Chapter 39 Home is a place where men and women complement each other
Sheng Chen and Fang Shanmu are both good-looking people, for more than ten years, no matter how difficult the family is, how fierce the quarrels they have, they will solve them by themselves, and they will never ask for help from the outside world, even the parents of both parties will hide it. Sheng Chen has always understood a truth, the matter of the family, the family solves, once the scope of the family, it is no longer a matter of two people, if the two families or outsiders intervene, the matter will be complicated, and it will be difficult to end smoothly.
Sheng Chen was anxious for a few days, and on Friday, she sent Fang Shanmu a WeChat message early and asked him what time he would go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures, and Fang Shanmu replied that it was two o'clock in the afternoon. She really hoped that Fang Shanmu would not reply, and she could take the opportunity to put the responsibility for not going through the divorce procedures on Fang Shanmu. After all, she was the one who proposed to go through the formalities today, and she didn't want to go back on her word.
deliberately rubbed until half past one in the afternoon, and after asking the company for leave, Sheng Chen went out. When she arrived at the Civil Affairs Bureau, it was already half past two, and what made her breathe a sigh of relief was that Fang Shanmu had not yet arrived.
Was he entangled in things, or was he deliberately late? If he was deliberately late, did it also mean that he didn't want a divorce in his bones? Sheng Chen waited alone for a long time, and staged countless inner dramas, all the scenes and speculations added up to nothing more than one sentence - I hope Fang Shanmu will not appear.
In the end, as she wished, Fang Shanmu really hadn't arrived when she got off work, a stone in her heart fell to the ground, and when she thought about it, she was angry, Fang Shanmu didn't even take such a big thing as divorce seriously, which shows how light the weight of her and her family is in his mind!
No, you must let Fang Shanmu go home, make it clear, Sheng Chen decided to toss Fang Shanmu. Of course, she had more important things to discuss with Fang Shanmu.
When her thoughts returned to the present, she realized that it was completely dark, why didn't she come? Sheng Chen got up, feeling the coolness getting stronger and stronger, she couldn't sit still, and returned to the house, only to find her son sitting on the sofa in a daze.
"Mom, why hasn't Dad come yet?" The son saw that his mother's expression was a little dazed, and immediately guessed something, "Dad came to dinner today to discuss something important with him?"
Sheng Chen nodded: "I want to discuss with him about your schooling." ”
"Great. My son exclaimed happily, "Dad will definitely support my choice." I couldn't grow up without my father's guidance. Or men understand men better. ”
"Phew, you are a hairless little boy, and you dare to say that you are a man? How old are you!" Sheng Chen's melancholy mood was infected by his son, and he smiled brightly, "Don't be poor, hurry up and wash your hands, he is probably coming soon." ”
"Mom, it's good to laugh, don't keep your face strained every day. Whether you laugh or cry, a day is 24 hours, no more than a minute, no less than a second, it is the youngest and most beautiful day in the rest of your life, why do you have to live with yourself?"
"What do you know, little brat?" Sheng Chen scolded with a smile, picked up his mobile phone and was about to urge Fang Shanmu, when the door rang, Fang Shanmu came in.
Fang Shanmu changed his shoes: "The password and fingerprint haven't been changed yet, aren't you afraid that I will come in and steal things?"
The smile on Sheng Chen's face quickly froze, and his face sank: "Before you went through the divorce procedures, you were still a family." You didn't go to the Civil Affairs Bureau today, what the hell is going on? I've been waiting for you for a long time, okay?"
"When I interviewed employees, I met a strange person, and I actually knew his ex-wife, the world is too small. Fang Shanmu noticed that Sheng Chen's tense expression was three points angry and seven points pretended, and he was even more aware of it, and he had already thought of various ways to deal with it along the way, "By the way, you also know his ex-wife, his name is Du Tunan." ”
"I don't know. Sheng Chen snorted back, "I don't like to know other people's ex-wives and ex-girlfriends like you, things gather people in groups, Fang Shanmu, you are helpless." ”
Fang Shanmu knew that Sheng Chen was talking angrily, and what he wanted was this effect, so he immediately smiled: "Du Tunan's ex-wife is called Xu Wenqu. ”
"Xu Wenqu's ex-husband, is it so coincidental?" Sheng Chen was also stunned.
Jiangbian didn't tell her Xu Wenqu's marital status at first, she thought that Xu Wenqu was still single, after all, a person is so fun-loving, if he gets married, how can he still run around the world? Later, I learned that Xu Wenqu was indeed single, but he was single after divorce. As for the reason for the divorce, Jiangbian doesn't know.
