During the Chinese New Year, Xu Wenqu was with Cheng Pengpeng every day, and the longer she was contacted, the more she discovered that Cheng Pengpeng's problems were better than those of several other people!

But she never expected that after a few days, Xu Wenqu's impression of Cheng Pengpeng had changed 180 degrees! Now in her eyes, Cheng Pengpeng is the biggest problem in the whole company!

Of course, the problem Xu Wenqu said was an emotional problem. For a person, the two main problems in life are career and family. Cheng Pengpeng has no shortage of career, and even said that she can have no worries about food and clothing without a career for a lifetime, but it is precisely because of this that she is picky and casual in dealing with emotional issues.

Yes, both picky and casual, the two seem contradictory, but in fact they are unified.

The so-called pickiness is that it is difficult to meet what makes her 100% satisfied, and the so-called casual is an easy-going mentality, and those who are introduced can be seen, and they don't feel it after seeing it, and they don't continue to develop. Said I didn't want to find a boyfriend, and I wanted to. I said I wanted to find it, but I didn't want to.

Not being picky is the biggest pickiness, just like a person who doesn't order food when he eats, always saying whatever, in fact, it's not that he can eat anything, but that the whole restaurant doesn't have what he likes to eat.

Cheng Pengpeng is in a similar state when dealing with emotional problems.

Cheng Pengpeng, who has experienced a failed relationship, is now very protective of love like a Song person, you can have it, but it is best that the other party throws herself into the net, and the package sent to the door makes her completely satisfied. Cheng Pengpeng said that love at first sight comes and goes quickly, and it doesn't last long. Those who meet on a blind date are too purposeful and easy to lose their sense of mystery and expectation. The best state is to start with ordinary friends, not for the purpose of love for the purpose of work communication, slowly, discover the advantages of the other party, and accept the existence of the other party. And then as time progressed, little by little into the other party's heart, and when I found out, it was too late, and everything was quietly growing in moisturizing things.

Xu Wenqu understood that what Cheng Pengpeng wanted was natural love, just like the growth of spring and the sunshine of summer, everything was logical, it happened when it should happen, everything was the best arrangement, and it was a natural maturity.

But...... Xu Wenqu knows very well that the love pursued by Cheng Pengpeng is a desperate love that can be met but not sought, especially in the current fast-paced era, where will there be a man who is willing to wait by her side silently, not taking the initiative to leave or showing love, only having a bland relationship with her, looking forward to the moment when the flowers suddenly bloom.

There is really such a patient man, who is definitely not a little boy who has never been in the world, but a mature man who has experienced vicissitudes for a long time, and he is also a successful man. Only mature men who are successful enough will have full patience and confidence to adopt the strategy of dripping water through stones and slowly penetrate into Pengpeng's heart.

Because successful mature men have experienced too much heartbeat and seen too much glitz in the world, they can settle down, make a pot of tea, slowly observe the process of tea leaves stretching in the water, and know how to appreciate the beauty of waiting before getting it.

Among the men that Cheng Peng Peng came into contact with, only Fang Shanmu had the opportunity or strength to become the one who Cheng Peng Peng was waiting for the rabbit! Although Xu Wenqu also saw that Cheng Peng Peng had no love for Fang Shanmu, only good feelings and career cooperation, but her concept of mate selection seriously limited her choice space, according to this, she would become Fang Shanmu's captive sooner or later, whether she intended it or Fang Shanmu did not intended, anyway, they were moving firmly towards a set goal.

But the problem is that Fang Shanmu hasn't divorced yet!

Although Xu Wenqu has been abroad for many years, he is very serious about marriage. You can be in love before marriage, and you must be faithful to your partner after marriage. Marriage is an agreement, a constraint, and a sacred commitment. is also because she has been exposed to foreign countries and has been influenced by foreign marriage concepts. But while being faithful to the marriage, the marriage abroad is especially respectful of the privacy and space of the other party.

It is precisely because of this that Xu Wenqu is opposed to Sheng Chen and Jiangbian's approach, but in the same way, she doesn't want Cheng Peng to fall into the divorce entanglement between Fang Shanmu and Sheng Chen. If Fang Shanmu divorces and becomes single, she will support Cheng Pengpeng's choice.

In the past few days, Xu Wenqu has gone from being unfamiliar to being familiar with Cheng Pengpeng, and then to being familiar to liking it. Although Cheng Pengpeng has a lot of personality, she has the unique heartiness and directness of a big girl in Beijing, and she does not hide her likes and dislikes for people and things. But she is still a big child at heart, growing up in a wealthy family, and as an only child, she has been carefully protected by her parents. And because of his good looks and good academic performance, he is praised and concerned about everything, but he has not developed a proud and complacent character because of this, which is also rare.

