Chapter 30: The Limits of the Siege
"Yes, Pan Pan is right, the bald man sells hair growth essence, and the sick miracle doctor sells the panacea that cures all diseases, you will believe that you are deficient in brain calcium. ”
Cheng Pengpeng originally had a good impression of Xu Wenqu, but later she overemphasized her experience and a condescending tone that made her turn black: "I also passed the test, acting neither humble nor arrogant, reasonable, and close to perfection." It's your Uncle Fang, there are three mistakes, one is that you shouldn't quarrel with the riverside, no matter how reasonable a man is, he will fall into the inferior class if he quarrels with a woman. The second is that you should not trust Xu Wenqu, and the third is that you and Sheng Chen actually still have feelings, but you are not willing to take a step back, do you really plan to divorce? Marriage is a matter of two people, it is best not to make trouble in front of outsiders, the more trouble you have, the more you can't end it. ”
Fang Shanmu also knows this truth, and there are many examples around him. There is a friend who has a good relationship with his daughter-in-law, although there are occasional small frictions, it is also a state of quarrel and harmony in normal married life. Later, after the woman returned to her parents' house, she told her parents. The parents found the man aggressively, and instead of asking the man to apologize to the woman, he swore that he would obey the woman's words in the future, be 100% obedient, and not abuse or use his hands under any circumstances.
The man was forced to be anxious and had a big quarrel with the woman's parents. The woman felt that the man did not respect her parents and filed for divorce in a fit of rage. Originally, the man's parents did not agree to the divorce, but after the girl's parents said cruel words, the man's parents were angry and agreed to the divorce.
Another example is that the husband and wife were very affectionate, like glue, and the three views were similar to each other. Later, the woman's younger brother got married, and the woman's parents offered to borrow money to hold the wedding for their son. The man felt that since he was a relative, he borrowed money instead of asking for money, so he agreed and borrowed 500,000 yuan. Unexpectedly, after the money was lent, the woman's parents no longer mentioned the matter of repaying the money.
Later, the man wanted to buy a bigger house and urgently needed a sum of money, so he asked the woman's parents to repay the money, but the woman's parents said that as long as the man's dowry of 200,000 yuan was too little, and now the market has risen sharply, and his 500,000 yuan will be regarded as the insufficient part of the dowry that year. The man is gone, and the dowry has to go with the market, the market of the year is 200,000, and the arrears of the year cannot be collected according to the current market, just like the current daughter-in-law is much older than back then, if it is calculated according to the current market, it is not worth so much.
As a result, the woman's parents were furious, accusing the man of being ungrateful and wasting their care and hard work for him back then. The woman was still on the man's side at first, feeling that her parents were indeed excessive, and she also asked her parents for money with the man. But at the instigation and instigation of her parents and relatives, she gradually changed her mind and leaned towards her parents.
The man insisted on repaying the money, but the woman and the woman's parents resolutely refused to give it, and the two sides had a very unpleasant quarrel. Subsequently, the relatives and friends of both sides joined the war group, and they all stood on their own positions to attack each other indiscriminately and in an all-round way, in the man's sentence "The daughter-in-law of the year was worth the price of the year, unless there is a younger one now, it is worth 700,000", the marriage of the two parties came to an end.
Although Fang Shanmu and Sheng Chen had a lot of trouble and lasted for a long time, except for the riverside, they did not alarm the parents of both sides, nor did they tell other relatives and friends, otherwise as long as there were melon-eating crowds and onlookers to join in, he and Sheng Chen would not still maintain their de facto marriage and leave early.
Marriage is a siege, and the intervention of outsiders is equivalent to letting external forces enter, which is equivalent to breaking the city. When the city is broken and people are scattered, the marriage can only be dissolved. Fang Shanmu also knew that the reason why he didn't tell his parents and any relatives and friends was also to save his marriage.
I believe that Sheng Chen is the same.
But after a fuss today, he did make up his mind to divorce, Sheng Chen actually didn't believe that he wanted to believe Jiangbian, and the most basic foundation of trust between the two had been lost.
