Chapter 419 proposes that skipping a grade is helpless, and I can't afford to regret it when something goes wrong

Caizi said: "The number of houses built in Shenyang has not decreased, but compared with other real estate companies, it is a little less. I invested part of my 'fine' efforts in the surrounding Tieling and Dandong, because the real estate industry there is very good, the cost of land is relatively good, and the profit of the house is also high. ”

The principal said: "That's right, I don't understand the real estate industry, I only care about the price of the house, followed by the quality of the construction, and the other is some after-sales facilities and properties." ”

Caizi said, "May I ask the principal, what is your surname?"

The principal smiled and said, "My surname is Liu, Liu Lipeng." ”

Caizi said: "Principal Liu, let's talk about the cold of Bose's stock." ”

Principal Liu said, "Is there anything about Bosri Gulen?"

Caizi said: "It's a bit of a problem, hey......! How can I say it! Isn't this child a few years older than the students in the same class? I didn't find any problems in the first two years, but now we find that she has some inferiority complex. Therefore, the study has also been affected by some aspects, just now we met her homeroom teacher Ms. Meng, Ms. Meng also found some abnormalities in her, we totaled it, but we didn't come up with a solution. This kid has made us worried, so we have to ask you, the headmaster, to think about it?"

At this time, Li Xiujuan heard the genius say this, and thought to herself, it is still the genius who can speak, and raise the principal all of a sudden, let him come up with ideas, so as not to beg him, and she smiled when she thought of this.

At this time, Principal Liu said: "I have been teaching for almost 20 years, and this situation has happened before, and there are also students in the same class who are several years apart. With the increasing emphasis on education, it is rare in recent years. In the case of a cold boy, as the child grows older, the physical growth and psychological maturity increases, and the physical differences that are manifested in the increase will become more and more serious. This kind of psychological pressure will have a certain impact on the child's development. It is only in high school that this inferiority complex slowly eases as other students catch up in height, and it is not until college that it is completely lifted. ”

Caizi said: "Over the years, I haven't broken the child." Will it affect the child's 'sexual' personality or something?"

Principal Liu said: "Hey ......! Your worries are right, this age is the time when people's 'sexual' personality is fixed, and this kind of inferiority complex is easy to cause problems. If the guidance is not good, there will be certain adverse consequences. As a result, many children will run away from home, abandon themselves, break jars and other 'radical' behaviors, which will affect her life. ”

Caizi was afraid after hearing this, he didn't know that it would affect her life because of this, and the consequences would be so serious.

At this time, Caizi had an unknown depression, he was not speaking, he really didn't know what to say now.

Li Xiujuan said: "Principal Liu, what should you do to eliminate the impact on the children?"

At this time, Caizi also changed his mind and said: "Principal Liu, no matter what, I can't let this child's psychology develop, I have already failed her mother, I am failing her, and my psychology is unreasonable." No matter how much money 'spends', I am willing to find any kind of person, as long as the psychological pressure on this child is relieved. ”

Principal Liu's expression was also very serious, he didn't immediately answer Caizi and Li Xiujuan's questions, he was also thinking about a way.

Caizi looked at Lao Hai, who was sitting on the side and didn't speak, at this time, he felt that the atmosphere was very oppressive, he got up and went to the window, looking at the '' field in front of him.

At this time, Principal Liu first broke the silence and said, "How old is Bowes Rigu Leng and other students?"

Caizi turned around and looked at Li Xiujuan, Li Xiujuan said: "Three or four years old, at the beginning, the school was going to let her go directly to the second grade, but at that time, considering that she had not studied anything at home, she had to be arranged in the first grade." ”

Principal Liu said, "How is her academic performance?"

Li Xiujuan said: "I didn't say anything about studying, I have always been in the top few in the class, and many times I am still second!"

Principal Liu said: "If she is allowed to build up her confidence, it is really not important to rely on our preaching, and the inevitable reality is in front of her. In order to completely get rid of this mentality of hers, I think it is necessary to take a measure that is effective and immediate to be effective. ”

Caizi also guessed what the principal meant, that is, to let Bowes skip the grade. Caizi said eagerly: "Principal Liu, do you want to make Bo Si jump coldly?"

Principal Liu looked at the talented man and thought about it and said: "I have this meaning, but there is also a certain risk of skipping grades, she can't keep up, and if she doesn't study well, it will increase new psychological pressure, once she loses the confidence to learn, she will really give up on herself at that time, and the gains will outweigh the losses, and the so-called 'desire' is not up to speed!"

Caizi said: "So, skipping a grade must be carefully considered?"

Principal Liu said: "Of course, there have been students who skipped grades in the past, and they are all extremely excellent students with strong 'spirit' ability. In the past two days, a few of our school leaders have asked her homeroom teacher to study it, and if it is feasible, we will make a plan and listen to our letter when the time comes. However, neither of her parents is with her, and neither of you is his legal guardian, but after all, you are now fulfilling your duties as guardians. It's best to discuss this decision with her parents. ”

Caizi said: "I can't get in touch with her parents now, and even if they do, they can't solve the child's problems." ”

Principal Liu said, "If that's the case, you can go back and enlighten her strategically, so that she can slowly adapt to this environment." Gradually weaken her inferiority complex, and it is best to cultivate her mentality of daring to face reality. Let her inferiority complex turn into an invisible force that drives her to adapt to this environment. ”

Caizi said: "Principal Liu, we really didn't come in vain today, and we did learn a lot of knowledge from you to cultivate children. You're a good headmaster! I admire you!"

Principal Liu said, "Ah, is this what we should be doing as an educator? ”

Caizi said: "Then let's take our leave first, and we will come over in a few days." The genius got up after speaking.

Principal Liu also got up and sent a few of them out of the house.

On the way back, the talented man said to Li Xiujuan: "Sister-in-law, I didn't think about it, it is really a problem for children to study at night for a few years? ”

Li Xiujuan said: "Chairman, what can you see we can do?"

Caizi said: "What can you do, she is not a kitten or a puppy, you let her do whatever she wants, find a way to persuade her!"

The car returned to the company, Li Xiujuan left, and the talented man sat on the chair alone, and he began to think of a way. At this time, his mind was spinning rapidly, and he wanted to come up with a good solution to the problem of Bose's daily coldness. Solving this problem is also a 'handover' generation for the old girl, after all, it was his own idea for Bowes to come to Shenyang to study in the cold, and he can't shirk the responsibility that she can't shirk if she doesn't study well and any problems arise.

Thinking of this, Caizi got up and went to the window, looking at the traffic coming and going on the street and the people in a hurry, he began to say to himself: "Now everyone knows that it is my kindness to take Bosi Rigu to study in Shenyang, and I am sincerely helping the old girl." But now I didn't think that this child would be autistic, hey......! It's so unpredictable! I have to find a way to cure this child! Save this child!"

He thought about this problem in detail for two whole days, and he really couldn't think of a very effective way to alleviate the current psychological situation of Bose's stock cold.

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