"So...... I was curious, so I talked to Du Tunan a lot, and forgot about the divorce procedures. It doesn't matter, I'll do it next week. Anyway, the hardest part of us is over, the division of property and the ownership of the children have been resolved, and the divorce procedure is a procedural issue. Fang Shanmu saw that Sheng Chen's face softened slightly, knowing that he had resolved Sheng Chen's dissatisfaction with his no-show, in order to continue to deepen the effect, he took out the toolbox, "The sensor lights outside are broken, I'll fix it." I've been raising them for several years, and I can't watch them all die, just give them away in peace and joy, they're good to wait, and my flowers and plants won't take care of them, and they won't be long dead. ”
Sheng Chen's face was ashamed, she was not lazy, but she was really not interested in raising flowers and grass. Doing housework, baking bread, or steaming steamed buns and steamed buns, she can be busy all day and enjoy, but letting her walk the dog and play the cat is not tiring for a minute.
Looking at Fang Shanmu's busy figure outside, after a while, the lights in the yard were a little brighter, and the dark corners that could not be illuminated were also much brighter than before, and in the courtyard, there was a little more vitality and the breath of home.
Fang Shanmu is indeed a man who cares about his family, which is very in line with his Cancerian characteristics, Sheng Chen sighed while placing the food and chopsticks. Home is indeed a place where men and women complement each other, she is very capable, but she can't do anything in the yard. Fang Shanmu is very good at repairing things, but he can't do housework well.
If he really had no one outside, she would have made trouble with him to the point where she was now, and it was really too undeserved, just a good life was just a toss! Sheng Chen's heart softened a little.
Fang Shanmu shouted outside: "Son, help Dad open the door." ”
Xiang Dong rushed away, opened the door, and saw Fang Shanmu holding flowers and plants, and couldn't help but wonder: "Dad, are you very short of money? These pots of flowers and plants are worth a few dollars, do you have to take them away?
"It's not the same. Fang Shanmu hugged two pots of flowers and plants, bent down with difficulty, and came to the elevator, "From a seedling to such a big one, the effort and time paid cannot be measured by money. Just like you, even if other people's children are better than you, in my eyes, you are still the best. ”
"Dad, I'll go to the garage with you. Come, I'll help you move a pot. Xiang Dong blinked, hinting at Fang Shanmu.
Fang Shanmu nodded, thinking that his son had indeed grown up, and he actually understood his intentions.
The elevator went down to the garage, and Fang Shanmu and his son put the flowers and plants in the trunk together. The son patted the soil on Fang Shanmu's body: "Dad, you and your mother's marriage really can't be rescued anymore?" I feel that my mother doesn't really want to divorce, she just wants you to compromise." Just like she used to threaten me not to eat if I didn't study, which time didn't let me eat well? You know, a woman's heart is fickle and easy to coax, and if you coax her again, she will definitely change her mind. ”
"You little kid, what kind of woman do you know?" Fang Shanmu smiled, laughing and laughing, but he also knew that his son's words made some sense, Sheng Chen was a good woman, but he also had shortcomings, that is, he liked to coerce others to comply, rather than discussing.
"I don't understand other women, but my mother I understand, I've been with her for more than ten years, and I can't figure out her temper, I'm not living in vain?" The son touched Fang Shanmu's arm, "After my mother went out to work, it was not easy, squeezing the subway and changing buses alone, stronger than I imagined." I admire her a little. You really haven't gotten to the point where there is a serious discord between the three views, and there is still room for reversal. ”
"Son, do you think the parents' affairs are at fault with the father or the mother?" Fang Shanmu kept an eye on it, wanting to understand the root cause of the marriage crisis between him and Sheng Chen from the side, and his son was the best bystander.
"To be honest, Dad, both of you have a lot of problems, half a pound and eight taels. Xiang Dong Xiao took his hands behind his back and circled around the car, "Your problem is that you are too conceited, you feel that you can do everything, and it is true that you are a very good father, Dad, much better than the fathers of many of my classmates." But don't be complacent, I'm not talking about income, I'm talking about average skills. For example, you drive steadily, look handsome, take care of your family, can raise flowers and grass, like small animals, have strong hands-on ability, and are also good at repairing things, and so on. It's because you have a high average score that you're a little inflated......"
Fang Shanmu was a little confused, and touched his nose: "Do I have it?
"Just as a fat person never feels fat and still eats and drinks, an inflated person feels that he is more humble than anyone else. Yes, you basically let go of the affairs at home, and as long as it is something she decides, most of you agree and will not object. Even the money was handed over to my mother for financial management, and I had absolute trust in my mother. ”
"It meant to be. Fang Shanmu couldn't help but feel a little proud.
"Don't be proud, get serious. Xiang Dong pushed Fang Shanmu, "But your biggest problem is that your career planning, your work, and your circle of friends have not brought your family with you, and you are completely isolated from your mother." Okay, I can also understand your thoughts, do you think that your work and your career, whether you encounter problems or choices, can decide for yourself, even if you discuss it with your mother, she will not come up with a better idea than your decision. But have you seriously thought about it, she is your daughter-in-law, your closest relative, if you isolate half of your life - no, now your career is more than half of your career, at least 60% of your time and energy - from her, it is equivalent to 60% of your life she has not participated in, do you think she will feel safe and will be her closest husband?"
Fang Shanmu was silent.