Fang Shanmu ignored Cheng Pengpeng's first two accusations against him, but the third point, he really had something to say: "Just leave, haven't you already made an appointment to see you at the Civil Affairs Bureau on Friday? ”
"Personally, Uncle Fang, I support your divorce. If you really return to being single, Panpan and I will have a chance. Cheng Peng bit her lip and thought about it, as if she had made up her mind, "But intellectually speaking, divorce is not conducive to your personality, and it will also affect your career, after all, family and everything is prosperous." So, I hope you think about it again. ”
"Don't think about it, I've been arguing with her for too long, and the Cold War has lasted for more than a year. Fang Shanmu gritted his teeth, "When the interruption continues, you will suffer from it, maybe after the divorce, it will be a new world." Alright, get to work. ”
"You have to think about it, life is not a game, you can start all over again if you don't clear the customs......" Cheng Peng bit her lip and snickered, "I understand Sheng Chen a little now, Uncle Fang, you do have a bit of a man's charm, mature, steady, and brave, even excellent girls like me and Panpan can be attracted to you, not to mention little girls who have never seen the world." ”
"I'm not, I don't, don't talk nonsense. Hu Pan hurriedly denied it, picked up the notebook and turned around and left, "I don't want to be infamous as a third party because of Uncle Fang, and because of this, I have turned against my best friend, it's not cost-effective, and the loss is too great." Not to mention, in fact, Jiang Chengzi and I haven't officially broken up yet, and there may be a possibility of getting back together. ”
Cheng Peng shaved Hu Pan's nose: "Do you really think that you and Jiang Chengzi still have the possibility of getting back together? Self-deception! Women have a dream, or a fantasy, and they all hope that the man who loves them deeply has not seen much of the world, and only loves her face that is not stunning in his life. But men are growing, and so are women themselves, and they will all be well-informed in the end. ”
Fang Shanmu coughed: "I have to set up a rule, in the future, in the company, you are not allowed to make fun of me, do you hear? Especially emotional jokes, I am more than ten years older than you, and I am your elder and leader! You are all serious, serious!"
"Listen to Uncle Fang!" Cheng Pengpeng exaggerated and saluted, "The company can not be opened, and there will be no restrictions when you return home, haha." ”
Fang Shanmu shook his head and smiled bitterly.
In the afternoon, Cheng Pengpeng contacted the previous tenant Du Tunan, and the other party also intended to come over to interview Fang Shanmu. Hu Pan also received more than a dozen resumes, screened four or five people, and made an appointment to come for an interview tomorrow.
Everything was going on in an orderly manner, Fang Shanmu was quite relieved, and the unhappiness brought by Sheng Chen and Jiangbian also subsided a lot.
When he went home in the evening, because Gu Hao was not there, Cheng Peng Peng deliberately stayed, saying that he wanted to accompany Hu Pan, but in fact, he still wanted to talk to Fang Shanmu more. Fortunately, she chatted mostly about work-related topics, from the setting of the growth game APP to the formation of the company, as well as the future operation, financial situation, etc., and finally reached a preliminary consensus with Fang Shanmu.
Fang Shanmu has a deeper understanding of Cheng Pengpeng, who is very business-minded and has his own clear views on the company's structure, capital operation and future planning. In contrast, Hu Pan yawned when he heard it, and he was completely ignorant, so he secretly laughed that compared with Cheng Pengpeng, Hu Pan still had little experience and a shallow understanding of society.
The former tenant Du Tunan, who was originally scheduled to come for an interview, missed the appointment the next day. And none of the interviewers Hu Pan asked to meet were satisfactory.
In the past few days, Fang Shanmu, Cheng Pengpeng, and Hu Pan have held several meetings and discussions to further refine the creativity of the growth game APP, and the direction of the next step has become clearer. The more he talked, the more promising he felt about his ideas, and the more confident he became.
But at the same time, he is worried about talent. If there are not enough people and excellent talents to join, his ideas and ideas can only be utopian and cannot be implemented.
On Friday, Hu Pan invited a few more candidates for an interview, and Fang Shanmu decided to go out in person to prevent Hu Pan from misjudging and causing a brain drain. And Du Tunan, who made three unsuccessful appointments, finally came to the company this morning.
Fang Shanmu first interviewed a few people, including college students who had just graduated, newcomers who had worked for a year or two, and social veterans who had been in the society for four or five years, but without exception, they could not satisfy him. is either too shallow, too sophisticated, or self-righteous and boastful, in short, he is disappointed, and he no longer has much hope for Du Tunan introduced by Cheng Pengpeng.
At half past ten, Du Tunan appeared at the company, half an hour later than the agreed 10 o'clock. Docking two times and three times in a row, Du Tunan, who only appeared in the company for the fourth time and was still late, Fang Shanmu has not met yet, and has lost all expectations and favorites.
From the first moment I saw Du Tunan, the disappointment reached its peak.
It's not that Du Tunan doesn't look good, on the contrary, Du Tunan is more than one meter tall, with thick hair, big eyes, big ears and big mouth, very manly, and his body is also very fit, so he should pay attention to sports and fitness. And his dress is also very casual and casual, neither exaggerated and trendy like Gu Hao, nor too formal and stereotypical, very decent.
It should be said that only from the appearance, Fang Shanmu is quite satisfied with Du Tunan. But he was disappointed by Dutunan's performance, and after five minutes he decided not to let him join the company.
If Du Tu Nan looked like a hanger, when he entered the conference room, he couldn't stand up and he was barely acceptable, then when he felt thirsty, took out a bottle of water and just unscrewed it, and put it on the table, Du Tu Nan reached out and grabbed it without saying a word, and drank it dry without saying a word, which made Fang Shanmu unacceptable.
Du Tu Nan didn't even owe a word "thank you", and said impatiently: "Another bottle, I'm dying of thirst." You guys really haven't even seen a single person after sitting for a long time, and you haven't even taken a sip of water......"