Sheng Chen arrived at the music restaurant and learned that Jiangbian had made an appointment with someone else, a returnee who had returned from studying abroad. Although in recent years, with the improvement of national strength and income, international students are no longer as rare and enviable as ten years ago, in Fang Shanmu's former company, there are now many returnee students. But in Sheng Chen's eyes, Xu Wenqu, who has lived abroad for more than ten years, has a refreshing feeling in both speech and behavior and way of thinking.

At first glance, she had a good impression of Xu Wenqu.

After chatting for a long time, she learned that Jiangbian wanted to set up a consulting company, mainly for mid-to-high-end high-net-worth customers to study abroad, immigrate and buy real estate. Jiangbian values Xu Wenqu's overseas connections very much, also because Xu Wenqu's ex-husband Du Tunan has experience in starting such companies, and the company is running well and has a good income.

For Jiangbian, no matter how high the income of a consulting company is, it can't get into her eyes, not to mention that she has a family business, but only that the house in the family is enough for her to take care of her. She wanted to start a consulting company because she wanted to meet and expand her network through the company, so that she could have more resources.

Jiangbian's intentions are far-reaching, she hopes that after mastering more resources and expanding greater contacts, she can borrow institutions to build her own business territory, and then put Gu Hao or Fang Shanmu into the territory, and use feelings and business means to firmly bind them on a platform, don't believe they can escape from her palm again?

The siege of only one marriage can't trap Gu Hao and Fang Shanmu, but marriage plus business platform, as well as future prospects, must be enough, right?

It should be said that the idea of the riverside is very beautiful and the layout is very long-term, and if it is successful, it is a fatal temptation for men. After all, for men, the country and the beauty or the career and love are the pursuit of a lifetime, and now the beauty has helped them lay the foundation of the country, and they are not obedient?

The blueprint by the river is very grand, and even Sheng Chen is a little tempted, and Sheng Chen thinks that Xu Wenqu must be more interested. Unexpectedly, Xu Wenqu's performance greatly surprised her, Xu Wenqu was very indifferent and calm, and gave Jiangbian an ambiguous reply - she can join the company, but if there is a conflict in time, she will ask for leave to go abroad to play, hoping that Jiangbian will not stop her. She is a freewheeling person who does not want to be governed and constrained. If Jiangbian couldn't do it, she wouldn't agree.

Jiangbian was also puzzled, she learned about Xu Wenqu's current situation through friends, divorced, unemployed, average family conditions, little money, a little skill, arrogant and casual. With her understanding of human nature, no matter how unique a person is, he still has to live and make money. Listening to Xu Wenqu's meaning, if she wants to take a vacation, she has to take a vacation, and she can't be affected by work, can it be said that she has to spend all the money she earns, and never thinks about tomorrow?

If she had changed to someone else, Jiangbian would have thrown her face and left, but now she has no one available, so she had to compromise and agree to Xu Wenqu. Her idea is very practical, and it doesn't hurt to promise her first, but when she really puts herself into the work state, and faces huge commissions and rich returns, don't believe that Xu Wenqu will really be willing to give up the low-hanging benefits in front of her and go to the mountains and rivers?

After talking about the company, Jiangbian chatted with Sheng Chen about Gu Hao and Fang Shanmu again. Xu Wenqu stopped talking and sat quietly on the side to listen.

Sheng Chen found that Jiangbian's attitude towards Gu Hao had also softened a lot.

Gu Hao's runaway from home and loss of contact made Jiang Bian realize that she had overcontrolled Gu Hao, which seriously hurt Gu Hao's self-esteem and dignity as a man. Of course, it was Jiangbian who found that if he really continued like this, Gu Hao might one day completely fly away and never come back. And she actually loves Gu Hao deeply, and all the control and restraint on Gu Hao is to hope that he will not mess around outside and stay by her side.

But if it backfired, Gu Hao simply didn't even return home, and her control and restraint failed.

In the contest between men and women, there is always a compromise between one party and an appropriate concession by the other party in order to achieve harmony. If both sides are strong, they will inevitably lose both. The family is a small company, and if two people want to have the final say, it will result in one going east and the other going west forever.

However, Jiangbian said that Gu Hao was damaged by Fang Shanmu. In the past, Gu Hao, he didn't dare to run away from home with 100 guts, let alone turn off the phone and lose contact. It was also this dismissal from the company that hit him too hard, and she said a few more words to him before he left home angrily. If it was before, at most, he would have come back obediently in half a day, but this time he actually lost contact for more than ten days a week and didn't go home, because he joined Fang Shanmu's company and was instigated by Fang Shanmu.

Although he accused Fang Shanmu of being angry, Jiangbian also acquiesced to Gu Hao and Fang Shanmu starting a business together. It's rare that Gu Hao has something she wants to do, and she is mainly afraid that if she is forced too hard, Gu Hao will play missing again.

