"Drink something?"

Coming to the most upscale tea house in Changle City, Qiao Meimei, as the host, first asked Zhang Lixin for a cup of coffee, and then asked Rong Anran.

"A glass of brandy, brandy and soda!" Rong said Anran.

"I said young man, this is a tea house--" Hearing Rong Anran order wine, Zhang Lixin was speechless.

In fact, Rong Anran had never been to the bar tea house alone, but he remembered that the last time his father took him to deal with angels, he had tasted brandy and soda abroad, which tasted weird, but it was quite good.

He ordered brandy because he missed his dad.

"Not here?" Rong Anran couldn't figure out if there was anything here.

"You don't want to have some snacks, do you?" Zhang Lixin said sarcastically: "If you're hungry, just say it, we'll take you directly to a big meal, okay?"

"No, I'm just here for a tasting!"

"Pin...... Wine tasting?" After hearing the word "wine tasting" by Rong Anran, Zhang Lixin couldn't understand Rong Anran even more, and the word wine tasting is rarely used by Chinese people.

Also, when Huaxia drinks alcohol, who wants a glass? If you want a bottle, who will knock it piecemeal......

Obviously, Zhang Lixin has also gone abroad.

"Have a glass of brandy and soda, and bring me a pot of Junshan silver needles!" Qiao Meimei smiled and looked at the waiter.

"Miss, we don't have another brandy here!" the waiter looked at Rong Anran strangely and said to Qiao Meizhang.

"Then a bottle of Martell and a bottle of soda!"

You must know that a bottle of Martell is expensive, although Zhang Lixin's family has money, but she has never asked for a bottle; this bottle of wine is of course nothing to the Qiao family, but for Qiao Meimei, it is also a big deal, because she never asks for money from her family, and her extra money is given by her mother at will.

Qiao Meimei usually never spends money indiscriminately, so this bottle of wine is nothing to her, but the problem is that if it is often like this, then she will not be able to bear it, and Qiao Meimei faced Rong Anran, who she was not familiar with, but she did not hesitate to order a bottle, and what Zhang Lixin couldn't understand was her thoughts......

Yes, she doesn't understand, because Zhang Lixin can't describe Qiao Meimei's current expression, if she has to describe it, it's only an analogy.

Qiao Meimei's expression of ordering wine is as natural as a virtuous wife, who casually gives her husband who has lived for many years a glass of boiled water.

It seems that Qiao Meimei has fallen......

No, no matter what, the best friend of his own heavenly lady can't fall into this kid, but ......

After thinking about it carefully, Zhang Lixin knew how bitter Qiao Meimei's heart was, could it be that the peace of mind that she had finally found had to be broken?

Throwing a piece of sugar cube into his coffee cup, Zhang Lixin stirred it with a small spoon while watching Rong Anran take a sip lightly, and then played with the wine glass in his hand......

Zhang Lixin was angry when she saw Rong Anran's movements, because she definitely felt that Rong Anran had bad intentions towards Qiao Meizhang, she kept muttering in her heart, just thinking about what kind of topic to not hurt Qiao Meimei, but when she saw Rong Anran's indifferent appearance, she was smiling lazily and drinking Qiao Meimei's high-end brandy with peace of mind......

"Mr. Rong, you say, what do people live for?" Qiao Meimei hurriedly grabbed the conversation, she knew Zhang Lixin's thoughts, and she also knew her starting point.

Qiao Meimei's mature face was full of green confusion, which made Rong Anran's heart ache for no reason, and his expression was solemn: "You asked the wrong question--"

"I ...... Asked the wrong ......"

There are too many people thinking about this question, people at all levels and all walks of life are thinking about it, and they all have different answers, but Qiao Meimei hasn't figured it out yet, how can it be wrong?

The reason why she opened her mouth was because she didn't know why, she was very afraid that Zhang Lixin would hurt Rong Anran.

As for this topic, she didn't think she could find an answer, because she knew that in this society, most people didn't really figure out this problem, she just had nothing to say, to pass the boredom and loneliness in her heart.

This answer made Zhang Lixin interested, but she didn't believe that Rong Anran would have any ingenuity.

"Yes!" How could they have thought that this was the first problem of Rong Anran's Hongchen experience? Only by understanding this question first could they enter the experience of joy, anger, sorrow, love, hatred, and hatred.

Looking at my pitiful, touching and lonely face, Rong Anran had all kinds of tastes, he didn't know how to do it better, so he had to answer her questions with his heart.

