- Comrade Qiao Nan, after becoming a father, can you understand your father back then?

Comrade Qiao Nan took off his glasses - yes, although he had full marks in eagle eye skills when he was young, but when he reached middle age, he could not walk an inch without glasses. No, he already wears glasses before he reaches middle age.

Comrade Qiao Nan rubbed his temples, obviously not thinking about how to deal with this somewhat acute question. He refused the interview on the pretext that his eyes were too sour.

But when the interviewer returned to the room, he said again, "I understand!"

After he couldn't do without his glasses, one day he suddenly had a very important meeting, and his boss hid his glasses. He stumbled for ten minutes, and if it hadn't been for his wife bringing him spare glasses, he would have almost had something wrong.

Even though he hurried to the venue, he was still late. He is also regarded as a big chief in the eyes of others, but being late is obviously not in line with his usual rigorous style. When he got home, he didn't put down his bag, so he angrily went to the boss and threatened to beat him up.

In the end, under the coordination of his wife, two men, one older and one small, sat at opposite ends of the negotiation table, and the wife sat between them to act as the Chu River Han boundary. The atmosphere was very tense for a while, and the child said confidently: "It's your fault first, you said that you would take me to archery today, but you don't talk much!"

"I told you, I have a very important meeting today!

"It's different! Hmph! You have a very important meeting every day! I made an appointment with you a month ago, just to let you free up your time! But what about you, let me go to a meeting with others!"

The little adult, who was only five years old at the time, was not afraid at all when facing his father with a black face, but he was a little aggrieved, and finally almost cried angrily.

Comrade Qiao Nan looked at himself who was one size younger, his anger was still rising, but he had calmed down a lot. As the son said, it is true that he broke the contract before, and he is not to blame that the little adult is angry.

When he was his son's age, he was beaten countless times by his father for this kind of prank. He understood his father's mood, but he was much more rational than his father, and he didn't do anything in the end.

He asked his wife to avoid it, took the initiative to pick up his son, wiped the tears from his little face, and admitted his mistake to him. Then I emphasized to him that Dad's work is very important, and Dad will go wherever he is needed, just like Superman. The world still needs supermen, and when you grow up, you will understand.

The little adult pouted and did not speak, but peeled the orange. Qiao Nan didn't expect that he actually put the peeled oranges into his mouth, as if he was looking for a step for himself.

"Dad, I understand you, but that doesn't mean I'm not angry. ”

"So, Dad will take you to see your uncles shoot, okay?"

"And when will it be?"

"I'll go tomorrow! Tomorrow I'll ask my mom to take a leave of absence, don't go to kindergarten, and dad will take you to see the gunman." ”

The little adult finally burst into tears and laughed, and gave all the remaining oranges to his father. Qiao Nan said: "Today you didn't cry or lie, but honestly admitted your mistakes, reasoned with your father, didn't let your mother intercede, and you were a little man." But there's only one thing that's wrong, you know what?"

"You shouldn't hide your glasses...... "The little adult lowered his head and said, "Mom criticized me, she said that you don't have glasses, it will be very dangerous, and you can wrestle." Dad, I'll never hide your glasses again. ”

"Awesome!"

Qiao Nan doesn't know how to be a father, but he at least wants to be a father who can listen to his children's thoughts, and to do this, he can give himself eighty

Divide it!

Of course, that's all for later, in the winter of 2009, he was a young man who didn't know anything, and he didn't even know which star he was wandering on.

He has been in the army for a long time, and he has long developed the habit of criticism and self-criticism, and this self-criticism is in various aspects, for example, except for being a good junior officer, he is still a mess in other aspects. He is a son who can't communicate with his parents, a brother who can't help his sisters and sisters, and even a particularly dull boyfriend who can't even keep a girlfriend in the end.

But he didn't go to graduate school and continued to stay in the army, he was still more excited than he imagined. In a letter to his sister, he said: "I find that I can't do without this military uniform, and I feel comfortable working here physically and mentally. But I also had a little panic, I thought that there were countless possibilities in my life, and in middle age, I could still turn around gorgeously when I took off this military uniform. But now, that possibility is gone. I can only feel the thrill of being alive on the training ground, and I feel the value of life every time I perform a mission...... Anyway, I'm glad I didn't leave here for the time being, I've relied on it, or rather, loved it. ”

Now I can only open my heart to my sister, including three failed relationships, I told my sister. He said: "I used to fantasize about getting married early, with a gentle wife and naughty children at home, and every time I saw the warm lights, I would feel very reassured. What doesn't belong to anyone else, but to my own home. But now I'm also confused, feelings are like a spell, and every time it ends in failure. I thought, I should be a cursed person, a person who can't have love. ”

Qiao Lu is very distressed by what happened to her younger brother, and she is also very distressed that she has become the only person who can listen to his heart in this world. In her reply, she wrote: "You have a passion for the first time, and I have never been surprised that you have written from Rong, perhaps, that is the most suitable path for you." For feelings, it can only be said that fate has not arrived, so there is no need to be too anxious. You shine brightly, and you will always find a girl who is as dazzling as you. Remember, you are not only a warrior, but also a child of the Qiao family. Take care of everything, pray for you day and night. ”

My sister said every word to her heart, especially the sentence "the child of the Qiao family". He smiled bitterly for a long time, he really didn't know how to be a 100-point child.