It is also related to being in the capital for a long time, seeing a lot of knowledge and wide vision, Cheng Pengpeng herself said that she didn't feel how rich she was when she was a child, because whether it was classmates or friends around her, there were many people who were richer than her. She remembers very well that once she went on an outing in junior high school, her father had to drive a BMW to pick her up, and she was worried that it would be too public. As a result, several classmates who usually wore inconspicuous and inconspicuous clothes, and the parents who came to pick them up drove luxury cars such as Porsche, Maserati, and Ferrari, and her BMW was among them, disgraced, like a hillbilly who had never seen the world.

A scene that surprised Cheng Pengpeng even more appeared, a middle-aged man who came to pick up his child on a bicycle, his appearance was not good, and his dress was extremely ordinary, in front of a lot of luxury cars, he was simply scum. But when he pushed the cart past, no matter how noble the luxury car was, the door was opened, and the parents got out of the car and nodded respectfully to each other.

Since then, Cheng Pengpeng has known a truth, in the capital, no matter how rich you are, there are always people who are richer than you. Even if you own dozens of buildings, you might need to bow to a cyclist.

It is precisely because of the low-key and humble mentality that he does not feel that he is great, that Cheng Pengpeng is relatively smooth on the road of growth, and he has not fallen any heels. And some of her pretentious classmates who don't know the height of the sky, some hit their heads and bleed, and some hit their noses and swollen faces.

Although he is particularly mature and mellow in dealing with the world, in terms of feelings, Cheng Pengpeng is too paranoid and simple, yearning for innocent love without a trace of impurities, judging from Xu Wenqu's experience, it is too difficult!

The blind period of love mostly occurs between the ages of 15 and 25, and when the love first opens, it all depends on good feelings. After falling out of love, there is reason in addition to good feelings. And if I have fallen out of love more than twice, in addition to reason, I have also learned to calculate gains and losses. The love of a teenager is a spring flower, which blooms when the wind blows. The love of youth is a sunny flower, and it blooms only when there is a warm sun. And middle-aged love is an autumn flower, and it only blooms when the wind is in the depths.

Cheng Pengpeng was supposed to pursue sunny flowers, but she wanted to look for autumn flowers, which added a lot of difficulty, not to mention, but also invisibly set up obstacles for herself and created tribulations.

Yes, Xu Wenqu told her unmistakably after getting acquainted with Cheng Pengpeng that if she fell in love with Fang Shanmu before he got divorced, it would be her ordeal and her checkpoint.

Cheng Peng had a hard mouth, refusing to admit that she would like Shangshan Mu, and repeatedly emphasized that she only had the idea of cooperating with Fang Shanmu and had no intention of taking it, even if Fang Shanmu was divorced, it would not be her dish. Okay, Xu Wenqu had no choice but to believe Cheng Pengpeng's words, but she was faintly worried in her heart, if Cheng Pengpeng really didn't like Fang Shanmu, she wanted to meet another person who met her conditions, it would be difficult to climb to the sky.

I'm afraid that Fang Shanmu will have a preconceived idea in her heart and establish an irreplaceable image, and in the future, Cheng Pengpeng will always look for a boyfriend according to Fang Shanmu's standards, intentionally or unintentionally, I am afraid that it will be difficult to meet someone who makes her hearty.

Not many young people will grow into an excellent man like Fang Shanmu, although in Xu Wenqu's view, Fang Shanmu's excellence is not too outstanding compared to Du Tunan, Lin Sansui and others, but he is the person who is most in line with Cheng Pengpeng's aesthetics, with Cheng Pengpeng's conditions, her choice of love is only the last of the three needs of marriage, which is in line with the emotional needs of her own personality, not out of the starting point of material and inheritance.

The essence of marriage has three needs – material, lineage, and emotional needs. Most modern people are self-sufficient in material terms, and they are not so strong about inheritance, and they are not obvious about the continuation and inheritance of the family, so emotions are very important and are the premise of first-class. But for most girls, emotions are volatile, so the criteria for choosing a mate are not particularly fixed.

Cheng Pengpeng is different, she is too mature and stable, and her aesthetics will not change easily, so the more Xu Wenqu understands her, the more she feels that her problem is the biggest. The reason why her problem is the most difficult to solve is that she has a problem alone, and she wants to solve it but has nowhere to start, unlike other people's problems that have corresponding level people, as long as you reach a consensus with the level people or resolve the differences, you will pass the level.

I met Fang Shanmu and his party by chance today, and when I heard the sound in the box outside, Xu Wenqu wanted to leave, but Cheng Peng had to come in. In fact, with Xu Wenqu's character, she is the one who wants to come in more. She likes to debate with Sheng Chen and Jiangbian the most. But she didn't want Cheng Peng Peng to appear in front of Sheng Chen too much, because of Fang Shanmu, Cheng Peng Peng had too much inexplicable hostility towards Sheng Chen. If it is too obvious, it will arouse Sheng Chen's suspicions, and it may further promote the pace of Sheng Chen and Fang Shanmu's divorce.

What Xu Wenqu hopes is that even if Fang Shanmu finally divorces Sheng Chen, it will be an irreconcilable conflict caused by internal contradictions, not because of Cheng Pengpeng's external force. She didn't want Cheng Peng to bear the infamy of a third party.

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