When in a state of positive emotions and inner self-confidence, whether it is socializing with others or flirting with girls, its driving force is powerful!

That is, the same sentence, the master said that the girl likes it, but the man learns it but follows the example.

Many people like to attribute the problem to that they are not handsome enough and not rich enough, and deny themselves first!

Based on this mentality, you can't actually do anything!

In NLP treatment, the most common is this kind of qualified self-denial, the patient insists on "because I'm ugly, I'm short, I'm just an ordinary person, etc., so I can't do xxx, so I'm not as good as him, so whatever", they will have a reason to be stubborn with peace of mind, blame the outside world for the failure, and don't listen to any persuasion!

Yang Yikun has never cared about this concept.

Even if the woman chatted with him on WeChat, she kept talking about her boyfriend's standards: tall and handsome, know how to coax his girlfriend, and be good to me...... That's what all women ask for verbally.

But in reality, the boyfriends they are looking for may not necessarily meet the standards, or even rude, bad-tempered, and seemingly angry men...... But I just like it.

Why? Because women's logic is different from sensibility!

It's easy for them to be dominated by emotion and ignore logic.

Yang Yikun is not tall or very handsome, and he can't coax women, so he asked her out.

She is the model girl who made a bet with Li Shoucheng to talk to the other night, she is 1.74 meters tall and taller than him in high heels, but she doesn't care.

Li Shoucheng knew about this, because his friend refused his promise to treat him at night, and then he coincidentally met Lao Yang who was holding his sister's hand in the pedestrian street square.

"I'll go!"

Li Shoucheng watched secretly, and followed him for a while to confirm that it was Yang Yikun!

He also had an impression of the tall and thin girl, because he was the one who instructed him to flirt that night!

He thought at the time, how could it be successful!

But now the model girl is smiling happily and she doesn't resist being held by the hand.

The scene in front of him deeply shocked Li Shoucheng's heart, he suddenly felt lonely in life, he was lagging behind, and this sense of oppression and pressure hit his brain!

So I took out my mobile phone, opened the conversation page with the "goddess", and suddenly had a surge of courage, typed and sent: "Are you there?"

After not replying for a long time, he sent again: "What are you doing?"

He decided to be brave: "Why don't you come out for dinner in the evening?"

After a few moments, the goddess replied, "I'm going for a run." ”

Li Shoucheng was inevitably disappointed, but he was still very active and warm in typing: "Then you have to pay attention to safety, girls don't run too far at night." ”

He can talk about a lot of topics from safety, although he won't say stupid words like "drink more hot water", but the other party's response is very negative, he sends five sentences and the other party replies, or even no reply.

The more he cared, the more the chat atmosphere froze! Helplessly, he put down his mobile phone, looked up at the sky and was stunned, and then thought of something, and sent a message to Yang Yikun: "What are you doing?"

The best friend replied quickly: "Shopping with women." ”

He is not happy now: "Come out and drink after shopping." ”

"I'm going to open a room later, and I can't arrange it. ”

"I rely on you, beasts! I just met you!"

Li Shoucheng was indignant and incredulous.

"Huh!"

Yang Yikun replied with a very bad word.

Li Shoucheng feels ...... now People want to die headlong more than people.

……

Li Shoucheng was stimulated, and he decided to struggle!

He is still a studious person in the end, he recalled the appearance and words of Yang Yikun who accosted his sister that day, looked up the cheats on the Internet, chatted with his sister after repeated defeats, and persevered to make her happy.

And then...... The hard work paid off, and after licking it hard, the girl finally agreed to go out to eat with him, and in order to make the atmosphere more active and show his social circle, he also made an appointment with a dead friend.

Yang Yikun promised to be cheerful: "I'll give you a chance to entertain you!"

Li Shoucheng instructed: "Remember to dress ugly!"

"O a K!"

Then it was evening again, Li Shoucheng dressed up carefully, and waited downstairs in her company for half an hour in advance, waiting for the girl to arrive! Although it was just a relationship between friends, they kept a friendly distance when they stood together.

But he believes that he will be able to hold hands when he crosses the street!

The love strategies he reads on the Internet are all operated like this, and he can do it too!

At the same time, it is also for Yang Yikun to see, you laugh at me for licking the dog and there is no way out, but I am not!

So he took his sister to the pedestrian street square to meet Yang Yikun.

made a phone call to confirm the location, and soon Yang Yikun appeared with his female companion, but Li Shoucheng saw that his pupils contracted, and at first glance he confirmed that it was not the girl from the night before!

