From the first blind date to the second date in the real sense, we have only met three times in the past half a month! And the telephone porridge is not like the usual men and women in love, who talk for an hour or two as crazy, and the phone calls are basically about ten minutes at most, because these simple meetings do not seem to have much to say.

We have a local custom, plus the two of us are ethnic minorities, according to the custom of men and women after meeting on a blind date, if they feel suitable, they will basically be married within a month, called the marriage, in fact, it is a form of recognition, recognition of the two in the relationship, not the real kind of set the table to entertain.

January 15, 2011, snow.

After the second appointment, I contacted by phone every day, and in the intervals of a few days because of work, I didn't make an appointment, but only through text messages, QQ, telephones, and calls and text messages from time to time every day. Like all people in love, you can talk from heaven to earth, and from earth to heaven. I found that I still seemed to be myself on the phone, some funny, some would tease her and make her happy.

On the afternoon of January 15, 2011, I called her after my usual work and asked her to have dinner and watch a movie.

The two of us had already made up our minds that day, which meant that we could have a normal relationship, which was considered a formal relationship in form, and the degree of love depended on both parties.

That night, I waited at the door after her work, and there was a Tex restaurant in front of her work, and because it was already dark early in winter, there was no one on the street after her work, except after the rush hour.

"What to eat?" she asked happily, walking up to me.

I said, "Shall we go to the movies first?" I was a bit silly back then, it was really like she was my nemesis, and every time I saw her, I always said something that was not brainy.

"Well, what are you going to see?" she asked me, still smiling.

I was asked silly because I just wanted to watch a movie with her before I asked her out, but I didn't know what to watch.

"Let's go over and have a look. "The movie theater is just across from where she gets off work, and next to it is where I work. I don't know if this is a kind of fate that is close to the end?

The two of us walked across the street one after the other, and I was not embarrassed to hold her hand, but just tugged at the sleeve of her dress, so to speak, and dragged her across the road.

Standing in front of the ticket window for a long time, I only remember that there were single men and women in the film that was released at that time1. I can't remember anything else. Maybe you haven't realized that every word I wrote down was exactly what the two of us said back then! Everything really happened in the marked time, yes, I remember almost all the moments we were together, and this may be considered a kind of love.

After wandering for a long time, neither of us seemed to be interested in the movie that was released, so we turned around and walked back to Tex very tacitly.

Now I realize that she didn't seem to want to watch a movie that day, but she was afraid that I would be embarrassed, so I echoed my words, and she might have been hungry and tired after a day of work. And at that time, I really didn't think of this, I just blindly wanted to sit with her more, talk, get along, because every simple communication will make me feel very comfortable, this comfort may be because of her straightforwardness or her personality, or her delicateness, now I don't know which one.

During the meal, it was snowing very hard, and I wanted to be handsome that day in order to date her, so I put on a suit with a big open collar......

The snow was falling, and soon the road was covered in thick snow, and the pedestrians on the street were running with their heads bowed, and we sat at the second table in the hallway of the restaurant, and she ordered a teriyaki chicken steak rice, and I asked for one...... I only ate teriyaki once at Yoshinoya in Beijing when I was 19 years old, and I don't usually go to the restaurant...... Naturally, I don't know the meaning of teriyaki......

"It's delicious. She said to me with a smile.

"Uh-huh. "I nodded and put a piece of teriyaki chicken chops in my mouth, and the moment I put it in my mouth, I realized that teriyaki was the kind of taste I ate in Beijing...... Out of love, I began to brag about myself.

The blowing is so chic, and the blowing is so charming.

She also seemed to like me, and she always smiled every time we met, and I was deeply attracted by her smile and straightforward and somewhat smug personality.

The snow was getting heavier and heavier outside, and it was almost nine o'clock when we walked out of the restaurant, and the street seemed to be quiet by the arrival of the heavy snow.

There were almost no people and cars on the street, it was very quiet, and the sky was full of snow, and the sky was a little brighter because of the snow.

