Blind date?

So suddenly?

In the previous life, Yao Yi's mother only had this idea after returning from studying abroad, but now what's going on, she wants to hold her grandson?

"Sister, I'm only twenty this year, have you ever seen a twenty-year-old blind date?" Yao Yi couldn't cry or laugh, "What does Mom think, if you want to go on a blind date, you should go on a blind date." ”

"Hmph, I'm a little fairy in the ivory tower, why do I have a blind date?"

Yao Yi suddenly realized that it was because he dropped out of school.

I have heard the theory of the butterfly effect many times, but I didn't expect the reborn butterfly to flapp its wings so quickly.

"Okay, I see. Yao Yi readily agreed, "Then you can send me the woman's situation and contact information in a while, and meet her when I find a job." ”

"Yo, that's it, don't struggle for a while? It's not like your style, stinky brother. ”

"Blind date, if it's not suitable, it's just a meal, I have to go in order to make my mother happy, if it's very suitable, wouldn't it be better?"

"Well, that's right. Yao Ling was speechless by her brother's two words, and she was disappointed and surprised that she couldn't enjoy the pleasure of molesting her younger brother.

Of course, Yao Yi is unwilling to accept his parents' arrangements for his marriage, and he will definitely resist to the end at the age of twenty, but now Yao Yi has a gentler and more appropriate means.

Refusal to obey and communicate is the instinctive reaction of most young people when faced with conflicts, but instead of solving the problem, it will exacerbate the conflict.

You must know that no matter how mature their parents or leaders are, they are also flesh and blood people, and rebellious resistance will only push them to their own opposite, and even force them to take tougher measures.

Who suffers if it is hard to deal with it? It can only be the weak side that suffers.

Therefore, in this case, you should pretend to be obedient and obedient, let your parents think that you are on the same side as them, and then find opportunities to instill your ideas to your parents through communication, subtly change their minds, and finally achieve the goal.

For example, in the case of blind dates, instead of rolling around on the ground, it is better to agree to go to the appointment on time.

After meeting with the woman, go home to communicate with the parents, lay out the facts and reason, explain clearly what problems exist between the two, why it is not appropriate, and then say that I am looking forward to the next blind date.

What do parents think? Do they think you're running away from personal problems, you're going against them? Of course not, as long as you say something, they think you're serious and happy with your attitude.

If it doesn't take long for them to find you the next suitable match, just repeat the process again. After repeated times, most parents will give up the idea of letting you go on a blind date, and instead support free love and "necessary waiting", after all, parents also have their own affairs, and it is impossible to match you for blind dates.

Some people may ask, what if the blind date is very suitable and can't find the slightest fault?

For people who ask this kind of question, Yao Yi will advise him to go to the hospital to have a look at his brain.

You may not be able to find a suitable partner after going through thousands of mountains and rivers, and you are not holding on to it firmly in front of you?

"By the way, sister, when are you going home? ”

After finalizing the blind date, Yao Yi mentioned what he really cared about.

The other end of the phone was quiet for a while, and then I heard Yao Ling whisper: "Come back next week, hey, Yao Yi, when did you learn to be so flamboyant." ”

"Flim tongue, wow, wronged, I've clearly learned to express my true feelings, okay. Yao Yi knew that her sister didn't know how to express her true emotions at this time, so she quickly changed the topic, "How are you doing in Tianjing?"

"Accustomed to, so used to it!There are more delicious foods here than our Shangjing, when you come, I will take you to make a small train, go shopping, eat and eat~"

Speaking of food, Yao Ling was particularly excited.

Hearing that Yao Ling was happy, Yao Yi was also very happy, and after listening to her, he asked, "How is the place to live?"

"It's okay, I live in a double dormitory, and the environment is barely good. If there is anything bad, it is that there is often heavy fog, low visibility, and it is inconvenient to drive. ”

Foggy?

Calculating the time, the smog problem in Tianjing seems to have become particularly serious in 09, and the smog reached the medium pollution level in 05, and there were many media reports, but it did not attract widespread attention from the society.

Two years later, when the U.S. embassy staff in China made big news, citing the fact that the work environment was a polluted area that seriously harmed health, they demanded increased allowances in accordance with U.S. air quality standards and federal labor laws, as well as increased vacations and faster rotations.

By the 13th year, the continuous fermentation of the haze problem has become the keyword of the year, and it is rumored that in January 13, there are only five days in the entire Tianjing that are not haze weather, and any further can take away the title of fog capital.

Thinking of the health hazards caused by haze, Yao Yi persuaded worriedly: "Sister, go out less on foggy days in the future, remember to wear a mask when you go out, and it's best to buy an air purifier in the dormitory." ”

"It's just foggy, not rather. ”

"That's not fog, it's smog, do you know PM2.5? Social activities will emit a certain amount of fine particulate matter, that is, PM2.5, such as Tianjing, which lacks greenery, high-density population cities, PM2.5 emissions exceed the atmospheric circulation capacity and carrying capacity, will accumulate into haze, these fine particulate matter with a diameter of less than 0.01 microns will enter the bronchi and lungs through the respiratory system, and long-term inhalation is likely to cause respiratory diseases and cerebrovascular diseases!"

Yao Yi was solemn, but Yao Ling didn't care, wowed, and said: "You know a lot, where do you see it? Alarmist, it's like Resident Evil, it's so scary." ”

Yao Yi couldn't help but roll her eyes, yes, you shouldn't be reasoning with a girl studying liberal arts!

After thinking about it, Yao Yi changed his words and said: "The haze will definitely cause many chronic diseases, but the most terrible thing is that those fogs not only contain acids, alkalis, amines, and phenols that destroy the activity of the skin, but also mites, influenza viruses, tuberculosis bacilli, and pneumococcus, and they are likely to be coughed out of other people's mouths!"

"Ahhhhhhhhh

Hearing Yao Ling's voice and seeing the scream of a big cockroach flying in his face, Yao Yi smiled.

You can't be reasonable when dealing with girls.

In order to achieve the goal, we must first find the right entry point, say PM2.5 and chronic diseases, Yao Ling's left ear goes in and out of the right ear, and says that it destroys skin activity and invisible mite bacteria, so as to ensure that Yao Ling will not dare to go out without wearing a mask in the future.