It is very obvious that he has been replaced by a maturely dressed royal sister, with hot red lips, charming curly hair, holding a bag in both hands and hanging in front of him, looking very feminine, because he is only wearing a dress, so he is wearing his coat.

"Hello!"

She is down-to-earth and generous, and her smile when she greets her is quite charming.

Li Shoucheng greeted politely, introduced each other, and then took advantage of the time he was walking to pull him aside: "Are you so wild?"

Yang Yikun said indifferently: "It's just a friend." ”

The voice was not loud or small, but the royal sister looked back at him, and soon after, they were about to cross the road to the opposite side, and before Li Shoucheng realized anything, Yang Yikun was already parallel to the royal sister, so he naturally grabbed her hand and said, "I'm quite afraid of crossing the road." ”

I'm a man of yours, you're embarrassed to say this!

Li Shoucheng felt incredible, and then a spirit, he had to hurry up! He stood beside his sister, glanced at it secretly, approached, and got closer.

His heart was racing and his breath was short.

He wanted to be decisive and hold hands, but he was afraid that the girl wouldn't like it.

The green light was already on, and people were shuttling across the road.

teased Yang Yikun's timid sister in his mouth, but let him be dragged away by the man.

Li Shoucheng felt that he couldn't hesitate any longer—he finally trembled and touched the goddess's hand, looking ahead nervously—however, the goddess made a scene he didn't expect and broke free from his hand!

She also quickened her pace and walked ahead.

Li Shoucheng was embarrassed, scratched his head and explained: "I ...... That ......"

The girl looked calm: "I know you're very good, but I'm not ready yet, and we're not familiar enough." ”

"Oh understand, I understand, I understand! An independent woman who is passionate about her career must be very good. ”

Li Shoucheng quickly added a lot of reasons to her!

"Thank you!" the girl was very helpful for these reasons, "It's actually good to talk to you." ”

Li Shoucheng laughed with him: "My friends say that I am really good at encouraging people and making them happy, especially if you are as good-looking." ”

Yang Yikun, who had not heard it, glanced at him and shook his head.

They sat down to eat, and the topic was still continuous, but Li Shoucheng noticed that Yang Yikun showed the royal sister palmistry fortune telling halfway, and all kinds of nonsense made her angry and laughing.

He also wanted to joke with the goddess like this, but ...... She's the kind of woman who doesn't like it...... I can't her off, or she'll ignore me.

After eating, Yang Yikun also proposed to go to the video game city, and his childlike innocence was still lost. It was a pleasure to play - at least Li Shoucheng tried his best, and even put on a bear hood to make her laugh.

What about Yang Yikun on the other side? Sitting on the big sofa with Erlang's legs crossed, playing with his mobile phone, he occasionally laughed at the clumsiness of the royal sister's shooting posture, which caused annoyance: "You look at me like this and say cool things! I won't play anymore!"

"Pull me up! I'll teach you!"

Yang Yikun pulled her up, stood behind her as if holding the posture, and taught her hand in hand.

When Li Shoucheng was running errands for his sister to exchange game currency, he accidentally saw the corner rest area, where Yang Yikun had already hugged the royal sister and kissed her.

The royal sister resisted a little little, pushed him away but was pulled back, and he held and didn't let go...... Then she seemed to accept her fate and stopped resisting.

Li Shoucheng felt his scalp tingle, and you said two hours ago that you were just a friend!

After the game ended, Li Shoucheng's sister said that it was late at eleven o'clock, and it was time for her to go home: "Am I leaving too early to affect your play?"

"It's okay, it's okay! I'm going home early anyway. Li Shoucheng automatically canceled the original plan, and his face looked like you didn't have any responsibility.

Yang Yikun next to him said to the royal sister: "Then you can go back too!"

But the woman is not reluctant yet: "I won't go to work tomorrow!"

Yang Yikun was resolute: "My brother is not in a good mood tonight, I have to stay and enlighten him!"

The royal sister's eyes and posture are very like she wants to be coquettish, and everyone can see it, so she almost said, "I want to go with you at night", but Yang Yikun refused, he just wanted to be with his brother.

Li Shoucheng suddenly felt that he was not interesting, he wanted to say that he was okay and fulfilled the good things of his buddies, but Yang Yikun still urged the royal sister away, and he was disgusted when he came back: "Women are really troublesome!"

Li Shoucheng's chest was uncomfortable, and he wanted to yell at the sky a few times!

Why am I so hard!

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