Chapter Twenty-Four: Good Things Come in Pairs
"You'll be abandoned by your other half, haha. Fang Shanmu nodded, "The husband and wife must move forward and grow together in order to maintain the freshness of marriage, learn while growing, and constantly create new surprises in learning." β
"To put it bluntly, aren't you and Sheng Chen still separated? Who wouldn't be reasonable, and only if you can do it can be regarded as a real skill. Jiang Bian snorted disapprovingly, "You men, all duplicitous, speak well, but never put it into practice." β
Seeing what Sheng Chen wanted to say, Fang Shanmu shook his head to stop her, and he nodded solemnly at Jiangbian: "Jiangbian, I think it is necessary to deeply analyze the root cause of the problem between you and Gu Hao. Your problem, of course, there are reasons why you want to control Gu Hao too much, and it is also related to Gu Hao's fact that he always wants to find sexual encounters, on the surface, Gu Hao's desire to control is the main reason, and your desire to control is the inducement, so you have been convincing yourself as a victim that all your restraints and discipline on Gu Hao are legitimate and necessary, right?"
Jiangbian didn't speak, and his eyes flickered a little.
"Actually, you can take other ways to save Gu Hao, such as having a good talk with him and explaining the stakes. For example, change the paternalistic management that restricts and yells at him at every turn to influence him. Just like in a company, if you are blindly strict, employees will only have awe and no spontaneous motivation. If you are blindly generous, it will also make employees too relaxed and do not know how to work hard. Paying equal attention to both soft and hard is the most in line with human nature, Jiangbian, think about it yourself, in the good times, is Sheng Chen's popularity good or your popularity?"
"I don't need popularity, I just want them to listen to me if they're afraid of me. Jiangbian is still obsessed, "What you say is, with Gu Hao's virtue, he has been taught repeatedly and has not changed, and he can still speak reasonably?
"If you really think that Gu Hao is incurable, you should stop the loss early, instead of consuming it!" Fang Shanmu was also not polite, "You still haven't understood a little, Jiangbian, the breakdown of your marriage with Gu Hao is not his fault alone, you are also at fault." If you want to transform him, be sure to communicate with him in a way that works for him, in a way that he understands and accepts, not in a way that you feel comfortable and feasible. If you don't want to transform him, how good it is to cut it directly, which not only saves worry and effort, but also saves yourself youth. β
Jiang Bian's gaze finally stopped being firm, and he wavered a little: "You mean, I was wrong too?"
"After divorcing Gu Hao, did you suffer any pain?" Fang Shanmu continued to ask.
"Of course I did. β
"If there is pain, there is a mistake. Fang Shanmu sneered, "Jiangbian, when you realize your mistakes, you can be regarded as a step forward." Now you are still in pain, but Gu Hao is actively embracing the new life, which shows that he has let go of the past, he is growing, and you are still standing still. People who don't grow up will suffer, that is, they cling to the past. β
"Okay, okay, it's all my fault, okay? You're all right, you don't have the slightest mistake!" Jiang Bian was angry again, "Aren't you and Sheng Chen also separated? Whose fault are you?"
Sheng Chen's mood has not been high, and he looks unhappy. She was just about to speak, when suddenly a vomiting sensation came, and she hurriedly got up and went out.
Fang Shanmu chased out: "What's the matter, I see that your face is not very good, is it that you have been too tired lately and didn't sleep well yesterday?"
Sheng Chen hugged Fang Shanmu: "No, there was an accident......
"What accident?" Fang Shanmu was confused.
"Why are you so stupid? You're not a young man who hasn't married, don't you understand anything?" Sheng Chen glanced at Fang Shanmu with disgust, "It's all your fault, you were not careful, you just came." β
"What's coming?" Fang Shanmu became more and more confused.
"Ah, are you pregnant?" Seeing Sheng Chen's retching for a while, Fang Shanmu suddenly realized and slapped his head, "Boys and girls?"
As soon as the words came out, he realized that he had said the wrong thing, he smiled, and hurriedly supported Sheng Chen: "I'm sorry, although it's the second time I've been a father, but the interval is too long, and it's a little handy." β
"Do you want to give birth?" Sheng Chen hesitated a little, "First, I'm older, and second, I'm busy with work." β
"Yes, definitely. Fang Shanmu had a resolute attitude, "When a child comes, he has to be born, and he must respect life." Being old is not a problem, now technology is developed. Being busy with work is not a difficult task and can be overcome. β
"Do you really want this child?" Sheng Chen hesitated a little, "If we have a second child, it will be difficult for us to really divorce, and the three-year appointment will come soon." β
"Divorce, what kind of divorce, haven't we already divorced?" Fang Shanmu pretended to be stupid.
"That's fake. β
"It doesn't matter if it's true or not, the important thing is that it's gone, and now it's a reunion. Fang Shanmu smiled and pulled Sheng Chen over, "Let's go, announce the good news to them." β
When Fang Shanmu and Sheng Chen returned to the private room, they saw that the atmosphere was a little weird, Zheng Yuandong and Meng Wei were squeezing their eyebrows and laughing, and the riverside looked like they were huffing, as if someone owed her tens of millions.
