"You should know that you eat and sleep!"

"Yes!" Qiao Meimei smiled.

"What's wrong with that? The water flows low, and the people go high! Whatever you want, of course, the better the better. Zhang Lixin disagreed.

"Of course, this idea is true, but in reality, is there perfection......?

"Heavenly Dao?"

"Hehe......" Rong Anran smiled and said: "It's right to pursue perfection in everything, the manager has a 'degree', and life is often 'fish and bear's paws can't have both', you have to learn to give, there is a give-and-take, if you combine the east and the west with the two interests, what will happen?"

"You're blaming my classmate for being greedy!" It seems that the classmate in Zhang Lixin's mouth has an unusual relationship with her, so she maintains it everywhere: "She is not an insatiable and insatiable person, as long as her husband treats her well, she will occasionally praise her......"

"But it's her who is at fault!"

"Or is ......it her fault?

Qiao Meimei saw that Zhang Lixin was anxious, and gently touched her hand.

"Yes, love needs to be managed, and your classmates should not be able to manage it. ”

"Aren't you saying that love is just fate?" she is good, and she has used the fate that Rong Anran just used on her parents here, but it is not wrong.

"Fate is a prerequisite for love, but with love, you also need to be able to manage. ”

"Love still needs to be managed, aren't you? Are you sure you're not sick?"

"By the way, is there any smoke?"

Rong Anran didn't learn to smoke, but he suddenly wanted to smoke a cigarette.

"Yes!" Qiao Meimei has no smoke, but when she is annoyed, she will occasionally smoke one, so there is a cigarette.

Rong Anran took the spot, took a deep breath, and ......

"Ahem, cough, cough, ......"

Qiao Meimei and Zhang Lixin glanced at each other in surprise: he can't smoke in his feelings......

"The management of love is actually very simple, it's just that you haven't thought about it well......" Rong Anran finally stopped coughing.

"Let's just say that love is independent, it is beyond life, but marriage and family are life, and it is strange if you get married before you understand love and life!"

"Continue to ......" Zhang Lixin became more and more confused the more she listened, she hoped that Rong Anran could tell her the truth.

"'No one is perfect, no one is perfect', that is, everyone has shortcomings!"

"If you want love to be eternal, you must first understand love!"

"Love is received while giving, love is joy, understanding, and tolerance!"

"When the other party loves you, they will also fall in love with your shortcomings, this is not nonsense, more precisely, the other party has tolerated your shortcomings!"

"The moment she falls in love with you, your strengths and weaknesses have been fixed in the other person's heart. ”

"People change over time, but they must be ...... together"

"If you want others to love you, you must learn to love yourself, and yourself, including your shortcomings!

"When you change all your shortcomings in front of the other party, you are no longer you, but what the other party loves is your ......"

"It's that simple?" Zhang Lixin was full of doubts!

"It's as simple as that--" Qiao Meimei realized......

"So, the responsibility lies with herself, she gave up self-love, lost herself, how can others love her?"

"You...... What an outlier......" Zhang Lixin was a little impressed.

"I'm different, my father is different!"

"Oh--oh?hahaha......"

"There must be a father, there must be a son, what's so ridiculous about this!" Rong Anran didn't understand, but he didn't think it was ridiculous.

"Okay, then tell me again, isn't the greatest manifestation of love romance?"

"It's not!"

"Isn't it feelings, my previous understanding was all wrong?"

The words came out of Zhang Lixin's mouth, but Qiao Meimei also had the same question in her heart.

"Love is serenity, romance is just the embellishment of love!"

"Talk about it, talk about ......"

"You should have been in love!" Rong Anran stared at Zhang Lixin: "When you happily rest your head on your lover's shoulder socket and enjoy the tranquility of satisfaction, this is love!"

"And romantic, suddenly make up for the regrets of life and the temporary correction of life's shortcomings!"

"For example, we just talked about a topic, for example, you really want to see a movie, but you didn't get a ticket for the last show, and someone else suddenly gives you away!"

"But why is it said that the correction of shortcomings is temporary?"

"Sometimes, I know that I am wrong, but because of habit, I am wrong again and again...... And, as I just said, if I say it again, it's no longer romantic!"

"Then can you explain the mountain alliance and sea oath? I think the mountain alliance and sea oath are romantic love words that I never get tired of hearing, but it makes people entangled, because 'I would rather believe that there are ghosts in the world than believe in the broken mouth of a man'. ”

"You girls didn't force this?"

"How do you put this responsibility on us girls as well?"

"Of course, boys are not stupid, in order to please you, of course they pick what you like to say, but you know that life is at most 100 years, but you believe in 'love you for 10,000 years', and you know that 'the sea is dry and rotten' and you don't know the year of the monkey, but you believe the boy's oath...... You know that everything is a lie, but you like to hear it, and you believe it, who can blame it?"

"No, you said that the mountain alliance and sea oath are so unreliable, why does the boy feel so sweet in his heart when he speaks?"

"Shanmenghai vows to say it once in a while at a specific time, in a specific environment, and in a specific mood period, of course, it is interesting, but it is just interesting, if you take this sentence seriously, it will be boring!"

"If you don't have an alliance, can you talk about oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea when you fall in love?"

