Born close to her mother, her mother is great, maybe she doesn't contribute much to society, but she does give her all to the family.

My mother married close to our family at the age of twenty-eight, she and my father met on a blind date, I don't know if it is fate, let two strangers come together, in fact, they are not suitable, but they have lived together for 30 years, raised three children, and sent filial piety to three old people.

Mother was by no means an ordinary woman, she was full of wisdom and bravery, but time wasted everything, she was old, and some things changed. Before my mother married close to our family, she had been doing business at my grandmother's house, and she was also in a hurry, and her life was very good, but when the daughter got married, our family conditions were average, and then because of the separation of the family and the death of my grandmother, I was in debt, so I also relied on my grandmother's family to help.

I remember when I was very young, my grandmother died not long ago, the family was very poor, so that I needed credit to be able to afford rice and flour oil, that was the countryside rarely went out to work, my mother was the first to go out, that year my father fell at home and injured his foot, I was only six years old, life is really difficult, hands are always unclean, clothes are dirty for a few days before wearing, food is never enough to eat, and even once I can't afford to buy paper and pencils.

No matter how strong the mother was, she didn't want to see her child like this, so she only went out to work for a year, when the salary was not high, but it was much better than farming, and when she came back, she paid off her debts, paid off her credit, and never left again.

In the days that followed, my father went out to work as a coolie, and later was forced by life to pick up his books and begin to learn architectural knowledge, which is probably worthy of the word cultural person.

When my mother is here, I will never be hungry, and my clothes are clean, but my mother is also careless, probably she is not as careful as an ordinary little woman, and sometimes many places cannot be taken care of, so my childhood is actually not so good.

Life can't go on, my mother will go to my grandmother's house to bring things back, rice, flour, oil and vegetables, she is actually embarrassed, she used to be so beautiful, and she made a lot of money in business, but she only got married at twenty-eight, and she was still a poor scholar, her mother must have experienced cold words, maybe her grandmother also said something, but she had no way, and the child, she was responsible for her mother, but fortunately, her grandfather liked her mother very much, although her grandmother said it, but she didn't want her daughter to suffer.

My life has always been in a state where I have just solved the problem of food and clothing, which is also determined by family conditions.

There are three children in the family who go to school, and the father goes out to work, only at home during the Chinese New Year and the autumn harvest and spring ploughing, and the mother takes care of the three children while taking care of the farmland, and at the same time has to compete with several aunts and aunts (those chickens and dogs in the countryside).

How many ups and downs my mother has experienced over the years, no one knows, but the most distressing should be the death of my grandparents, first my grandfather died when I was in elementary school, at that time the family conditions were not good, my mother has not had time to let my grandfather enjoy some blessings, this has been her heart disease for a long time, and then the family conditions are slightly better, my mother and I often take my grandmother to live at home.

When I was in high school, my grandmother was sick and was notified by the doctor to prepare for the next generation, during that time our house was empty, and my mother was with the ward every day and night, for more than a month, in addition to going home to get a change of clothes, until the end, I asked my mother if she would be heartbroken? I remember that there were tears in the corners of her eyes at that time, and she pretended to say lightly: Everyone has life and death, no one can escape, your grandmother left no regrets, she should have seen everything, and she has enjoyed everything in this life, unlike your grandfather who suffered so much, and left without enjoying the blessings.

I know my mother is heartbroken, but she is an adult, and she is also a mother of three children, the mistress of a family.

But greater pain was waiting for her, no one would have thought that not long after the death of her grandmother, the eldest uncle's child would split up with her younger uncle, and the mother was in a dilemma, and no one listened to her words, but this was not the most painful, the most painful thing was the hatred between the sisters, which caused another old incident, and they wronged their mother for taking money that should not have been taken at a cousin's wedding.

I have persuaded her many times to stop worrying about the troubles on her mother's side, and my grandparents are gone, since they have done such a thing, what else can they insist on? But now I have figured out that there is the same blood flowing in the end, and this is the closest person except our family.

My mother suffered a lot of grievances in the matter of separating the family, and I was still in school at that time, so I didn't know how powerful it was, but then I heard that my mother was beaten by my uncle's daughter-in-law, and I was angry, but it was useless, because the "woman" also apologized, and she almost kowtowed, but I wouldn't forgive, my mother probably would, but she forgave my uncle's son, not his daughter-in-law.

Later, during the summer vacation, my grandmother's brother's children had a happy event, and my aunt proposed to go together, and I took this opportunity to reconcile and talk about the matter.

When I came back, there were a few more wounds, and my mother's expression was gloomy, and the injury was a black purple mark that my uncle grabbed by his hand and neck when my uncle drank too much wine and wanted to beat my cousin. That's why I hated them so much, and I was talking to my mother while rubbing safflower oil, and my mother was supposed to be very uncomfortable because her family was scattered.

I have hardly seen my mother cry, my mother is strong, but she will also be hit by reality, for a period of time my father did engineering, the family continued to use money, and my mother borrowed money from everywhere, so my sister's living expenses and I were also compressed a lot, my mother was in a very bad state during that time, the whole person was very busy, and her natural temper was not very good. However, the project didn't make much money later, so it didn't lose money.

For most of her life, my mother's life has not had many twists and turns, but she has also experienced life and death.

But in recent years, my mother has changed, because my brother has reached the age of marriage, and the family has no money to buy a house in a big city, she began to work with her father, I sometimes feel very heartbroken, why do I have to suffer so much, I don't know how many times I have persuaded her not to go out to work, but she said that she is not old, she has to wait for her to hold her grandson, she has money in her hand.

In half of my mother's life, she was slamming herself, but she raised a few of us well, sometimes calling home or video chatting, I would ask her in a stern tone if she had eaten meat, whether she had bought fruit to eat, whether she had bought vegetables at home, I was afraid that she would be reluctant when we were not at home.

Mother, dedicated to you!

We have grown up, blessed are you, and your wisdom has influenced us for so many years.

Love you, your little son.

Actually, I don't have the courage to say these things in front of my mother, I'm afraid that if I see her in tears, then I will think that I have done something wrong, mother, it's good to have you.