Chapter 29: The Position of a Man and the Position of a Woman
"Could it be that Sheng Chen's current appearance is not your reason at all?" Xu Wenqu glanced at Fang Shanmu disappreciably, "Teacher Fang, your biggest problem is that you are too self-conscious, and you have to carry all the work pressure and difficulties by yourself, which is both an advantage and a disadvantage. The advantage is that you are very man, responsible and courageous, and the disadvantage is that you are not a family marriage limited liability company is a partnership company, and you just want to charge alone. Although it is very powerful, there are also reasons to underestimate the ability of partners. Of course, making money is the first thing for a company, but in addition to making money, if it wants to develop in the long run, the company also needs a core thing......"
Fang Shanmu understood it at one point: "Company culture?"
"Yes, company culture. It's the same with the family, do you think it's enough for a family to have strong economic strength? No, you also need to build a family culture. β
"It's a bit far, you are a divorced woman talking about the construction of family culture, are you funny? Xu Wenqu, I just want to know if we re-enact the scene just now, what do we have to do to pass the test?" Hu Pan still couldn't help it, she couldn't stand Xu Wenqu's age the most, but she had to put on an omniscient old-fashioned attitude.
"I have already told Mr. Fang the answer just now, if he is no longer so self-conscious, he can stand in Sheng Chen's position and think about it, know what Sheng Chen is worried about, and resolve Sheng Chen's anxiety and fear, he can be regarded as growing up. Take what happened just now, he shouldn't have provoked Jiangbian and confronted Sheng Chen, especially not with Jiangbian. Quarreling with Jiangbian, whether it is from Gu Hao's position or Sheng Chen's position, it is not good, of course I know that Mr. Fang is from a man's position......"
"Isn't Sheng Chen and Jiangbian wrong? You are also standing in the position of a woman!" Cheng Pengpeng felt that Xu Wenqu's analysis was biased, and she was a little dissatisfied with Fang Shanmu's mistakes, "I think Uncle Fang's performance is generally good, at least he can score more than 85 points." β
"No, 65 points at most, above the passing line. Of course, because of Gu Hao's 35 points comparison, you all think that Teacher Fang is very good, but it is actually an illusion. Xu Wenqu noticed the subtle changes in Cheng Pengpeng's mood towards her, she didn't care about whose position Cheng Pengpeng was leaning towards, she just talked to herself, "Teacher Fang is still too straight, when it comes to gender issues, he will stand on the position of men for the first time, it is a pity that Mr. Fang's dualistic thinking of opposing men and women has proved a failure in his family, and it is difficult to succeed if he develops a game with dualistic thinking and pushes it to the market." β
"Let's talk about Gu Hao, Gu Hao is a wall grass with no principles and no bottom line, as long as the interests are enough, he will see the wind at any time. Women don't like unprincipled men the most, just as they don't like the warm men of the central air conditioning style that warms everyone. But then again, Jiangbian also has a big problem, she is too strong and too controlling, and she wants to control everything everywhere. There is nothing wrong with having a desire to control, everyone has it, but it is necessary to pay attention to strategies and methods, as well as scale. In fact, Jiangbian's problem is the same as that of Mr. Fang, who thinks that he has a great dedication to the family and wants to be in a transcendent and lofty position in the family. As a woman, everything that has been paid for the family, husband, and children may be zeroed out, no one remembers your decades of hard work, no one can convert it into value and returns, and no one will give you a commemorative medal. β
"As for the two of you......," Xu Wenqu looked at Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan, "You are too young and have too little experience, and you don't know what marriage and family mean to the relationship between the sexes. Ten times in love is not as good as a year of married life. Therefore, you can't look at the growth of life from a different perspective and perspective, it's too shallow and too short-sighted. Hu Pan is easy to be impulsive, and impulsiveness is not rational enough. She shouldn't have made decisions offside, and she shouldn't have spoken for Teacher Fang everywhere. Cheng Peng Peng is the same, your biggest failure is that you have to stand up for Teacher Fang because of your emotional inclination, although I know that you are based on the love of the other teacher, because you are people from the same company and the same camp, but in the eyes of jealous women, you are their potential competitors, you are not helping, in fact, you are adding to the chaos. β
Cheng Pengpeng understood what Xu Wenqu meant, and laughed: "But you didn't think of another possibility, what if we really like Uncle Fang?" We just want to be angry with Sheng Chen, that is, to make Sheng Chen completely desperate for Uncle Fang, so that we can have the opportunity to take advantage of the situation." β
"No, you're just angry. Xu Wenqu shrugged his shoulders again, "But I don't comment on the truth and depth of your other teacher's feelings, as long as Teacher Fang is single again, you are in a normal relationship and free." I can also accept the age gap between you, and I believe that you will have true love, not Mr. Tufang......"
