Yang Yikun continued to point out the maze:

"So some of the expressions that you feel should be very manly, very personable, make you feel that you are very good at taking care of women, shouting all day long and asking for warmth, whether it is cold or hot, whether it is hot or hot, and you can coax her for a day if you scratch a little skin...... These words make the woman really comfortable to listen to and feel that you are very considerate. ”

"But the problem is, these words are the donor's strategy!"

"The thoughts that many of you have in your minds, or the ideas that movies and the media have instilled in you about how men should treat women, are all reflected in the beta (provider) program!"

"And the alpha man, the high-value man -- you imagine a boss or a superior with a lot of status and achievement, how do they talk? Do they have the mind to coax women all day long? Have that time to praise her all day long? No!"

"So you have to abandon low-value methods and choose high-value expressions in terms of language!"

Li Shoucheng understood, but Tang Kewen and Yan Kuan were still a little confused: "In addition to language, what other aspects of high value are reflected?"

Yang Yikun had just eaten a full meal, and it was still early, so he decided to give an example of the system.

"Let's start from primitive times, genes and instincts are the most undeceived. ”

"Women in primitive times were not as hypocritical as they are today, and their way of judging a man's worth was very straightforward: he had to be tall and strong, which meant that he could hunt his prey and protect her;

He has to have status, which means that women can have more food and a higher safety factor;

He has to be a man who promises and does what he says, that he will not run away when a woman is pregnant, that he will not let her starve, that he will not let her child lose protection. ”

Yang Yikun threw out a question: "What do you think these requirements have created for women?"

Everyone thought, Tang Kewen raised his head: "A sense of security?"

Yang Yikun nodded heavily: "Yes! It's a sense of security!"

"Women often say that a man is insecure, just because he does not meet the conditions for appeal, so her inner instinct will reject him and will want to continue to test him!"

Everyone had the same expressions on their faces.

Yang Yikun continued: "In modern times, thousands of years of civilization have made living conditions superior, and women have begun to demand men to be handsome, humorous, and have cars and houses...... Something like that. ”

"In terms of fundamental needs, what women need is no different from that of primitive times - security!"

"Their modern logic is only accumulated and established over thousands of years, and their mate selection strategy is naturally determined by hundreds of thousands of years and millions of years, and it is difficult for women's logic to defeat instinct (sensibility). ”

So on instinct:

Firm and strong voice = high status = high survival value;

Trembling voice, hesitation = low status = low survival value;

Standing with a straight back and looking up at people = high status = high survival value;

When standing, bend over and bow your head, not daring to look at people = low status = low survival value.

"What I am talking about is [the value of action]!"

"Connect with your own usual behavior, rate yourself, the higher the score, the higher the value you embody, the easier it is to attract women!"

They started to figure out their scores.

Yang Yikun continued: "Then the second type of value embodiment: [emotional value]. ”

"In addition to asking you to keep her fed, drinked, and safe, they also want to ask men to make her happy and make her heart beat faster - a complex woman's heart that scientists can't understand!"

This exclamation made them laugh one after another.

"Emotional value is a series of behaviors that make her feel nervous, excited, heartbeat, and happy...... There was an experiment in a foreign country where two groups of people went on a blind date, one on the ground and the other on a building several hundred meters high, and the result was that the probability of matching on a high-rise building was twice as high as that on the ground!

"Then you should understand that I go on the offensive against women, such as accosting women, and I go up to show the high value of my words and deeds. ”

"And then I'm always pushing them emotionally, making them feel challenged, want to try, feel happy...... That's emotional value, and with a two-pronged approach, is it hard to attract them?"

Li Shoucheng finally understood: "It turns out that you are so particular about every step...... I still thought it would be OK to memorize your sentences and flirt with my sister. ”

"There is no consistency in copying homework!"

Yang Yikun is still saying this.

Tang Kewen and Yan Kuan were still in the midst of the ideological storm, and Li Shoucheng gradually understood.

Yang Yikun saw that the timing was right, so he gave him a new task: "Then listen up, task four!"

"Task 4: From now on, properly manage your value system. Write down what you usually say to women, and if it's low-value, change it to high-value immediately!

Correct your mannerisms and behaviors, hold your head high, and be confident in your eyes and tone! Self-confidence can be exercised, cultivate a small hobby or two, or do more things that make you successful, and continue to accumulate affirmation!

In terms of emotional behavior, learn to be cheerful and optimistic, calmly face challenges and criticism, try to fail, and then face failure, and learn to deal with bad problems (waste tests)!"

Li Shoucheng carefully wrote it down: "Task four, accept the challenge!"

At this time, Tang Kewen had something to say: "I also want to do this task, what are the first few?"

"The first few are the correction of words and deeds, and the accosting of stepping out of the comfort zone...... You can communicate with Li Shoucheng a lot, what I want to say is that this is a set of self-hypnosis transformations, you can believe it, it works!

If you don't believe in your hearts, if you don't believe what I say, if you don't believe in yourself, the gods won't be able to save you! There are no cheats in the world, you will become a master immediately after reading it—if someone says that there is, then it is fake!"

Any trick needs to be practiced repeatedly by oneself to transform it into one's own understanding!

Li Shoucheng, who tasted the sweetness, believed in Yang Yikun the most.

From he didn't dare to look directly at women to be upright, from he couldn't talk to strange women, to dare to talk to and talk nonsense.

Now to correct the low-value description to the high-value one, he has confidence!

……

After this transparent chat, Lee's message came again.

"I've already taken the subway, where are you?"

Yang Yikun found out that so much time had passed, so he sent her the location of the bar: "In addition to wine, there are some non-alcoholic drinks." ”

"I can drink a little bit of wine," she said. ”

"We also passed, a few minutes walk. ”

"Good!"

Putting away the phone, Yang Yikun's eyes stopped on Li Shoucheng's face, and he couldn't help laughing: "The soft girl is coming, whether it's a dog or not, it depends on you treating yourself as a person!"

Li Shoucheng scratched his head and smiled: "I have a sister-okay sister may treat me as a good person, but I believe that she is older than me, and she can't shake me!"

Yang Yikun slapped three times.

"We'll see!"

PS: Ask for a ticket!