After the restaurant came out, we crossed the street, and this time, I took her hand, and she held her hand tightly, and she did not resist my rude behavior, and let me take her hand and walk down the street.

The cold wind was blowing, but there was a warm current from our clasped hands, and at that moment I liked her, I was very sure, I liked it very much!

Holding her hand, we walked through the Changyun watchtower together, walked through the haberdashery market together, in order to be able to stay with her for a while, I also deliberately took a big detour of the road, around the Xiaoximen Bridge, along the way we were not idle, kept telling each other's little secrets.

"You asked me out that day, but I actually went on a blind date. She said to me with some embarrassment. It seems that she doesn't want to hide anything from me.

Hearing her confession, I didn't feel a little unhappy, but because of her confession, my heart blossomed.

"How's that going?" I asked her teasingly.

"No," she replied, looking at me very seriously.

I laughed, and I said, "What about me?"

She is simply my nemesis, and she told me without hesitation: "I feel like I'm quite chatty with you, and you don't seem to be out of place, so let's go everywhere first." ”

I was hit by her, and seriously, at that moment I was hit by her bluntness for the first time.

I held her hand tightly, and there was a wet feeling in my palm, and I was sweating...... I don't know if I pulled it too tightly, or if the hearts of the two of us were beating a little fast, and my palms were sweating in the cold winter.

The snow outside is too big, we just like this along the way, chatting and chatting, teasing each other from time to time, walking a very big circle, when walking to the bus stop opposite Boyuan supermarket because of the snow, I thought about taking a taxi, but I didn't wait for a long time to wait for the car.

And I wear very little, and when I am young, I can really not be afraid of the cold, especially when I am dating, which I deeply understand.

I took her hand and gently put it to my mouth, and I exhaled to warm her hand.

After waiting for a long time and not waiting for the car, I decided to walk.

Along the way, I kept changing directions, warming her hands, sometimes with my left hand, sometimes with my right hand, but she jokingly told me: "Every winter, her hands and feet will become cold,"

I smiled and said to her, "It's okay, I'll warm you up,"

She seemed pleased with my reply, and smiled, and the two of us walked down the silent street for a full 4 kilometers, blaming me for deliberately making a big circle and wanting to stay with her a little longer.

It was almost ten o'clock when I arrived at her house, and she asked me to drop it off at the door of the community, and turned to me and said, "Go back quickly, you wear so little." ”

I smiled and said, "It's not cold, I'll send you up." "How could it not be cold, I was going to freeze to death at that time, but I was frozen and stayed with her for a while, I chose to stay longer.

Her mom called and asked her why she hadn't come back from the snow outside.

And we were downstairs, and she turned to me and said, "Would you like to come up?"

I didn't know what to think at the time, so I replied, "That's it, I entered her house for the first time." ”

It was her mother who opened the door, and when she saw me in a suit and covered in snow, she said the first thing she said:

"Wearing so little, it's going to freeze you to death. ”

I smirked and said, "It's not cold, it's fine." ”

He welcomed me into the house and exchanged a few words.

Her mother asked her to pour me a glass of water, and she once again revealed her true nature, sitting on the couch and saying to her mother, "You won't pour it?"

Her mother didn't show weakness, and replied directly and simply: "You can't fall!"

She got up and brought me a glass of boiling water, then sat down on the couch again with disdain.

I still don't understand whether her disdain was out of laziness or because she didn't want to see me...... I'm still a fan, and I feel lazy...... I was right.

When I came out of her house, her mother asked her to drop me off, and I tried my best to refuse, she grimaced at me behind her mother and waved her hands. Didn't talk to me.

I looked at her ghostly expression, smiled, and after saying goodbye, I walked home alone.

That night, I still walked home, and I was happy all the way, happy that I took her hand and she accepted me. Fate is really amazing.

Years later, she told me that she just liked me a little bit at that time, not rejected, and was not like me, and had become deeply infatuated with her.

That night, I knew my heart very well, because I believed in love and fate again. That night, I really liked her! I had the courage to hold her hand! I really liked her!

This is our third real date, and it is because of this third date that we have really established a relationship.