Chapter 26 Attitudes and Techniques for Women
Jiangbian pinched his nose and looked disgusted: "It's too simple and pungent, and the conference room is too small, like a toilet." Fang Shanmu, you don't start a company, like a child playing at home. If your big company can succeed, I'll bet you 1 million. ”
"Who do you think you are?" Cheng Peng was angry, slapped the table and stood up, "Don't think that you are great if you are from the capital, I also grew up in the capital since I was a child, and I am no less knowledgeable than you." Uncle Fang's ability and insight, you can't keep up. ”
Fang Shanmu waved his hand: "Don't quarrel, just be reasonable." Say, Jiangbian, Sheng Chen, did you meet us by chance or follow us today? Do you want to quarrel and reason, or do you have any instructions?"
Jiangbian wanted to say something, but Sheng Chen held down his arm, Sheng Chen smiled reluctantly: "Fang Shanmu, don't be suspicious, I came to the music restaurant with Jiangbian to eat, and I made an appointment with Xu Wenqu to talk about things." We didn't know your new company was nearby, stalking you? I'm sorry, I'm not interested or have the time or energy. Don't overestimate your weight. ”
Gu Hao was like a wilted eggplant, bowing his head and saying nothing, sitting in the back, far away from the river. Hu Pan kicked his chair with great disdain: "Hey, you know, women don't like men the most, you are too unproductive, don't say you know me when you go out in the future." ”
"Can you stop making trouble?" Gu Hao was annoyed, "Today's matter, if it weren't for you and Cheng Pengpeng, you would have passed the test long ago." If you have to talk too much, it's better now, maybe you will be sentenced to death. God, how can I know you two living treasures? ”
"No, no, no, you should think so, Teacher Gu......" Hu Pan did not mock Gu Hao as usual, but looked happy, "This is a rare opportunity for actual combat training, and it is a classic case to be written into our growth game APP." The different attitudes and skills you and Uncle Fang have towards women will determine the direction of your future fate. ”
"Go and go, and you will know that you will make fun of me, life is not a game, and there is no way to do it again if you can't pass the level. Gu Hao looked sad, and saw that he was too close to Cheng Peng Peng and Hu Pan, so he sat farther away from them.
Hu Pan and Cheng Peng glanced at each other and laughed.
"Your ...... every day," Gu Hao muttered a mantra of Hu Pan.
Jiangbian's eyes always followed Gu Hao's every move, she really couldn't stand Gu Hao's pretentiousness, and shouted: "Gu Hao, sit here!"
"Yes. Gu Hao struck a spirit, immediately walked to the riverside and sat down, and begged in a low voice, "Outside, not at home, save me some face." ”
Jiangbian ignored Gu Hao, turned to Sheng Chen and said, "Sheng Chen, if you want to redivide the ownership of property, I can invite the most famous divorce lawyer in the capital." Fang Shanmu cheated in marriage, according to the law, he should compensate you. You can even let him go out of the house!"
"You're a curse!" Fang Shanmu couldn't help but sneer, "Jiangbian, you don't break up other people's families, don't let other people's two turn against each other, are you unhappy? You yourself are unhappy in your marriage, and you are also jealous of other people's family harmony, aren't you? You are just an authentic scourge who thinks you are clever and clever! I advise you, take care of your own mouth, and accumulate more virtue, otherwise you will reap the consequences!"
Jiang Bian was furious, slapped the table and stood up: "Fang Shanmu, you dare to contradict me? Get out of here! If I am a scourge spirit, you are a-stirring stick." ”
"I'm sorry to disturb you, I didn't say anything with a stick, you still have a proud face?" Fang Shanmu fought back without hesitation, "I'm sorry, open your dog's eyes wide, you are in my company, not in your home, I am not your person, you are not qualified to call me around." ”
"Puff...... Cheng Peng and Hu Pan glanced at each other and laughed tacitly.
"Stop arguing!" Sheng Chen couldn't stand it anymore and shouted, "Fang Shanmu, you make it clear in front of me, what is your relationship with them, have you cheated?"
"He didn't cheat! The relationship between them was normal, there was no ambiguity. Xu Wenqu, who was silent with her hands in her pockets on the side, suddenly burst out, and she smiled relaxedly, "Although I am a friend of Jiangbian, I am not a particularly close friend, so it can be said that I have a neutral attitude and a fair point of view." From an outsider's point of view, Fang Shanmu and Gu Hao, with Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan, are pure and innocent friends, not to mention love, and the friendship is not particularly deep. ”
Finally there is someone who understands, Fang Shanmu threw a grateful glance at Xu Wenqu, but Xu Wenqu didn't appreciate it: "You don't have to thank me, I'm just telling the truth, I don't want you to tear it up because of a misunderstanding, it's meaningless and unnecessary, and it's stupid." Emotional things are really hurtful and draining, and I know it very well. ”
"Wenqu, why do you say that?" Sheng Chen grabbed Xu Wenqu's arm, "You also heard what they said just now, interfering in other people's families to seduce other people's husbands, and thinking that they have a reasonable and theoretical basis, and they are not ashamed but proud, it's just ......"
