Early this morning, he came to the company, and not long after, Li Xiujuan came. Caizi said, "How long has it been since his father came?"

Li Xiujuan said: "I didn't come last week, but I guess I will come this week." ”

Caizi said: "Does he know the situation of Bowes's stock market now?"

Li Xiujuan said: "I told him last time I came. ”

Caizi said: "This time, you can ask him about the school's proposal to make Bowes skip the grade, and see what his attitude is." ”

Li Xiujuan said: "Okay." ”

Li Xiujuan finished her work and left the house.

He thought of a few people, the first one he thought of was Professor Tan, although he did not study psychology, but after all, he was a university professor, and he thought that his ideas would be beneficial to his mind. The second thing he thought of was Professor Zhao, a psychology professor who cured Lao Ya's psychological problems. The third is Lao Ya's father Zhang Cheng 'Yu', in his original impression, Zhang Cheng 'Yu' is a very smart village cadre.

In addition, this matter cannot be contacted at present, once the school makes a decision to let Bowes skip the grade, Zhang Cheng 'Yu' must also give his opinion.

The first call he made was Professor Tan, of course, because he was very busy, and he was afraid that he would go to class after eight o'clock. The phone was quickly connected, and Caizi said, "Dear Professor Tan, good morning to your old man?"

Professor Tan felt very strange when he heard it, Caizi had never spoken to himself with such a 'kiss' and tone. Professor Tan was stunned for a moment and then smiled and said, "Genius, what are you doing today, why did you speak in such a tone?" ”

Caizi also felt a little inappropriate when he heard Professor Tan say this, and it was an unconscious act to speak to Professor Tan in such a tone just now. Maybe it's because the genius suddenly found a breakthrough in his depression in the past two days, or maybe it's because he and Professor Tan haven't seen each other in these years.

Caizi also paused and said humorously: "Professor Tan, didn't I see you! Besides, I also raised your 'spirit' early in the morning, so that you could give me some ideas." ”

Professor Tan on the other end of the phone couldn't hold back his laughter "haha......", and after laughing, Professor Tan said: "You kid, you are so funny that you really make me 'spirited', you say, what is the difficulty of the enterprise again." ”

Caizi said: "Hey......! There's nothing wrong with the enterprise, don't you know about the old girl? Didn't her 'daughter' Bao Si Ri Leng study in Shenyang? She went to school a few years later than other children, and now she has grown up and has her own thoughts. She's taller than other students, and she herself feels that she can't hold her head up in the class, so she has an inferiority complex, and she's depressed all day long, I'm asking you to help me find a way to persuade this kid?"

After hearing this, Professor Tan paused and asked, "What grade is she?"

Caizi said: "The second grade of elementary school. ”

Professor Tan said: "A normal second-grade child should be about nine years old, so she is now twelve or thirteen years old?"

Caizi said: "It's the professor, you're right, she's thirteen or fourteen." ”

Professor Tan said: "'Girl' children, at the age of thirteen or fourteen, have just entered the 'spring' period, and it is the time when they can understand the world in a hazy way, and they do not see many issues very thoroughly. Her parents are no longer with her, and this will inevitably happen. I don't really have much say in this child's education, but I think you kid will find a reasonable way to solve it. ”

The genius said, "Hey, Professor Tan, if I have something to do, shouldn't I have done it earlier?

Professor Tan paused and said, "I teach adults, and I don't need to think about their ideological changes, and I really can't think of a good way to solve this problem for a while." But I guess it's better to find a way to lead positively. In addition, I think it is important to build her confidence in learning and facing real problems. No matter what kind of person you are, once you lose your confidence in life, study, and work, then this person is completely finished. ”

Caizi said: "Professor Tan, what you said is indeed very reasonable, and I understand this very well. But I just couldn't think of a proper way to guide her. ”

Professor Tan said: "Then I have time to think about it, and I really can't do anything about it now. ”

Caizi said: "Professor Tan, okay, I know this, then I'll wait for your good news." ”

Putting down Professor Tan's phone, Caizi let out a long breath, although he didn't get a good answer, but it seemed that he had completed a task 'assigned' by his superiors, and he felt a little relaxed.

He looked at his watch before half past seven, although he had Professor Zhao's phone, but he couldn't call Professor Zhao, after all, he and Professor Zhao were not as familiar as Professor Tan, and he and Professor Zhao did not have such a deep 'friendship', he felt that he had to go there in person.

After waiting for a while, I saw that it was going to be half past seven, and then I went downstairs. At this time, Lao Hai was talking to the old man of the 'door' guard. Caizi said, "Walk to Shengjing Hospital." ”

Lao Hai and Caizi walked out of the house, and the car quickly stopped outside the big 'gate' of Shengjing Hospital, and Caizi went upstairs by himself. At this time, the hospital was already full of people waiting to see a doctor.

Caizi thought to himself, come at this time, does Professor Zhao have time to receive me? Hey, since you are here to see the situation, let's talk about it, think of this and he got the elevator. When he got to Professor Zhao's floor, he got off the elevator.

He came to the 'door' of Professor Zhao's office, the 'door' was closed, and the genius gently knocked on the 'door'. There was no movement inside, so he had to wait at the 'door'.

