XXVIII. The time of parting
The assignment of graduates is a matter for the county education bureaus, and the assignment in Chuxi County comes and goes in principle, but at the same time, it is necessary to take care of the remote townships and villages, because the teachers in these places are weak and need to be strengthened. Other counties and districts are still based on the principle of where to go from.
Chuxi's classmates were obviously not calm, and everyone was afraid of being assigned to a remote township. Students in other counties are much more at ease at this time, and they will often find a way to go to the county seat or suburbs, and no matter how difficult it is, they can still get their hometowns.
In the past two days, the students talked and chatted together, naturally inseparable from the topic of distribution, some of the superior family conditions are often complimented, saying that they will definitely stay in the county, these students with superior family conditions are also very modest and cautious, saying that it is difficult to stay in the county, or even impossible.
They said this in their hearts: First, if I can't stay in the city, my words have already been said in the front, and everyone will not say that I brag and see my jokes; second, if I talk about the difficulties bigger, if I stay in the city, it will also show that the family has more energy and more face.
There are also those whose family conditions are average or not very good, or self-pity, or silent, their hearts are also relaxed, in line with the good share, they are regarded as picking up the cheap, and the share is not good, anyway, they can be regarded as having a job, where is not paid.
Because Ma Feiyang lost his escort, he looked at the assigned matter more openly, and didn't think about it at all, and some classmates persuaded him that he still couldn't find someone, maybe he was really assigned to a remote place, and he would only cry sadly when the time came. Ma Feiyang just smiled after hearing this, first thanked his classmates for their concern, and then said that he would work hard. Then it's time to play ball, play ball, practice calligraphy, and think: Where to go is not work, no matter how far away the place is, someone has to go, everyone doesn't go, is it possible that the education in that place will not be carried out?
By the end of June, graduation was just around the corner. At this time, the students felt that the three years had passed, and the joy of the classmates together had not had time to taste it carefully, and it had come to the moment of separation, just like Zhu Bajie eating ginseng fruit, the good taste was about to be enjoyed, and the fruit was no longer on the tongue.
So everyone hurried, took pictures, wrote parting messages, and some of the close relationships such as a dormitory, a county, a club, often played ball, and went to the restaurant outside the school to eat, when called "scattered meal". Most of these casual meals are to invite class teachers and teachers, Xu Libo is also busy for a while, everyone is a student, and whoever comes to invite him has to go.
During the meal, Xu Libo also kept passing on the scriptures and telling his students: "It's different when you work, a unit is a river and lake, there are various sects in the rivers and lakes, and the same is true in the unit, so don't be a maverick and be alone." The so-called people are divided into groups, which means that people are social animals, and they must have their own groups, and groups can increase their sense of security and comfort. If a person can integrate into different groups, it means that the person's emotional intelligence is at a high level, and often such a person can be like a fish in water in the unit. Of course, this is also due to the character, can not be forced, some people have strong adaptability, good at following the flow, and some people let the wind rise is not to sail, I don't want everyone to do anything, must forcibly change themselves, of course, if you change yourself will become happy, then change hard, if you change yourself, but not happy or even painful, then keep your own truth, why do you need to find your own awkwardness in life. But no matter what, there is one thing to remember, that is, don't offend people easily, offend people, others are unhappy, and you are not happy, as the saying goes, many friends have many roads, in short, it is better to make friends than to make enemies, and it is better to cooperate than to fight. ”
Xu Libo's words came out, and the students all cited them as good words, some silently chattered, some tasted repeatedly, some were amazed, some compared and reviewed, and some were like treasures.
The night before graduation, at a party in Ma Feiyang's dormitory and another dormitory, Xu Libo couldn't help but sigh after finishing his lecture and continued: " Some things are easy to say, but difficult to do, for example, me, I can tell such a truth, does it mean that my emotional intelligence is very high, in fact, my emotional intelligence is not high, you see I have worked in a normal school for so many years, but so many years are still standing still, why is this, this shows that saying and doing are two different things, knowing and understanding the truth is one thing, and acting according to the reason is another thing. If everyone acts according to reason, will they be able to succeed? Definitely not, because there is still the issue of how to do things, and some people can succeed if they do the Fa, and some people will be difficult to succeed if they don't do the Fa. For example, we all know that we must have a good relationship with the leader, then we all have to do it according to this principle, some people never touch the leader, so that the leader does not even know what his name is, this is definitely not good, this is to know the reason but not to do it according to the reason; there are many people who are doing it, but the results are very different, this is the question of right and wrong methods, some leaders are so happy, but you are cautious, some leaders seek truth from facts, but you are flashy, this is the wrong method. Ay...... Life is complicated, because people are complicated, how to grasp the advantages and avoid the disadvantages? I am afraid that no one can explain clearly, only by yourself in the life of careful groping, I hope that you can meet more good people and noble people in the future, do not meet villains. ”
These words came from the bottom of their hearts, Ma Feiyang, Zhang Gaoyun and others were so excited that they burst into tears, they thanked Mr. Xu from the bottom of their hearts, and felt that Xu Libo was not only a good teacher but also a good friend.
Xu Libo was so happy that he couldn't help but be full of pride, and he and his students pushed the cup and changed the lamp, and said: "In the future, we will be peers, and we will be brothers when we meet again." Ma Feiyang and Zhang Gaoyun were all taken aback, and hurriedly said: "Teacher Xu, we will always be your students, and we will always be disciples in front of you." Xu Libo was also relieved to hear this.
Parting is imminent, and everyone knows that once they part, it will be difficult to see each other again, and some people may not necessarily see each other again in this life. When parting with the wine filled the table, some people's eyes were already sour, there were no girls on the table, and naturally there was no scene of tears, more of pride.
This one said, "You all have to write to me, call me, and when I have everything arranged, I will ask you all to come over, and no one will be missing." The other one said, "If anyone gets married and doesn't invite me to drink the wedding wine, see that I don't take care of him, and then I will go and hug his wife." Others said: If anyone becomes the principal in the future, he must invite us to dinner, if he doesn't invite us to dinner, we will go to lift his bottom, hum, you people, I have all the little handles, hahaha.
The wine was really full of pride, everyone was angry, and in the end it was a mess, some vomited on the spot, some vomited when they left the hotel, some yelled and laughed, some stumbled, and some rolled directly to the ground. It was noisy until midnight.
The next day, everyone was carrying their own bags, and the time to break up had really arrived, although they all pretended to be very calm, in fact, everyone's hearts were quite unsettled, Zheng Sheng was silently packing up things, one by one; Zhang Gaoyun would say a few words to Ma Feiyang, and a few words to Fang Haojie; Li Hongwei had already packed his backpack, sat on the bed and looked here and there for a while; Zhu Peng had to look at every thing he packed for a long time, and then tidy it up; Ma Feiyang only felt that the atmosphere was really depressing, and a word seemed to make this dormitory wail, just like a house full of gas, a spark can explode。 After three years of getting along day and night, these are the best brothers, and as soon as they turn around, they will disappear, and they don't know when they will see each other again. Ma Feiyang thought again, he didn't know where he could be assigned, whether there were any classmates in that place, and that place was far away, and he was even more sad for a while.
Ma Feiyang carried his bags and left the school, and when he walked out of the school gate, he looked back again, he looked at the school, thinking about the three years, there have been too many unforgettable things here in the past three years, glory, laughter, sadness, sweetness...... and most importantly he has grown up, he is now a young man. Ma Feiyang gritted his teeth and finally turned to leave.