Yang Yikun went to the company the next day with his resignation.

The big-bellied boss was surprised by this decision, and repeatedly kept it, and even said that in addition to talking about ideals, he could also talk about a salary or two, after all, it is very difficult to find a social animal that is easy to use in these years.

But Yang Yikun has already made up his mind: "Thank you for your kindness, but I have a better goal and plan, the world is so big, I want to go and see it!"

This sentence that exploded in later generations has not yet been born, this statement has aroused Mr. Lin's feelings, thinking that when he was young, his belly was not big, and his hair was not less, he was also so high-spirited and wanted to wander the world alone!

After Mr. Lin came out of his memories, he had a good impression of the dream-chasing young man in front of him: "The company also respects your decision, and I will give you another month's salary compensation for these days of hard work, and face life well!"

For the voluntary resignation and compensation, Yang Yikun was defenseless, because the communication with the boss in his previous life was not too pleasant, and he walked away.

In this life, because of the difference in mood and tone, the results are completely different. Emotions are contagious, and good emotions are more likely to have good feedback when treating others.

"Thank you Mr. Lin for your care!"

Yang Yikun thanked him and said goodbye.

After coming out, I packed up my things and said goodbye to a few familiar colleagues, they were very curious about how they suddenly quit when they went to work the day before yesterday, and some of them knew some reasons and were persuading.

"Not for a woman!"

"Brother is also here, what's so embarrassing. ”

In the face of these concerns, Yang Yikun responded freely: "I'm really not for emotional problems, I just found a better direction, I don't want to be like this anymore, and there is ...... I want to keep my hairline. ”

"Oh, I'll go! you kid is here to tease us!"

"Can you still be friends?"

These words poked at the sore spot of the programmers, and they reprimanded them one after another. But Yang Yikun's optimism and open-mindedness also made them give up persuasion, because he was very determined to go his own way.

"When we have time on the weekend, let's have a meal together!"

"No problem!"

……

Saying goodbye to the company and leaving, he went home with the cardboard box.

Yang Yikun lives in a bachelor apartment outside the ring road in the city, surrounded by institutions of higher learning, he has settled here since graduating from college, and he has fantasized that there are so many schools around, he must be able to meet a girl.

Every night when the lights are on, there are indeed many college girls who are active, but it's useless - you can't overcome social fear in your heart, you just live with a beautiful woman, and you can't jump out of two sycophants.

The past is a bit like a residual obsession, like a thorn in his heart, so that he can't achieve complete consistency, Yang Yikun knows that he also needs to change at present.

I got on the elevator and got home, one bedroom and one living room, not big but also has its own style, a large flat-screen TV in the living room, PS, boxes, all full of games.

The coffee table and refrigerator are full of snacks, the amount of instant noodles is enough to supply a month at home, and there are all kinds of figurines and car models in the house...... He belongs to the dead house that has a little money.

But Yang Yikun didn't want to live such a closed life again.

He rolled up his sleeves, opened the windows for ventilation, and cleaned the room.

Throw away what you don't want and pile up the scattered things neatly.

I was sweating, but my mood was as bright as the sun outside the windowsill!

Then sit down in front of the computer.

He is no stranger to pixel birds, and he was once addicted to them, and he admired the mentality of developers very much, so he was determined to be such a talent.

It's just that I didn't realize it in my previous life, and I gave up doing other things halfway, but in this life, I can give full play to the advantages of rebirth and release it first...... He thought to himself, and he was doing it.

He plans to prepare more self-copyrighted materials, he doesn't plan to have too many similar elements with Mario, and consciously avoids possible lawsuits.

You also have to consider the overall planning, these are professional issues, fortunately, he has been studying very well, has a good comprehension ability, revisit the homework, and will soon be able to get started.

A few days passed.

Because there is no class, the whole person is free.

He also didn't want to stare at the computer all the time, his eyes couldn't stand it, he had a slight myopia, so he gave his rest interval and made a plan to improve: he wanted to go to the park for a run, go to the gym to check in, and change his appearance!

So he threw away his untemperamental glasses, used invisible ones, took off his programmer's beloved plaid shirt, replaced it with a round-necked white T, and put on deliberately torn jeans.

Then I went to the barbershop, since the person is still young, then I don't do it endlessly, let Mr. Tony push him a moxican short haircut, the sides are fine, the top of the head is a bunch, and he is suddenly energetic!

The social animal who was obsessed with working overtime in the past has turned into a refreshing and clean man. In addition to the sequelae of a little greasy, the back is not very straight, and there is a little belly in the office all year round.

He needs more changes!

The beauty and ugliness are given by the congenital parents, and it is difficult to change!

But body shape and self-confidence can be decided by yourself!

How do you maintain consistency, you ask?

NLP (Neurolinguistics) belief building in self-belief believes that everyone must be affirmed enough times to build strong enough self-confidence!

There is a discussion about the mainstream NLP concept in the East: if a person grows from a young age, if he needs 5,000 affirmations to establish a strong enough self-confidence framework, many people in my country do not meet the conditions!

Because of the introverted domestic culture, we will be taken for granted by our parents if we do well, and there is no need to praise too much;

As a result, most of us have not grown up to be affirmed enough!

Yang Yikun has been an NLP therapist, and the most effective therapy he gives is: supplement bit by bit!

From obesity to proportionality – it's an affirmation of yourself!

Step out of your comfort zone and adapt to a new image – it's an affirmation of yourself!

From not daring to talk to the opposite sex, to taking the initiative to try - this is also an affirmation of yourself!

Self-confidence comes from every attempt, and every successful attempt is the recognition of oneself! Self-confidence is the temperament that directly reflects the value of a person!

In social activities, the same "Hello, I want to know you" to women, and the effect of a confident and high-spirited man saying it is completely different from that of a cowering dead house!

Therefore, Yang Yikun also had to change his greasy programmer physique, he found a gym, applied for a card, refused a personal trainer, and sweated to lose fat according to the plan he made for himself!

He is good at flirting with girls, but he is not very good, although he is not ugly, but he is not a handsome guy, his height of 178 can only be regarded as average, and his weight of 80KG is a bit excessive.

He's just like many of you, not born good.

But excellence can be accumulated little by little, and he now plans to lose body fat and gain muscle to train his body well.

Because of the strong appearance, this exudes a strong male charm!

Although there are very few opportunities to show the wildness of men in civilized society, just like the motivation of Rolls-Royce, you can not use it, but you can't do without!

On the first day, I was sore, I went home to cook, changed my greasy diet, and only ate boiled chicken breast and stewed cabbage in water during the fat loss period, and supplemented with fruit and milk the rest of the time.

All kinds of high-calorie, high-sugar content or fat house happy water in the refrigerator are thrown away - I know it's hard, but good people have strong self-control!

There was no longer a delicious supper at night, and he didn't do anything after taking a shower, just lay down on the bed, and the accumulation of fatigue allowed him to fall asleep in a few minutes.

It's been a long time since he's felt such a smooth, so good sleep!

Staying awake until dawn is a completely luxurious thing for modern people, and it is more about holding the mobile phone until dawn, and fighting with nightmare eyelids during the day!

A good night's sleep brings a good working condition, although the schedule is very full, but a regular and healthy life, no longer sleepy during the day, dark circles are gone, people are no longer greasy, and the health state has skyrocketed.

Confident in your own satisfaction, it doesn't need to be deliberate to show automatically!

(Tips: self-confidence mentality is the premise of all methods and skills, know that no matter how many methods, the mentality is not right, and it will not play well)