Chapter 016: How to Embody High Value
Yang Yikun accompanied her around the pedestrian street, chatting casually and watching the excitement.
During a crossing of the street, he naturally took her hand under the pretext of paying attention to safety. With the previous palmistry contact, her second resistance was almost non-existent, and she felt that it happened naturally.
The main thing is that the emotions are in place, and the girls will not resist contact with you, because they also want to be contacted in their hearts, but they won't show it, you have to take the initiative!
Du Xinyi was held by the hand, she was tall and long-legged, and the frequency of her steps was very consistent with his, she felt that the two were tacit understanding everywhere, she was caught in the conflict between emotion and logic, so she said: "It's strange, we have just met, why do we feel that we are already very familiar?"
Yang Yikun went to metaphysics: "Some people are familiar with it at first sight, because this is destined in the sea of people!"
She asked, "Do you believe in fate and fate?"
He looked at her with both eyes: "Then how did I meet you?"
She laughed, "You are flamboyant! I don't believe it!"
In fact, many women believe in horoscopes and divination, which are psychological things at first glance, and they will rationalize themselves if they like them!
No matter how short and unreasonable the encounter was, she just agreed with Yang Yikun's concept of fate, and her heart continued to rationalize, implying that she was really like this!
She wanted to continue this wonderful encounter, but Yang Yikun was really leaving, and he behaved very gracefully, helping her stop a taxi, opening the door for her, and telling her to give information when it arrived.
"Bye-bye!"
Yang Yikun waved her hand and watched her leave.
Du Xinyi couldn't help but look back in the car, she felt that this scene was a bit like a movie, a wonderful encounter!
Until the car turns and you can't see behind you anymore.
What would she be thinking about Yang Yikun doing now?
Yang Yikun is now on the phone, one dear at a time, preparing for the second scene.
There's a saying that doesn't say?
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But not for Du Xinyi, because in the next few days, Yang Yikun didn't take the initiative to contact her.
She fell into the repeated speculation of women, in fact, she didn't think about her boyfriend and girlfriend, or she didn't plan yet, she still felt in her heart that men should come after her!
Yang Yikun's attitude made her unpredictable, he should have a good impression of himself, otherwise how could he hold his hand? But after eating the group, she was left to be ignored!
Du Xinyi sent him a message, and he responded warmly, but he didn't mean to continue the invitation, and he didn't plan to take the initiative to chat with her!
Is he interested in him, or is he just a friend?
Du Xinyi's heart was stirred up and down, and it was very uncomfortable.
Yang Yikun did it on purpose.
Again, women are like cats!
The more you don't want it, the easier it is to run to you!
He didn't rush to push the relationship between men and women, he took it as a social game to accumulate self-confidence and physical and mental pleasure, opening up the hazy favor of the opposite sex, but he didn't push it forward.
It's not just the goddess who is qualified to choose to be a friend as a spare tire, men also have this right, it's just that you don't dare, you don't have the courage, you can't afford to fail.
And he doesn't care from his inner emotions to logical thinking and behavior - this is the mentality of a high-level person, because a person's emotions affect behavior!
He can't help but ask for anything, the mentality is Buddhist, because life has to go on, as long as he has free time after work, he will expand his circle of women.
You ask why you can be so reluctant to invite and reject a woman?
One of the answers is here: Without you, I still have 99 other beautiful and charming girls, do you think I will care about this loss?
This is the psychology of a master, his world does not revolve around a woman, his life is very exciting, he constantly steps into the circle of women, lingering on different occasions, streets, bars or Internet celebrity attractions.
He dates the most beautiful women and posts photos to his friends.
A few selfies with a group of hot girls, with the text: Sunny weather, it's good to get together once in a while.
This is actually a typical domestic PUA display surface format, which is a bit like a woman taking Internet celebrity photos.
Yang Yikun used to look down on PUA a little, because he felt that they relied on the Internet and relied on routines to package, and they didn't exercise their true selves at all...... But it can't be denied that there are also good tricks in it.
For beginner men, you can't immediately have a wealth of skills, it is impossible to practice a high degree of consistency immediately, you have just started learning, but you have already met interested girls, so how do you show your alpha characteristics? How to show your high value?
There are also many quick tricks - just like Yang Yikun's party photos with hot girls.
From a woman's point of view, what do they think?
What they see is the social value of this man!
The so-called gathering of likes, he was able to get together with these beautiful ladies, be recognized by them and be included in the circle, so it proves that he will also be of high social value!
Women have a herd mentality, for example: seeing a beautiful woman on the street, sweetly holding the hand of an ordinary man and walking in front of her.
If this ordinary man is released alone, they don't care and can't look down on it.
This man needs to go through a lot of effort to show his value in order to gain their approval.
But when he had a beautiful and tall woman next to him, they felt that there must be something unique about this man, there must be something good about him, he was either rich, or very talented, or very likable.
The same man, the latter easily gained the recognition of a woman's high social value!
Yang Yikun's purpose is this, through a few photos, let women understand by themselves.
They will know that this man must be different and a worthy target!
It will also make some women who are interested in him feel a sense of competition.
For example, Du Xinyi, who just finished working out, took pictures of her figure in the mirror, and planned to pick a few to upload - she happened to brush up on Yang Yikun's circle of friends, and her curiosity aroused!
She opened the picture, even zoomed in to see the women, and muttered in her heart: Ignore me, it turns out that there are so many beautiful women dating!
What a flowery man, I can see it clearly!
Why don't you take the initiative to chat with me, I also have time, okay!
If you don't look for me, I won't look for you!
The above is the multiple psychology that emerged in her instant.
She really won't take the initiative to take care of Yang Yikun, and will choose the best looking fitness photos of herself, and even release them until she thinks they are perfect.
Even she doesn't know why she has this emotion, because the logic doesn't make sense - they are not boyfriend and girlfriend, but she just has emotions!
So it's stupid to talk to women about logic!
Her anger will kill her good impression of you, but at the same time, as long as the timing is right, it will also instantly increase her curiosity about you, break her reserve, and make her take the initiative!
This state needed to be broken, and it lasted until Yang Yikun sent her a message one day: "I have a party with a few very good friends on the weekend, and I think of you!"
PS: I want to ask, like the description and analysis of these long chapters, can you read it? Or do you want a stronger way of storytelling? I don't really want to write boring popular science articles, otherwise it will be too niche and there will be no readers.