"Don't worry about it. Xu Wenqu's face sank, although she was really not in a hurry to get married again, and she felt that she was in a good state of freedom at present, but she was picked by her aunt like picking a commodity, and she was disgusted with her old age, and her mood was instantly depressed.

"How do you speak, ask Sister Qu is so good, there are so many people who like her, and I am one of them. Jiang Chengzi was anxious, stepped forward and hugged Xu Wenqu's shoulder, "As long as she nods, I can marry her immediately." Old man, don't look at today's young people with the eyes you did half a century ago, you are too far behind the times. ”

"Cut, young people, don't always think that our old people are backward in the times, tell you, no matter how the times develop, people have to fall in love, get married, have children, everyone has to eat, drink, and sleep, and have the ability to solve the problem of eating, drinking, sleeping and not getting married and having children, and then tell me that the times are developing and social progress!" A TV series is a TV series, society is a society, and society will teach you how to be a person in minutes. ”

Auntie's eloquent words attracted many old men and old ladies around, and everyone surrounded Fang Shanmu and others, and asked questions enthusiastically.

But most people ask Fang Shanmu, Du Tunan and Jiang Chengzi, and Cheng Pengpeng, Hu Pan, and Xu Wenqu are rarely asked. Among the three Fang Shanmu, the most popular is Du Tunan, followed by Fang Shanmu, and finally Jiang Chengzi.

Several uncles and aunts fell in love with Fang Shanmu, and they insisted that he leave his contact information so that he could arrange to meet their daughter. Du Tu Nan too, repeatedly shirked but still couldn't get out, as the most popular person, he was completely surrounded in the middle.

Jiang Chengzi was very unconvinced, and obviously said in a tone of neglect: "Why? Why am I the youngest to find the least number of people looking for me? Don't bully young people to be poor, who dares to say that I will not be better than them in the future?"

"The future is the future, the future is unknown, now they are already excellent, in front of the performance stocks and potential stocks, most people are still willing to choose the performance stocks, understand?" The aunt just now came back, she was holding a thick stack of information in her hand, "Young man, here is all young and beautiful girl information, you pick, you choose, don't worry." ”

"So many?" Jiang Chengzi couldn't help but be overjoyed, and saw the photo on the first page at a glance, "This is quite beautiful, how can there be no object?

"Auntie, my name is Du Fenglan, you are asking around in Zhongshan Park, who doesn't know my name? I have been here for more than ten or twenty years, and there are not hundreds of pairs of successful introductions, but hundreds of pairs, they all call me Du Shi Niang. ”

"Poof...... Are you still Du Shi Niang?" Jiang Chengzi almost didn't laugh, he took the information and was attracted after only a few glances, "Really fake? Why are there so many older and high-quality young women? Doesn't it mean that there are more men and fewer women now?"

"What do you know, there are more men and fewer women in towns, not big cities, and big cities are all women and men. Du Fenglan raised her chin proudly, "If you don't investigate, you won't have the right to speak, so why do I say that the little girls are unrealistic now? They don't know what their situation is, and they think they can pick them up." Yes, the data is that there are more than 30 million more men than women in China, but don't be complacent, more than 30 million includes the elderly and children, divided by 4 is a marriageable man, that is to say, the marriageable group, there are less than 10 million more men than women. ”

"China is so big, so many cities, 10 million people are evenly distributed, and each city has tens of thousands of people. There are more than 20 million people in the capital, and there are tens of thousands more marriageable men than women, do you think it's a problem?" Du Fenglan saw that Jiang Chengzi, Hu Pan, Cheng Pengpeng, and Xu Wenqu were all attracted by her words, and couldn't help but feel a little more proud, "How many people are floating in the capital every year? Tens of thousands of people are not a problem at all!"

A white-haired old man next to him gave a thumbs up: "Du Siniang is the premier matchmaker in Zhongshan Park, she is a super matchmaker computer, and her brain is full of big data that you always say." ”

"Big data tells us, according to my more than 20 years of matchmaker experience, do you know what is the proportion of older women and men left in Beijing now?" Du Fenglan took out his mobile phone and flipped it a few times, "Let me tell you a Shanghai data, which was also told to me by a sister in Shanghai, she has been a matchmaker for 40 years." Shanghai is 1 to 4, note that it is 4 men and 1 woman. ”

"Huh?" Xu Wenqu was shocked, "It's impossible, isn't it?