Jiang Bian told Sheng Chen that if Fang Shanmu and Gu Hao succeeded in starting a business, their crisis would be even more serious than it is now. There are three types of successful men, one is an executive of a large company, although he has a good income, he is a part-time worker after all, even if he is a part-time worker, he is a parasitist after all. One is the boss of a medium-sized company, who has his own company and team, not only earns more than the executives, but also has the freedom and decision-making power in his own hands, and shows the manhood of a man who responds to every word and determines life and death.

The last type is the chairman of a large company, worth more than billions, who is in a certain field, and can be said to be the only one.

Of the above three types of men, Gu Hao and Fang Shanmu are the first type, and their attraction to women is also in the initial stage. Now they are moving towards the second type, and once they achieve their goal, they will not be able to keep up with them, and sooner or later they will be abandoned by them. Mainly, there will be more high-quality women who will take the initiative to move closer to them.

For men, it doesn't matter about loyalty, loyalty is because the stakes for betrayal are too low. When the stakes are high enough, a man's loyalty to family and love will all be left behind.

Xu Wenqu, who had not spoken, suddenly sneered at this time: "Similarly, women don't care about decency, decency is because they are not tempted enough. Don't always blame men for how they are, think about it from another angle, if there is a handsome and dashing man who is worth billions of dollars, and who is the type you like, who is personable, and who is extremely attentive and loving to you, will you be indifferent?"

"I ...... Of course I will!I will never betray my family!" Jiang Bian puffed up his chest and was confident, "From the first day I married Gu Hao, I told myself that I would love him only from now on forever. ”

"What about you, Sheng Chen?" Xu Wenqu did not comment on Jiangbian's words.

"I'm definitely not going to betray my family either. But......" Sheng Chen bit his lip, "If Fang Shanmu betrayed me first, I wouldn't be unliked, and I wouldn't be responsible for him." ”

"Relatively speaking, in marriage, a woman's sense of morality and guilt is stronger than that of a man, so a woman will cheat less than a man. But less does not mean nothing, of course, I am a woman, and I will speak from a woman's standpoint. Xu Wenqu shrugged his shoulders with an indifferent expression, "When a man cheats, he may be impulsive or naturally lustful, and there may also be reasons for emotional discord or being disciplined too strictly by his wife. But he may not be unloving to his wife, and a man can be separated from love and sex. And women cheat, most of them because they don't love their husbands anymore, women love first and then sex. ”

"Don't talk about it, I'm upset. Jiangbian suddenly waved his hand, looking impatient, "Let's talk about the company's affairs, ask Qu, I understand your idea of reading thousands of books and traveling thousands of miles, but if you don't have money, traveling around the world is just a poor trip." If you don't read thousands of books, you don't have enough knowledge, and you're just a postman when you travel the world. ”

"It's like the twisted melon is not sweet, and the explanation is that you only care about the process of twisting the melon, not to eat the melon. I travel the world, and I just fulfill my dreams, and I don't care if I travel on a budget or work as a postman. Xu Wenqu was unmoved, "Anyway, I am willing to join the company, of course it is a good thing to have a job." But work can't affect the dream of playing when I want to, I'm a person who dreams first. ”

Sheng Chen also knew that they couldn't convince Xu Wenqu, and the current result was already a good result, so he persuaded Jiangbian to accept it when he saw it. Jiangbian had no choice but to agree, and a few people went downstairs for dinner, but they didn't expect to meet Fang Shanmu and Gu Hao unexpectedly.

Originally, Sheng Chen was still a little excited, and she didn't want to quarrel with Fang Shanmu, she is not a person who likes to make noise on the street, and the education she received since she was a child told her to be subtle and self-contained.

Even when he arrived at Fang Shanmu's company, Sheng Chen just wanted to stay out of the matter and didn't want to get involved in the quarrel between Jiangbian and Gu Hao. She believes that Fang Shanmu and Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan are normal friends, and so is Gu Hao. But Jiangbian, who said that she wanted to let go of Gu Hao appropriately, was out of control and quarreled with Fang Shanmu, and she was also invisibly ignited, and she said cruel things to Fang Shanmu.

In fact, she regretted it as soon as she said it at that time, she didn't really want a divorce, she just wanted to scare Fang Shanmu, let Fang Shanmu know her importance, pick up her love again, and return to the original family track. But after saying cruel things in public, she knew that she was afraid that her marriage with Fang Shanmu was really irretrievable.

A woman's decision is just a temptation, a desire for a man to stay. The woman said that if you break up, as long as the man works hard, there is a high probability that it can be redeemed. On the contrary, a man's decision is a decision that only tells the woman a result, rather than wanting the woman to save it...... Similar truths, during the quarrel, Fang Shanmu talked a lot, and Sheng Chen also knew it. But when it comes to things, she sometimes loses control and leaves everything behind.

The physical and psychological differences between men and women are innate and difficult to synchronize perfectly.