My sister is a year older than me, but she is much more sensible than me, and in my family, she is the one who has suffered the most, but she has lived a stronger life.

Under the patriarchal mentality of the traditional family, she survived in the gap between me and my brother, she didn't know how many grievances she suffered, and when she was a child, she occasionally remembered that she cried, but she always laughed when she grew up.

I sometimes wonder how good a boy is worthy of my sister's life, but she found a gentleman, who was not as good as I thought, and probably she was more mature.

She is very independent, so independent that she makes others feel distressed, but she lives very happily, she works part-time to make money to travel, sees the mountains and rivers of the motherland alone, chases love alone, and enjoys life with her own wisdom. She can not go home for the New Year, or she can not go home during the winter and summer vacations, she has the courage and ability to leave that home that is not very comfortable, but she is still grateful, to her parents, to us very good.

In fact, I have a lot to say about her, she is like a mother to me, she has taken care of me since I was a child, and of course she has become her punching bag, and she has been threatened and bullied by her. But her kindness is worth the rest of my life.

At home she often compares herself to me, and then I seem to be more obedient and better, and she is rarely praised, so that the grievances she has suffered over the years make me feel that I am responsible for a large part.

She was rebellious when she was a child, she may also feel unfair, compared to me, she has no better grades, no praise from her parents, no more careful care, she made everything public during the rebellious period, trying to wake up her parents, she is also a very good child, a child who longs to be praised, and a girl.

But compared to my well-behaved, her noisy seems to be even more dislikeable, I can't do anything with her, so I have become her punching bag many times, I am actually very happy, at least to make her feel a little more relaxed.

And when I started to rebel, she had grown up, and my rebellious period was all reflected in her, I began to refute her, deliberately annoyed her, began to disobey her, and sued her in front of my parents, I must have been very annoying at that time, she should have also disliked me, and I was so angry every day that I lost my temper, but she still had a responsibility, she was a sister.

Then we both grew up, and for a long time, we rarely communicated with each other, and we couldn't know each other's minds, so that I hated that feeling, and I would think that maybe we would never go back to the past, and she would become another person's daughter-in-law, and form a family with someone else, and abandon me.

We both experienced a long period of wandering, looking for answers in the dark, probably because we lived in the same environment, so it also gave us a lot of courage, and we finally reconciled as before, like the beginning, open our hearts to each other, without scruples.

But she became more and more sensible, I will become a little less obedient in the future, in addition to my parents to give life, the most grateful person is her, without her, my childhood must be full of loneliness, without her, I may become more cowardly, without her, I may not be where I am now.

To my dear sister, I may not have the ability to make you live without worry, but I will never forget that you are my sister, a person who has taken care of me since childhood.