"Your big data is an illusion that you are willing to believe, and mine is more down-to-earth, it is the experience in practice. Du Fenglan looked disdainful, "You little girls have been spoiled by publicity, public accounts and film and television dramas, thinking that you are so good and marketable, it's a big mistake, these unscrupulous media are just to attract people's attention, they will only blindly follow the rhythm, so they don't care if you are really happy." When you find that you don't have a choice, it's too late to regret it. I'm not afraid to tell you that the ratio of older men and women in the capital is also one to four, yes, one for men and four for women. ”

In fact, from the actual combat link just now, Xu Wenqu has vaguely found the problem, she believes that she, Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan are excellent among their peers, regardless of their appearance and figure, knowledge, and conversation, but in the blind date corner, their popularity is compared with Fang Shanmu and a few others, one underground and one in the sky.

Fang Shanmu and the others were surrounded in the middle, it was difficult to move an inch, and there were several of them, and there were many people who were interested, but there were not many who were interested. Either she dislikes her age, or she thinks that Hu Pan is not tall enough and her income is average, or because Sun Xiaozhao is not a Beijing hukou and is from a rural family, etc. Cheng Pengpeng is the most popular of the four of them, not only because she has a better temperament and is beautiful, but also because she has a house, a car and a Beijing hukou.

In the blind date market, Xu Wenqu probably summed up a rule, women between the ages of 23 and 30 are the most popular age group. A bachelor's degree is the most popular academic qualification, and the popularity of bachelor's degree or above has dropped sharply. The Beijing hukou is the most popular, and non-Beijing hukou can also be used, but it must be beautiful and excellent enough. There are not many women over the age of 30 and divorced. If you are divorced and bring a boy, you will be discriminated against. Over 35 years old, as long as the man is slightly better, even if he is over 40 years old, he will avoid it on the grounds that he is too old.

…… There is really a lot of gap between reality and imagination, calm and rational like Xu Qu, thinking that he still has a place in the marriage and love market, after all, there are both Du Tunan's waiting and Jiang Chengzi's pursuit around her, but she didn't expect that at the social level, she belongs to a group that is close to having no market.

In addition to sadness and anger, Xu Wenqu also calmly analyzed the problem, and it is true that as Du Fenglan said, the imbalance between men and women in China is not as terrible as in the numbers.

With the improvement of women's social status, more women have stepped out of the original living environment, from towns, small and medium-sized cities to big cities, they have seen the prosperity and opportunities of the metropolis, and they are not willing to return to small places, they will try their best to stay, they will marry men who are better than themselves, so as to complete the transformation of life.

In addition to the way for women to change their destiny, there is also to marry, which has always been to marry women from high families and marry women from low doors, so women can marry well, but it is difficult for men to marry well. As women become better and better, there are fewer and fewer peers who match them, and they are unwilling to accommodate themselves and marry a man who is not as good as themselves, and they are slowly left.

Being left behind is not that the woman is not good enough, on the contrary, it is too good.

It's just that men still can't change the traditional idea of preferring to marry a woman who is not very good but virtuous, so too good women, especially female masters and female doctors, are not very popular in the marriage market, which shows that the deep-rooted influence of tradition still exists. Similarly, women are not willing to submit to themselves, they can't find a suitable one who is better than themselves, and they would rather be single than marry.

After some commotion, Hu Pan and Xu Wenqu were out, and the number of people interested in them decreased sharply, and in the end, only Cheng Pengpeng and Sun Xiaozhao were surrounded by groups and became sought-after goods.

"It's okay if Peng Peng is very popular, I can still understand it, why is Sun Xiaozhao?" Hu Pan was indignant about this, she was actually hit hard, only to know that her market was not so broad, "She didn't ask Sister Qu if she had a temperament, and she was not as good as me to be able to speak, how could she like her?" Are the old people blind?"

"You can't talk like that, Hu Pan, the choice of the elderly is also a trend and phenomenon in society, which is worth studying. Xu Wenqu has come out of her frustration and frustration, and her psychological quality is strong enough, "We used to like to study data and pay attention to the mainstream media, but ignore the demands of the elderly. In the final analysis, they are the decision-makers in the marriage market, and their opinions play a crucial role in the selection of partners for their children. For some, even decisive. ”

"Peng Peng is very popular, because she has a Beijing hukou, she is beautiful and decent. Sun Xiaozhao is treated well, do you know the reason?" Xu Wenqu was asking Hu Pan on the surface, but he was actually asking Fang Shanmu, who had just broken out of the encirclement.

"I don't know! I can't figure it out!" Hu Pan was very angry.

"It's not simple, Sun Xiaozhao is well-behaved and petite, although he is not low, but he looks weak. In the eyes of uncles and aunts, they belong to the type of good wives and mothers. When you are an in-law, you like to find a gentle and obedient daughter-in-law. Fang Shanmu was covered in sweat, wiping his sweat and smiling bitterly, "I really should let the riverside come around, let her really feel how much market she still has, maybe she will be better to Gu Hao." Unfortunately, it was already late. ”