"When we fall in love, when we really fall in love, what is not sweet in our hearts? Why do we have to believe those empty words? Of course, if it is said to be an afterlife, it is true, but who can guarantee that you will remember this life in the next life?"

"What? What do you say? Is the next life real?"

Not to mention the next life, long live is also true!

Rong Anran could think so, but he couldn't say that.

He immediately brought the topic back to just now: "You say, wouldn't it be more meaningful to talk about dreams, the future, and your vision?"

"That's a fantasy, it's a ......dream," Zhang Lixin glanced at Rong Anran dissatisfied.

"If you have a dream, you won't feel empty when you're alone!"

"What kind of theory are you? It's nonsense!"

"Hehe--" Rong Anran brought the wine glass to his mouth.

"Then how do you understand the words 'I love you'?"

"These three words?

"What--" Zhang Lixin almost didn't jump.

"The most fascinating thing about love is that it is mysterious!"

"But saying 'I love you' doesn't detract from its mystery. ”

"Don't you think it's particularly awkward to say the three words 'I love you' in Huaxia?"

"Awkward?" Zhang Lixin frowned.

And Qiao Meimei on the side is the corner of her eyebrows jumped slightly!

Because she is beautiful, because she is Bai Fumei, so, she heard too many of these three words, but until now when she thinks about it, she feels goosebumps on her body

Zhang Lixin is also beautiful, she has heard a lot, but every time she hears it, there is always a hint of joy, a little satisfaction and pride, although she does not show it on her face.

"The phrase 'I love you' should be a foreign language, I haven't studied it, and I don't know exactly, but the Chinese people didn't have the habit of using these three words before. ”

"How could it be!" Of course Zhang Lixin didn't believe it.

"You should have been abroad, and you can often hear this sentence......" Rong Anran only guessed at his own answer: "Do you feel that most of this sentence is said by parents to children, or children to parents?"

"Because, foreigners often say that if they talk too much, it becomes a habit, so slowly, they will say this to everyone! Have you ever felt that it is more natural for foreigners to say this to their parents, to their children, and to their friends than to their lovers? This is the essence of love!"

"Of course, it's more about cultural differences!"

"Chinese people pay attention to subtlety, girls pay attention to reserve, and even more so in terms of love!"

"There is also the fact that love is too mysterious, so mysterious that it cannot really be expressed in words, that is, it can only be understood, not spoken, so saying the words 'I love you' is not only awkward, but also meaningless!"

"Why do you say that?"

"Let's not say whether the other party is sincere when he expresses it to you, but even if it is sincere, there are two doubts: one is that love is difficult to explain, and when the other party expresses it to you, he may not even be able to tell whether he loves or likes, although he says this from the heart!"

"The second is: even if the other person really loves you, you should also think about whether you need this kind of love from him!"

"Makes sense!" Qiao Meimei said lightly.

"It doesn't make sense!" Zhang Lixin shook his head: "According to what you say, how can you find love?"

"It's because it's mysterious, it's hard to find, so for thousands of years, it's become an enduring topic, because I can't explain it, but I feel the wonderfulness, that's why so many people are fooled, hehehehe......"

"Then, what will you do if the other party shows love to you?"

"If she expressed it to me after she was drunk, I would believe it, but I don't know if I will take it!"

"Why?"

"It depends on whether it's the love I need!"

"Crooked, nonsense, do you mean you love her too?"

"What's the difference?" Rong Anran winked mischievously: "Actually, the three words 'I love you' are really very sensual, although this is related to Chinese culture, but it is not necessarily, love is a feeling that can only be understood, not spoken, love, you don't need to say it, it is to experience it with your heart!"

"Love, there is also a very aggrieved place, that is, the shortcomings you think are often advantages, and what you think is the advantages may be the shortcomings; love is a contradiction, if you don't change yourself, you will find that your heart is far away from each other, but if you change yourself, you will find that you have lost yourself, without yourself, the other party will no longer love you!"

"This is exactly what Zen theory says about 'no fate', no fate at the end of the world!"

"That'...... Don't...... If...... Couldn't there be a better way?"

"Yes, if there is love, but there is a feeling that the end of the world is close at hand, you can try to change yourself at the same time, change each other, because, both parties in love are very willing to change for each other, miss this opportunity, everything becomes the past!"

"Few people can do it...... Qiao Meimei thoughtfully: "The two parties who are in love, when they enjoy romance, have long forgotten the north, so can they think of changing ......"

Rong Anran smiled, he knew that Qiao Meimei understood.

Qiao Meimei suddenly discovered that although Rong Anran didn't look very good, his smile was really cute!

"It's a strange ......"

After saying goodbye to Rong Anran, Qiao Meimei and Zhang Lixin did not separate: "But if you think about it carefully, it makes sense!"

"I'll talk to him tomorrow!" Zhang Lixin smiled: "Just like he said, I feel that talking to him is also a kind of romance! Oh, by the way, will he be there tomorrow?"

"It should ...... Yes!" Qiao Meimei was a little confused.

"I'll go to him tomorrow, it's Sunday anyway, oh, by the way, I see your expression is wrong, don't fall into the pit, I'm sure, the other party is a love veteran!"

"Hehe--" Qiao Meimei's smile was a little mysterious, and for the first time, Zhang Lixin, her best friend, couldn't see through it!