Now Yang Yikun has held her slender and delicate hand, although on the surface logic, physical contact has never been the point, the focus is on palmistry!

However, the result on the emotional level is physical contact! Here is also the theory of cats, you say directly to the woman: Your hands look good, can you touch them?

also wanted to touch his hands, Yang Yikun used the excuse of looking at his face, so he rationalized the logic of touching his hands, and made the contact as natural as water, Du Xinyi did not resist him at all.

She was counting all kinds of bad things about him, but Yang Yikun knew that her emotions were positive, she had been brought into the atmosphere, and she had obedience to herself.

She is in a good mood and engaged in the interactive process.

Yang Yikun actually doesn't know how to read palmistry, he just bought a book about reading physiognomy at the stall, turned the first few pages, and in less than ten minutes, he was covered with ashes under the bed.

But remember this sentence: men care about logic, women care about feelings!

Yang Yikun grasped this feeling of arousing curiosity, grabbed her hand in his hand, and unfolded her palm with the other hand, and gently gestured his fingers on it.

Du Xinyi felt an itchy hand: "Hey!

"Don't interrupt the master's diagnosis!"

Yang Yikun studied seriously without raising his head,

Then he explained matter-of-factly: "Your hand looks delicate, slender and beautiful...... You will definitely not be the life of the woman who moved bricks on the construction site in the future!"

"Haha—I don't want you to see it!

Du Xinyi said so, but she didn't withdraw her hand.

Because Yang Yikun caught it!

He knew that her emotions were completely different from the words on her lips, and she was still engaged in them!

She thought it was funny, and this person was kind of interesting!

"Ahem! Don't come to some hardcore, you ignorant girl really thinks of me as one of those charlatans who cheat people and money! What are you laughing at, be serious! Listen, this line, it is your marriage line, there are fluctuations and ups and downs, there are twists and turns, which means that your relationship should suffer twists and turns. ”

"It reflects that you are the kind of person who cares a lot about feelings in your heart, but you can't always express them well, you can't say them all, maybe you will seem indifferent in front of people, but in fact, your heart will also be warm, you will laugh and cry, because of the difference before and after, which causes your life experience, often more likely to suffer from twists and turns......"

Du Xinyi listened and listened, and slowly assigned herself a number.

She feels that she has said a lot, and she will be very cold to people who are not interested in the living, because since she was a child, there are always men who think she is good-looking, so they want to pursue her, write love letters to her, and get tired of it. In the long run, she can only adopt coldness to protect herself and avoid these troubles.

But in fact, she is also very enthusiastic about her friends, she can go shopping with her girlfriends, go to KTV ghosts and wolf howls, gossip together, and make unreserved comments on some people...... The more she thought about it, the more she felt that Yang Yikun had said a lot, this guy might really be able to look at it!

In fact, does Yang Yikun know palmistry?

It's going to be an egg!

He's just cold reading!

Cold reading is to have a general cognition, and then make a kind of inference about whether it is possible or not! The mind reader will dilute what is wrong, and can amplify what is said, so that the person being read will be convinced!

Cold reading is also a must-have for many liars, and to put it bluntly, it is a psychological trick!

Yang Yikun's cold reading of Du Xinyi actually has something that is not right, but the content that is said will amplify her surprise and convincing!

Take 10,000 steps back, even if she doesn't believe in these fortune-tellers, but if she says it right, it can make her feel that Yang Yikun is a bit mysterious and interesting, which makes people want to know more!

The point is that she wants to understand!

Du Xinyi's current belief has far exceeded the minimum [investment] expectation of "wanting to know"!

Yang Yikun put down her hand and looked up at her thoughtfully, Du Xinyi's eyes met, but in the eye contact, she couldn't help this male self-confidence, and staggered shyly first (the meaning of training eye contact).

Yang Yikun smiled slightly, and then stretched out his hand to her.

Du Xinyi retreated a little subconsciously.

"There's something in your hair!"

In fact, there was nothing, but Yang Yikun still ran his fingers through his hair.

This is a further enhancement of the obedience.

Considering that she is a bit repetitive, so she can't be given time for logic to operate, Yang Yikun needs to immediately unfold the story to attract her attention-

"You reminded me of a very young child, a female classmate in the same class, at that time she also had a big bunch of hair, black and shiny, but unfortunately I was too naughty at that time, I always liked to pull, make others angry, I was ignorant when I was a child, and when I grew up, I realized that it was actually a hazy like......"

This female classmate actually doesn't exist, it's just made up!

The purpose is still to extend the progress!

It should be said here that women are different from men, men can directly skip to the last step for intimate contact, even if they get rid of the indescribable in the first minute of acquaintance, they can adapt well.

But women often can't! In the face of strangers, you say that you will take the last step immediately? But any normal woman will resist, resist, and let all the goodwill you build up go to waste!

They have to come step by step!

Yang Yikun touched his hands under the pretext of looking at his face, and touched his hair under the pretext that there was something in his hair, which is in line with the principle of "anything, as long as there is a first time, there will be countless times".

After he finished making up the story, Du Xinyi was attracted by the content of this story, and did not refuse or resent it, he just touched his hair so unscrupulously and continued until now!

Yang Yikun withdrew his hand: "Actually, when I saw you, I thought of my carefree past." ”

"I didn't expect me to have merit in your eyes. ”

She held her chin with her hand and complained a little, mainly because Yang Yikun had a lot of things to suppress her just now, saying that she was stupid, saying that she was not easy to get along with and narcissistic, implying that she had a bad temper.

It is far better to praise women all the time than to let them have emotional ups and downs! Now that Yang Yikun has got a better effect, Du Xinyi has no resistance to his physical contact.

As a battle-hardened person, he can take advantage of this emotion, continue to push, increase and move, and even on the first day of acquaintance, it is not difficult to have an example of a relationship.

But he didn't do it now, he saw it as a pleasant social game.

He stopped making further contact.

It's also because: "It's late, it's time to go home." ”

"Are you so punctual about your work?"

Du Xinyi is at an emotional high, but she doesn't want it to end like this.

But Yang Yikun is ruthless: "In fact, if I hadn't met you today, I would still be catching up with my career goals, the beautiful encounter is fascinating, but the belief is even more unshakable." ”

"Boring man!

"Yes, please call me the Iron Straight Man!"

Yang Yikun got up with a smile, and after checking out, he still walked with her for a short time. In fact, if you describe the story as: flat and straight, flat and straight, and then flat and straight, the reader will fall asleep!

It's the same for women, straight men are the easiest to do things according to the method of declarative sentences, and the change is also very simple, add a little conditional premise to what you should have done, such as wanting to welcome or refuse!

Yang Yikun didn't mind taking her around, but verbally said no first!

And then he brought it anyway, so that the social tension was there!

Getting along with women is no longer so boring because of emotional resilience!

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[Investment: Men chasing women, men investing in women; women chasing men, women investing in men. Investing in a way means being trapped. Among the common clinical symptoms of dog licking, the longer the licking and the deeper the depression, the more difficult it is to withdraw from the scene. 】