"Sheng Chen, you lied to me!" Jiang Bian saw the two of them coming back, and stood up with a sigh, "You said that you and Fang Shanmu are also divorced, you haven't left at all, not only have you not left, but you are also planning to have a second child! You are so annoying, you are dishonest to me!"
Sheng Chen wanted to say something, but was stopped by Fang Shanmu, Fang Shanmu took Sheng Chen's hand: "Some marriages are formally married, but they are actually divorced. Some marriages are formally divorced, but they are actually still together. We are formally separated, but in fact people and hearts are still together. Jiangbian, we are not lying to you, we just want to reflect the feeling of the so-called divorce. β
Jiangbian opened his mouth, wanted to say something but swallowed it back, and sat down stupidly: "Okay, it's all like this, I can only bless you." β
"Congratulations, congratulations. β
"Congratulations, congratulations. β
Zheng Yuandong and Meng Wei hurriedly sent their blessings.
"Zhizhi is also pregnant, and your child is estimated to have the same month due date, if it is a boy and a girl, they will be married. If they are of the same sex, let them be brothers and sisters. Zheng Yuandong slapped the table with an excited face, "It's decided, no one is allowed to object." β
Sheng Chen drank a few sips of tea in succession before suppressing the churning: "I didn't react when I was pregnant with my son, why is it so powerful this time?"
"No, don't think about it, everything is a blessing. Zheng Yuandong was very happy, "No matter, I'll recognize a godfather first, I want to be the first godfather, don't rob me." It's really the right day, but good things have to come in pairs, Yamaki, come, tell me about your affairs. β
Fang Shanmu blinked, he came to meet Sheng Chen today, mainly to talk about the next step of infinite love, as well as the current situation of good times, Sheng Chen didn't tell him that Zheng Yuandong and Meng Wei would come, so he didn't know what to talk about with the two.
Sheng Chen smiled playfully: "He doesn't know what I called you over to talk about today, give him a surprise." β
Fang Shanmu smiled bitterly: "There was already a surprise just now, okay?"
"Who stipulates that there can only be one surprise?" Sheng Chen pursed his lips and smiled, "Okay, the current speaking time belongs to Jiangbian, please Mr. Jiang to speak." β
Jiangbian coughed lightly, and glanced at Sheng Chen dissatisfied: "You know that you are teasing me...... Fang Shanmu, although I have a lot of differences with you on the views on emotional issues, no, it is an irreconcilable contradiction, but I am a person with a clear distinction between public and private, and I am willing to let go of my prejudices against you for career cooperation, and I don't care about your prejudice against me, and I hope to reach a consensus with you. β
Fang Shanmu opened his mouth, okay, it's not his again, a good man doesn't fight with a woman, he endures!
"Actually, I always said that I knew who the inner ghost of infinite love was, and I guessed that it was Hu Pan...... at that time."
Sheng Chen was surprised and said, "It's really fake, why didn't you tell Fang Shanmu earlier?"
Jiangbian ignored Sheng Chen's fuss: "First, I don't have conclusive evidence, and second, I see that Fang Shanmu looks like he is in control of everything, so I don't want to tell him, let him be deflated before he knows that he doesn't have much ability." Later, I found out that Fang Shanmu had long known that it was Hu Pan, and he never revealed her, in order to give her a chance to reform herself, and also to lay the groundwork, so Sheng Chen, Fang Shanmu is the most insidious, the most understanding of people's hearts, and the most able to use human nature, you have to be careful of him......"
Sheng Chen sighed: "No matter how bad a person is, as long as you are really good to him, he really loves you, in front of you, he will not be so bad......"
"Those who know me, Sheng Chen. Fang Shanmu glanced at Jiangbian, "Jiangbian, if you have something to say, others will attack you, except for you saying that I am bad, everyone else praises me as good." β
"That's because they're all blind!" Jiang Bian actually knew in his heart that Fang Shanmu was reliable, but he was unforgiving.
"The whole world is blind, but what does it mean that you are good at sight? Meng Wei interjected coldly, "Mr. Jiang, others like you are stupid, only my smart thinking will hurt you sooner or later." β
"Monwei, you're naΓ―ve, haha. Fang Shanmu waved his hand, "Jiangbian is just talking about it, but in fact, she has different hearts, saying one thing and doing another." It's good that she talks badly, but she does well in practice, so she is still a friend to make. If it were the other way around, it would have been completely hopeless. β
"I don't need you to speak for me, the whole world thinks I'm hopeless, and I won't change. Jiang Bian snorted angrily, "Although Fang Shanmu likes to take advantage of the weaknesses of human nature, his cleverness lies in the fact that the starting point is to help people rather than harm them. In fact, from the time Hu Pan deliberately approached me, I knew that this little girl was not simple and scheming. If you are scheming, you are not afraid, but among today's young people, who is not both precocious and has many eyes? As long as you use them on the right path, there is no major problem. After more contact with her, I found that she was dissatisfied with her treatment of infinite care, thinking that she was the first batch of veterans at the beginning like Cheng Pengpeng, but now the treatment is neither as good as Gu Hao nor as good as Lin Sansui, and later it is not as important as Du Tunan, Xu Wenqu and others, she feels unfair. β