"I'm not convinced! It's unfair, I'm so good and so good-looking, why is there no market?" The more Hu Pan thought about it, the more uncomfortable she felt, people don't suffer from widowhood but unevenness, especially when she saw that Sun Xiaozhao, who was not as good as herself, was actually more popular than her, the imbalance in her heart was intensifying.

Xu Wenqu ignored Hu Pan, she always thought that growth must be experienced by herself and she had comprehended, she only cared about Fang Shanmu's harvest: "How does Teacher Fang feel?

Fang Shanmu smiled: "The youngest is 22 years old, the oldest is 32 years old, the lowest education junior college, and the highest doctorate." The lowest annual salary is 50,000 yuan, and the highest is 500,000 yuan. There is also a person with a Beijing hukou, a house and a car, only 30 years old, the old man fell in love with me, and I had a special chat, so I had to pull me to see his daughter now. ”

"Why don't you go to see you?" Hu Pan coaxed, "Maybe you will really meet a good marriage, Uncle Fang, your second spring is coming." ”

"The beauties around me are like clouds, if you want to rejuvenate the second spring, you don't have to go far and near, right?" Fang Shanmu smiled, "How is it, do you have any feelings?"

"Yes, it's too deep. Hu Pan pursed his lips with an unhappy face, "I feel the deep malice of society, as well as the deep disappointment with reality, and the unfathomable worry about the future." ”

"What about you?" Fang Shanmu was noncommittal about Hu Pan's half-ridiculed and half-dissatisfied attitude, and asked Xu Wenqu.

"I thought about it a lot, and I was a little messy for a while, so I summarized it briefly, and I have three feelings......" Xu Wenqu hugged his shoulders with his hands, and looked coldly at Cheng Pengpeng, Sun Xiaozhao, Du Tunan and Jiang Chengzi, who were still surrounded in the middle, "In the marriage and love market in real life, it is far more cruel than in film and television dramas, and the space for women to choose a mate is far smaller than the scope they think." The golden age for women to choose a mate is 23 to 30 years old, beautiful, age-appropriate, undergraduate, and local hukou are in the first sequence, if there is no local hukou, you can find a suitable partner with the first three conditions. But once you're over 30, the space for choice is to plummet. ”

"There are so many leftover women now, what is the fundamental reason?" Fang Shanmu sat down and motioned for Xu Wenqu and Hu Pan to sit down as well, "I let you experience the real marriage and love market, not to hit you, on the contrary, I want you to be more aware of where the gap between reality and ideals is." Only by recognizing reality and giving up illusions can we do a good job in our growth game. Life is not, there are no plug-ins. Entrepreneurship is not a film and television drama, there is no bloody coincidence, and there is no domineering president who is willing to give everything for a woman without IQ. ”

The reality is that if a man loves a woman, he will also measure whether his efforts are proportional to his gains. Today's girls like to watch some romance dramas, whether it is the domineering president or the emperor, they are willing to give up their careers and rivers for the sake of a woman they like, they are very stupid and naïve, and it is completely wishful thinking. Men are career-oriented animals, career first and love later. This is not because men are cruel and ruthless, on the contrary, it is the rational decision of men to provide a solid material foundation for the woman they love. If a man is really willing to give up his career for a woman and become a poor bastard, it is estimated that it will not be long before this woman will leave him and will not be able to endure his incompetence and poverty. ”

So you can see from some of the rules in the marriage market that men still pay more attention to women's appearance, age, figure, and personality, and their requirements for income and education are secondary. Women demand more from men to have a house, a car, a deposit, and an educational background, but they don't care too much about looks, age and height. It shows that men pay more attention to the function of women to inherit the family, while women care more about men's ability to ensure the prosperity of the family. ”

Hu Pan snorted, quite dissatisfied: "After talking for a long time, it's not objectifying women?"

Without waiting for Fang Shanmu to refute, Xu Wenqu smiled coldly: "Men objectify women, why don't women objectify men at the same time? Asking men to have a house, a car, and a deposit, and a house with her name written on it, isn't it also to ensure that men can ensure that they can have no worries about food and clothing? To put it bluntly, it is still a long-term meal ticket to be a man." ”

"I don't reason with you, you always don't speak from a woman's point of view, your ass is crooked. ”

"No, I am proceeding from reality, not blindly following women's rights or giving in to men's rights, and facing reality. Xu Wenqu suddenly sighed, "I suddenly understand a little why Du Tunan has to have a child." I have had a general relationship with my parents since I was a child, and I came out early, so I was less influenced by my parents in all aspects. He is different, he is the only son in the family, an heirloom in the eyes of his parents, and everything has to be done by his parents. All the parents who disliked my age just now started out of worrying that I might have problems having children. Pity the parents of the world ......"

"Women are not reproductive tools!" Hu Pan shouted indignantly again.