"Don't look at what a person says, look at what he does. People often don't say and do the same thing. Xu Wenqu shrugged his shoulders in a very Western style, "Sheng Chen, Jiangbian, in fact, you are fans of the authorities, and you are carried away by jealousy and jealousy, and it can be seen from the seating arrangement at that time that they are just normal friends." If it's a couple, it's usually ......"
She turned around and smiled, pointing to Cheng Pengpeng, who was sitting side by side next to Fang Shanmu and him: "It will be the same as them now, a man and a woman are sitting side by side, opposite Gu Hao and Hu Pan, also side by side." This is one of them. ”
Second, from their physical interactions and eye contact, it can also be seen that their relationship is normal. Between lovers, whether a body movement is good, even if it is as small as a look, it will be intimate and sweet, and the person concerned does not feel anything, but in the eyes of outsiders, it can be seen at a glance. ”
"Third, although they have a dinner party, the standard of eating is obviously a working meal. If it is a couple eating, the standard will not be so low, two big men, and the so-called mature successful people, if they talk about a little girlfriend, they will not be so stingy. Xu Wenqu smiled smugly, "Based on the above analysis, it is certain that at least they are still in a normal relationship between men and women at this stage, and as for what development will be in the future, only God knows." ”
"Finished?" Cheng Pengpeng looked at Xu Wenqu with interest and smiled, "Is there anything else to add?"
"No more. Xu Wenqu responded to Cheng Pengpeng's kind and friendly smile, "You are very enthusiastic and hearty, but don't use too much force, it will not be easy to help." ”
"Thanks for the reminder, though, I won't take your advice, I have my style. Cheng Pengpeng has a good impression of Xu Wenqu, but she will still insist on her ideas.
Sheng Chen was stunned for a moment, and looked at the riverside with an inquiring gaze: "I also believe that Fang Shanmu will not cheat, let's stop dwelling on this matter, let's get down to business." ”
"Fang Shanmu won't, Gu Hao will. Jiangbian reached out to twist Gu Hao's ears, the movements were smooth, obviously a habitual and skillful action, Gu Hao turned around and hid behind Xu Wenqu, she laughed angrily, "You come out, don't hide." ”
"If you don't come out, if you can't say it, you won't come out. ”
Xu Wenqu stepped aside and stopped Jiangbian with a smile: "**, Gu Hao didn't cheat, and he didn't play ambiguous, trust my judgment." ”
"Why?" Jiang Bian believed for three points, and there were seven points of doubt, "He is different from Fang Shanmu, Fang Shanmu is a passive type, and pursues the four no's principle - no initiative, no refusal, no responsibility, and no aftermath, Gu Hao is an active type, and adopts a three-no policy - don't let go, don't miss, and don't be afraid of mistakes." What they have in common is that they are both excellent and attractive to the opposite sex. The difference is that Fang Shanmu is deeply hidden, and Gu Hao is invincible. ”
Xu Wenqu covered his mouth and smiled: "I understand your thoughts, **, but most people have two common biases, one is called false empathy bias, and the other is survivorship bias, and the two biases will cause us to misjudge our judgment of many things." ”
Fang Shanmu's eyes lit up, he knew a lot of girls, from the 70th to the 80th to the 90th, there are really not many who have calm logical thinking like Xu Wenqu. Women rely more on their emotions to judge things, and sometimes make a decision based on their preferences at the time. Xu Wenqu is not, she is good at observation, likes logical reasoning, and can find the essence from the subtleties, which is really rare.
Looking at her age, she should be a girl in the 80s, Fang Shanmu secretly praised, don't look at her only a few years older than Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan, but she is much more mature than them, obviously, she is an experienced woman.
Xu Wenqu continued to talk eloquently: "False empathy bias is that when people recognize others, they will always give their own characteristics and preferences to others, for example, if they like a certain brand, they will feel that others will like it." If you love a particular dish, you will think that others must love it too. If you are suspicious, others must be suspicious. If you are sociable, then others must be sociable too. So, what kind of person you are, what kind of world you have in your eyes, a poor person will find that there are poor people around him, and a rich person will also feel that there are rich people around him. The same applies to the relationship between husband and wife. **I always say that the husbands of my friends cheat a lot, so I strictly restrain Gu Hao. But in reality, everyone is surrounded by the same proportion of cheaters and family loyalists. It's just that if you focus more on the cheater, you will think that cheating is a common phenomenon......"
"I like her......" Hu Pan touched Cheng Pengpeng's shoulder, "She is very feminine and doesn't speak, she speaks and acts very methodically." Although I don't understand what she says, I feel that she is very powerful. ”
Cheng Peng nodded: "I'm the same." Hey, Uncle Fang, what kind of deviation did she say, do you know what it means?"