later years.
When I was very young, it was a very happy thing to go to my grandmother's house, because my grandmother's house always had a lot of good food, and her own conditions were very bad, and the family was taken care of by my grandparents.
When I grew up, I gradually learned about my grandmother's fate, her mother's family had three older brothers, all of whom had fought in the army, and were injured and raised by the state, and she, as the only daughter in the family, was very favored.
The age of the eldest woman's marriage, she married my grandfather and gave birth to my uncle and aunt, unfortunately the grandfather died at a young age, and it is difficult to remarry if you have a child.
After discussing with the elders in my grandfather's family, my grandmother remarried my grandfather's younger brother, that is, my grandfather, and gave birth to my mother, third aunt, fourth aunt, and brother-in-law.
My grandfather has been working all his life, working hard to make money to support the family, my uncle is the oldest, he came out to work very early, and he mixed very well, but because he had polio, he died very young, leaving a son, which can be regarded as a stay, as for the aunt who I have never seen, I have rarely heard of her.
The aunt married at a young age, gave birth to three daughters, and finally had a son, and established herself in her in-law's house and was in charge of the finances.
As for my mother, I also came out to work when I was very young, my uncle had not died at that time, and I followed him to do business, my grandfather was responsible for growing vegetables, my mother was responsible for selling vegetables, my mother also worked as a tailor for many years, and my mother stayed at my grandmother's house for 28 years, and then met my father on a blind date and married into my family, which I will talk about later.
The third aunt married a cook and gave birth to two sons, both of which are very good, the aunt married an honest man at a young age, and lived a very happy life, as for the uncle, he didn't like to study, he came out early to mix in society, and finally married a wife in the city, doing things he didn't like, just a little beautiful.
Grandma is considered to have a long life, she lived more than ten years longer than her grandfather, and enjoyed the filial piety of her children, but at the same time she was also lonely, no one entered her inner world, she was a person of the old society, but she had some ideas of the new era, she had never read a book, but let every child read.
She believed in Jesus, and later turned to other theologies, in the end, her heart was empty, her daughter-in-law was long gone, her youngest son and daughter-in-law were not around, and the only granddaughter-in-law was not liked by her.
In a complex big family, my grandmother likes my uncle the most, which everyone knows in their hearts, and my grandfather likes my mother the most, and at the same time I like my sister the most.
In fact, sometimes it is a pity that when they were alive, the conditions in my family were not very good, and my mother sometimes felt that she had failed to fulfill her filial piety. Since the death of my grandfather, my mother has always been haunted by it, and at the same time she has a grudge against the other sisters.
Until the death of my grandmother, my mother has been watching and never left, until the last moment, my mother is still holding my grandmother's hand, my grandmother is not confused, she knows people's hearts, my family conditions are not good, but her daughter has done well enough, of course, they also take good care of my family.
Grandma was not confused before she died, she knew that she was leaving, and explained everything, she was tired, but she was also reluctant, she had not seen her little grandson grow up, and she still had some nostalgia.
She walked very peacefully, compared to her grandfather's environment at that time, she was much luckier, her life was full of twists and turns, but also lucky, with her husband silently paying, with children filial piety, surrounded by grandchildren.
May she be led into the kingdom of mythology.
Since the death of my grandfather, my grandmother has become a big family connection, every year during the Chinese New Year, my grandmother's family is always a lot of people, adults and children, you can sit at two tables, at that time she should be the happiest but prosperous for a few days, but the children will often come to visit. After the death of my grandmother, I actually caused a breakup, a lot of fun, I don't know how many people have become a conversation after dinner, that time is the saddest time for my mother, she is very embarrassed, every time I persuade her to care, but she is the boss, she can't bear it, not long after the death of my grandmother, a good family will disperse.
I don't know what to say, I think my grandmother will be sad when she sees it, but fortunately she took a step earlier.