"If your mom thinks the same way, maybe there won't be you. Xu Wenqu's expression darkened a little, "Hu Pan, it is difficult to accept the reality, but only by accepting the reality can we grow better." The so-called growth is to adjust one's position in society. ”

Du Tunan and Jiang Chengzi separated the crowd and finally squeezed out. The two of them are like heroes returning triumphantly, and their demeanor and momentum are quite proud.

"I didn't expect that the first time I became a looter was in the blind date market, I haven't been so confident as I am now!" Jiang Chengzi couldn't hide his joy, "Brother Du, I am suddenly full of fighting spirit, and I feel that I can stand on my feet in the capital." When life loses motivation, come to the blind date corner and walk around, you will be so happy, I feel that my life has reached a climax......"

Du Tunan also showed a rare smile, holding a stack of materials in his hand: "If life deceives you, don't be sad and don't cry, come to the blind date corner and take a walk, you will find that you can also deceive life, haha." ”

Subsequently, Cheng Pengpeng and Sun Xiaozhao also got out of trouble. The two of them also took a lot of information separately, and the expressions on their faces were complicated and indescribable.

As soon as a few people sat down, Du Fenglan came over again. She circled around a few people and sighed a few times: "It's rare that so many of you are single and all of you are of high quality, do you want to pull a group, and there are suitable girls and young men when you go back, I will push them to you?"

"Pull, must pull the group. Fang Shanmu smiled very slyly, and immediately set up a group face-to-face, "Face to face to build a group, the number is 5250, have you come in?"

After the group was built, Du Fenglan left contact information in the group. She walked a few steps and came back, looking Fang Shanmu up and down a few times: "Don't say it, I still see you as the most pleasing to the eye, really don't think about it?" My niece is a good girl in a thousand, beautiful, virtuous and housekeeping, and she is a special match for you. ”

Fang Shanmu waved his hand again and again and shook his head: "No, no, thank you, auntie, I've been very busy with work recently, so I won't think about emotional matters first." ”

"Why don't you think about it? You are not young, although a man has forty-one flowers, but the forty-year-old flowers will not bloom for a few years, so you have to start early. Du Fenglan sat down and took Cheng Pengpeng's hand again, "Pengpeng, it's not that my aunt said you, you said how good your conditions are, take advantage of your youth now, hurry up and find a suitable marriage." In a few years, all the good cards will be rotten. ”

Frightened, Cheng Pengpeng quickly withdrew his hand: "Thank you, auntie, I have a fear of marriage and have no plans to get married." ”

"You are really ......" Du Fenglan shook her head and sighed earnestly, "Auntie and talk to you, aunt has seen many high-quality girls before, some conditions are not worse than yours, and there are particularly rich rich second generations, in the end, they all delayed themselves because they were too picky, and they became older leftover girls, and as a result, if they marry, there is no suitable one." Don't get married, get older. In fact, in the final analysis, there are only men who can't marry daughters-in-law, and there are no women who can't marry. But why are there so many women left now?"

"The leftover men are a matter of ability, and the leftover women are a matter of attitude. Fang Shanmu mended the knife in time.

"That's right. Du Fenglan patted her thigh, "Many girls don't know what they want at all, they have more than one meter and a half, they don't want to find a person who is more than 180, but they don't accept it if they don't meet the standard, but they see a lot of 180, and none of them can look up to her! There is also a girl, who is very beautiful, tall and in good shape, and still has a household registration in Beijing, so she has to find peers with an annual salary of more than 1.5 million." She also doesn't want to think about what young man can have an annual salary of 1.5 million before the age of 30?"

Cheng Peng was happy: "Lin is three years old, he is suitable." ”

Du Fenglan continued: "As a result, I picked and chosen, and finally met a young man with an annual salary of 1.5 million, and the other party also liked her." After getting along for a while, she was dumped and cried with me for a long time, saying that the other party turned out to be a rich second generation, and the company was his father's company, he didn't know anything, he didn't have the ability to have no pattern, just go to work every day and get an annual salary. Eat, drink and have fun every day, and I don't take love seriously at all, I just want to play with her. I said to her, silly girl, if a man is very rich when he is young, he can't be single-minded, he will definitely mess with flowers. Don't be deceived by the TV series, fantasizing about a rich, handsome and dedicated man falling from the sky who loves you......"

"Goo dong goo dong", Du Fenglan drank the water in the thermos cup: "The girls should think the other way around, if you are a queen, you want money, you have to be rich and good-looking, and there is a group of handsome guys around you who like you, will you only like one of them? You won't either!"

Fang Shanmu gave Du Fenglan a thumbs up and nodded again and again: "Auntie summed it up very well, your aunt is your aunt, she sees the problem very thoroughly, and is many times stronger than many so-called emotional experts." ”

"I've never been an emotion expert, I've always been a practical summary. If you want me to say, it's easy for girls to find the right partner now, as long as they remember three points. ”