After a while, he felt that there seemed to be some movement in the house, and he felt that there should be someone in the house. He knocked lightly on the door a few more times, and then the door opened. I saw Professor Zhao wearing a white coat and just turned around and walked back after opening the 'door', and after sitting down, he saw that it was a talented man and said, "Is that you? I thought it was a patient? Come in, I just finished changing my clothes." ”

Caizi smiled again and said, "Professor Zhao, it seems that you are getting younger and younger!"

Professor Zhao said: "You kid, you have a good mouth when you break the bottle, you are over fifty years old, why are you young or not young." ”

Caizi said, "I thought you should go to the doctor now?"

Professor Zhao said: "No, I should go to the clinic today, but it will be half past eight? There is still some time, you are still looking for me or Zhang Weiwei's business, right?"

Caizi said: "It's also the old girl's business, but this time it's not the old girl herself who is her 'daughter'." ”

Professor Zhao said: "Ah, what's the matter with Zhang Weiwei's 'daughter'?"

The genius 1510 told Professor Zhao about the current situation of the cold stock in the box......

After hearing this, Professor Zhao said: "Genius, it seems that you are indeed a good person, not only to help the old girl, but also to take care of her 'daughter'." With that, you're good enough for a good man. It seems that your family, Hashun Gerili, will be very happy! Whose 'daughter' marries a man like you is considered to be marrying the right person. ”

Caizi smiled and said: "Don't say that, I think I was ashamed of the old girl, so I have to compensate the old girl! It's as simple as that, nothing good or bad." ”

Professor Zhao said: "I won't talk about you now, what are you going to do about the old girl's 'daughter'?"

Caizi said: "I really don't have a problem now, so I came to ask you for ideas." ”

Professor Zhao said: "No, normal people stay in a group of people who are smaller than themselves, and they are about to enter junior high school, and her psychology will inevitably have an inferiority complex." Especially in a thirteen or fourteen-year-old 'girl' child, this situation is more likely to occur, and children of this age will compare, often observe others, and compare others with themselves. Therefore, the possibility of problems is great, and if there is a problem, it will not self-regulate, and there will be serious consequences over time. It stands to reason that in the eyes of ordinary people, Lao Ya's 'daughter' is not a disease. However, in the eyes of our doctors, the inferiority complex of the old girl's 'daughter' is also a pathology, which shows that this person does not dare to face the reality and has little confidence in himself. It's just a slight pathology, and with the right guidance, I don't think there will be any problems. But once the guidance is not good, the consequences will be very serious!"

Caizi said: "Listening to you say this, I also understand a little bit of this truth, but I just can't help it!

Professor Zhao smiled and said: "Symptomatic treatment, but this method really needs to be studied carefully, and it is good to formulate a feasible plan for the specific situation." This situation can not be straightforward persuasion, straightforward persuasion is simple, but will not play any role, the rectification is often opposite, will be detrimental to the child's future growth. ”

When Caizi heard these words, he felt that Professor Zhao must have a way, and he smiled and said, "It seems that Professor Zhao has a way?"

Professor Zhao said: "There are ways, there are many ways to solve it, find a few people in her class who are about the same height as her, and often play with her, talk, and play games together." In this way, she will relieve her psychological pressure in the video. At this time, she is most afraid of other people's eyes, she will think that a big man like her is still with a group of children to learn that others will laugh at. With a classmate as tall as her as a cover, I think she will ease her superficial psychological pressure a little. But in essence, the psychological problem is still in her heart, and she has now regarded this problem as a bad thing, which is why she has such an inferiority complex. If she could correctly understand this problem and didn't take it seriously, she wouldn't have any pressure in her heart, and she wouldn't have any inferiority complex. ”

When Caizi heard Professor Zhao say this, he felt that he understood a little bit, and he 'interjected' a sentence and said: "Professor Zhao, you said that this kid currently takes this matter very seriously, so he has such psychological pressure." ”

Professor Zhao said: "Genius, you are indeed very smart, the root cause of this child's problem is that she takes this matter too seriously, that is, people often say that this person is heavy-minded, and she is self-pressurized." Maybe some classmates in other classes didn't know that she was late for school. Some words intentionally or unintentionally hurt her self-esteem, which made her gradually develop feelings of inferiority. There is also the fact that her parents are not around, and without the love of her parents, there will naturally be problems. ”

After hearing this, Caizi thought for a while and said, "Professor Zhao, you have analyzed too thoroughly, and you deserve to be a professor of psychology." These words of yours are my housekeeper's pause, and now I have an idea. I've been holding back this question for two days, and it's really better to listen to your words than to read a book for ten years? ”

Professor Zhao said: "Don't put a top hat on me, I'm just discussing and analyzing the patient's cause from the perspective of a doctor." Don't be in a hurry about this, you must guide it slowly and correctly, because being too hasty with 'manipulation' is often the opposite, and you must understand this. Another aspect is to flutter a few words from her at the right time to give her a sense of accomplishment. It's also a great way to build your child's confidence, and it's a good way to combat low self-esteem. ”

At this time, Professor Zhao looked at his watch and said, "It's half past eight, I have to go to the doctor, are we 'communicating' that day?"

Caizi said: "Professor Zhao, I really didn't come in vain in the past half hour. Thank you!"

Professor Zhao smiled and said, "Hey...... if all the patients I faced missed people like you! I also feel very happy to talk to smart people like you!"

"Hahaha......" The genius laughed after hearing this, and said, "Professor Zhao, I don't think there are many people who come back to see a psychiatrist." ”

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