"Che, what do you think I will do to him? He is old and has no money! Do you think I am such a superficial girl? My principle is that feelings are feelings, and they cannot be mixed with any impurities, otherwise they will have to bear the consequences of impure feelings. Hu Pan glanced at Xu Wenqu with disdain, "You are a failed marriage, and you take a serious lesson in gender relations with us, don't you feel embarrassed and embarrassed at all?"
Cheng Pengpeng also shook his head and smiled: "Ask Sister Qu, don't think I'm showing off my wealth, if you have money, 10 Uncle Fang won't top me, if I really fall in love with him, it must be his personality charm that attracts me." When I look for a boyfriend, I usually don't look at whether he has money or not, because he is generally not as rich as me. β
Xu Wenqu looked disapproving: "I have failed in marriage, but I have observed and analyzed the successful or failed marriages of many people around me, and I am more knowledgeable and reasonable than you, and my experience and knowledge are enough to teach you a lesson." Also, having money is not necessarily happy, not to mention that your money is definitely not earned by yourself, but born in a good family. β
"I've never been proud of being a rich second generation, but it's very unfortunate that I became a rich second generation, do I have to be ashamed of my hypocritical refusal?" Cheng Peng laughed heartily, "No matter what, thank you for guiding us, and we will encourage if we don't." After all, the life growth class is a course that lives to the old learner, this sentence ...... I also send you encouragement. β
Xu Wenqu heard the meaning of Cheng Pengpeng's words, and knew that Cheng Pengpeng was sending off guests and criticizing them euphemistically, so she got up and left: "I'm leaving, no need to send it." I didn't say that I had grown up, and I knew that I hadn't grown up yet, and in the growth game, many levels were not passed. Sometimes I always think that a man, no matter how old he is, is a child in the eyes of the woman who loves her. It's the same with women!"
Fang Shanmu motioned to Cheng Peng Peng to send Xu Wenqu, but Cheng Peng Peng not only didn't send it, but also grabbed Fang Shanmu: "She said that she didn't need to send it, she had to respect her ideas, and it would be difficult for a strong person to send it." What's more, Sister Qu has been abroad for a long time and is used to the sense of distance in foreign interpersonal interactions. β
Xu Wenqu walked to the door and stood up again, turning around: "There are good foreign countries, and there are good domestic ones, and you can only be happy if you follow the customs of the country." Cheng Pengpeng, you lost points for your behavior just now, and you didn't pass my level. β
"Each other, each other. Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan glanced at each other, and the two smiled tacitly, and said in unison, "You didn't pass our level." β
Fang Shanmu couldn't laugh or cry.
After Xu Wenqu left, Fang Shanmu convened a meeting between Cheng Peng Peng and Hu Pan.
"The incident happened suddenly, we are now more passive, Gu Hao was arrested home, with my understanding of Gu Hao and Jiangbian, no accident, Gu Hao most likely can't come out, so the company is now missing a main cadre, recruitment must start immediately, to recruit three to five people, one person needs to replace Gu Hao's position. β
"I have already published recruitment information on the recruitment website, and I will release a few more platforms later, and at the same time forward it to the circle of friends. Hu Pan raised the mobile phone in his hand, "I will make relevant links in the afternoon to facilitate forwarding in the circle of friends." β
Fang Shanmu nodded, Hu Pan is sometimes naΓ―ve and impulsive, but he is serious and responsible in his work, and he is very efficient, he is very satisfied: "Peng Peng, if you have friends around you who are just suitable, you can also introduce it, although the company is not big and newly established, but the environment is free, and there is a lot of room for play and growth, which is conducive to personal career planning." β
"As soon as you said it, it reminded me, I happen to know a person, he is currently unemployed at home, by the way, he is still very related to you......" Cheng Pengpeng took out his mobile phone and swiped a few times and sent a WeChat.
"And me?"
"He's the previous tenant......" Cheng Peng Peng saw Fang Shanmu stunned, smiled, and waved his arm, "It's not a house in the future city, it's here, it's the former tenant of the company's house, called Du Tunan, I'll make an appointment with him now." β
Hu Pan's mobile phone rang and shouted happily: "A few resumes have been sent, I'll sort them out." β
Fang Shanmu saw that everyone had work to do, so he stood up: "Okay, let's start working now." Today's events have also taught us a vivid lesson, each of us still has a lot of room for growth, and there are many levels to pass, and every time we pass in life in the future, we can provide a script for our growth game APP. β
"Today I felt like I was able to pass the test and there was nothing wrong with that. Hu Pan was still angry with Xu Wenqu, "Uncle Fang, you think too highly of Xu Wenqu, she is just pretending to be profound." Isn't it just that after spending a few years abroad, learning some new terms, adding some specious theories, and saying it in an omniscient tone, it seems that she is better than anyone else. Fart, people who can't even manage their own marriages well are not qualified to talk about family classes with others. It's like a so-called master who is greedy for money and lustful and boasts of being upright, will you believe him?"