In December, it should be snowing heavily in Hong Kong City, but Qiao Nan is getting more and more wet and cold. He also wondered, this is not the first year to spend the winter here, how can it be so difficult? Later, he figured out that this year, Huang Jinzi did not send him knee pads again, and his mother, who was in menopause, did not send him plasters and cotton clothes.

What used to feel trivial is even more painful after being lost. For example, you can't feel anything when you breathe in the air, but if you can't breathe one day, it's really uncomfortable every minute.

Qiao Nan was very relieved that the golden son didn't send anything; if his mother didn't send it, would he give up on this barely passing son? Qiao Nan was a little flustered, he didn't know what he had done wrong, was the relationship with his mother going to the freezing point?

Fortunately, Jolene sent him something in time and explained to him the reason - his mother was very emotional, not only did she cry at every turn, but she also broke the dishes at home, which scared little Betty so much that she didn't dare to come out. No one in the family dared to mess with her, and when her grandmother said a few words to her, she began to cry, saying that her life was not easy.

Qiao Nan was very uncomfortable when she heard this, and her first reaction was to send some more money home. As a result, my sister said tiredly: "Brother, my parents are not short of money now, what is the use of sending more money?"

"So what to do?"

"Call Mom more! Not only tell her happy things and unhappy things, but also solve them with her, so that she feels that she is still there

It is needed by children. ”

Qiao Nan couldn't easily understand his mother's needs no matter what, but since his sister said it, he tried to do it. It can be seen that he called his mother, and she was still very happy. As long as you don't mention reconciliation with your father, you can talk for a long time. The only thing Qiao Nan confided in her mother was that she was a little lonely.

And Li Lanzhi knew that since Qiao Nan could say it, the degree of loneliness must not be at all.

Alas, a boy of this age, if he doesn't have a confidant, won't he have to be lonely?

One day in early December, Qiao Nan went to the military hospital to visit an injured comrade-in-arms, and when he came out of the hospital, he happened to meet Su Xue, who had not been seen for a long time. After she gave birth, her figure was much plumper than before, but her face was kinder than before.

Given that there was still an inseparable person in the middle, the two were a little embarrassed after greeting each other. In the end, Su Xue still started from the doctor's point of view and asked him if his insomnia had improved, and whether those lonely symptoms had recurred.

Qiao Nan smiled bitterly: "The quality of sleep is like that! The symptoms of loneliness are just like that!"

Su Xue quipped: "What's wrong? I have a girlfriend, and I'm not happy?"

"Girlfriend, don't mention it, I don't even dare to date anymore. Qiao Nan originally wanted to ask "her" how it was, but after thinking about it, everyone has a boyfriend, so it's not appropriate to ask again!

Su Xue's mouth opened wide in surprise: "You don't have a girlfriend?"

"Talked, divided. ”

Su Xue was so anxious that she stomped her foot: "Then why didn't you reply to Wen Jing's text message?"

"Huh?"

"The last time she told me that she met you in the bookstore, it was probably only a dozen seconds, and she could see the few small scars on your body clearly. She couldn't resist texting you in the middle of the night, but you didn't reply. You are not the kind of cold-blooded person, she said. Unless you have a girlfriend and you can turn a blind eye to her overtures, you can't ignore her. ”

The world in front of Qiao Nan distorted, and he remembered the text message that didn't go out, the text message that came in the middle of the night, and the Nokia mobile phone that couldn't be opened.

Qiao Nan couldn't imagine how worried she must have been when she sent that message, and how aggrieved, tormented, and even desperate she should have been when she couldn't wait for her reply.

Qiao Nan slapped her head hard and asked, "Doesn't she have a boyfriend......?"

"I know that boy, he also studied at Xie University, so he can only be regarded as a suitor of Wenwen! She didn't promise anyone, and after returning to Beijing that time, the boy was also tired and couldn't catch up. After all, after chasing for so many years, her mind has always been on someone. ”

"Also, Qiao Nan, if she really has been with a certain boy, you can understand more! She is alone now, there is no one to rely on, and she has a very hard time. ”

Qiao Nan was so remorseful that he was about to bite off his tongue, and he wanted to call her now, even if he didn't say anything, just listen to her voice. For Qiao Nan, it is effortless to remember a number, but unfortunately, when calling her phone, the message from there has always been "The phone you dialed is on the phone".

Qiao Nan understood, she had pulled herself into the blacklist. After that message, she must have experienced a lot of despair and completely hated herself, or thought that she had a girlfriend and completely lost her heart to herself.

When she can use the phone again, even if it is to borrow the phone of her comrade-in-arms, you have to call her. Qiao Nan thought so, waiting for the opportunity to use the phone again.

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