"If you want to ask why people live, why do you come to this world, because you have come to this world alive, so you have to live, there is no why1"

"So--why did we come to this world?" Rong Anran's words made Qiao Meimei even more confused.

"Then I can only ask your parents......" As soon as the words came out, Rong Anran felt the problem in his words again, so he immediately said: "We came to this world just because of fate!"

"Fate?" the two girls asked in unison, and they were interested in Rong Anran's answer at the same time: Parents give life, that is grace, not just fate!

"Yes, it's just a kind of fate!" Rong Anran emphasized again, and continued: "Before my parents gave birth to 'me', they didn't know what kind of 'me' they would be born, whether it was male or female, beautiful or ugly, or even ...... Maybe they didn't need me at all, but it was just because one night, they did what they liked to do together, that they had 'me'. ”

Speaking of this, Rong Anran thought of his mother, and suddenly had a feeling of sympathy with Qiao Meimei.

He muttered and continued: "Maybe - parents want only one child who makes them look long......"

Qiao Meimei and Zhang Lixin glanced at each other: Although it is crooked, it is ...... It seems that this is really the case......

In the minds of most people who are oriented to money, money is a sign of success, money can replace everything, so they will let their children have endless money, but they never pay attention to the child's heart...... Therefore, children have to be obedient, because, in their minds when they have earned money, what they say is the truth!"

"Yes...... It's like this......" Qiao Meimei's eyes were already filled with tears, and Zhang Lixin also entered into thought......

"Therefore, what parents need is not 'me', they just want a child, and this child is not necessarily 'me'; that's why I say: we came to this world only because of fate, and our parents have no kindness to us, because they have a motive and a purpose. ”

"According to what you mean, parents have no nurturing grace for their children? No wonder you are running here for ......" Zhang Lixin's words were thorny!

"No!" Rong Anran was not angry: "The grace of parents lies in upbringing, not in childbirth!"

"That Mother's October Pregnancy ......"

"As I said, they have a purpose and a request, which is tantamount to a transaction, not a favor!"

"But the kindness of the parents you said lies in their upbringing, they work hard to make money, let their children go to better schools, wear better clothes, and eat better food.

"What you're talking about is that the TV often accuses children of not 'going home to see often' because of unfilial piety, right?" Rong Anran smiled: "If in the era of hunger and cold, such a father is not wrong, but what age is it in China now? How many years have you been well-off? You're about to get well-off, right? It's worth your parents to work hard in other places every day? Isn't this money first?"

Rong Anran raised his index finger, stopped Zhang Lixin, and continued: "You should know the phrase 'Lao Tzu is a hero, Lao Tzu is a bastard', right? Why? Because what children need is the words and deeds of their parents, and in this well-off society, what children need is that their parents can be by their side......

"Money is important, but for children, it is more important for their parents to be around, so that they can always feel the love of their parents. ”

"Of course, parents are not around, as children, when they are older, they will be able to understand the painstaking efforts of their parents, but have you ever wondered? Children are used to their parents not around, and they also think that everything their parents do is right, so they slowly learn the way their parents think: everything is for money!"

"Parents sent home 100,000 or 200,000 yuan to their children, but now that the children have grown up and left their hometown, he sends back millions of dollars, tens of millions of money that parents can't spend, isn't this love, isn't it filial piety? Why do they have to go home to be considered filial piety? You must be clear that all these things for children are learned from their parents.

"You mean......" Qiao Meimei said weakly.

They make money to arrange the best school for their children, but they forget that the school is mainly about imparting scientific knowledge, and the children learn how to behave, and the parents are the bishops.

Rong Anran repeatedly emphasized that the education of parents is not just about language!

Zhang Lixin always felt that Rong Anran's theory was wrong, but she was speechless.

Yes, parents used to send money to their children, but now that the children are older, they also send money to their parents, isn't this kind of love and filial piety taught by parents? What reason do parents have to blame their children for not being filial?

Parents are old, sick, lying in the hospital, parents want their children to be by their side, how can they not be children?

Parents are lonely and want their children to be by their side to talk, and when children are young, don't they also want their parents to be around and often boast?

What does this Rong Anran think? His reasoning seems to be a crooked reasoning, but in fact, he understands it more deeply and farther......

"Then ......" Zhang Lixin wanted to ask about the problems she encountered in love, but after thinking about it, she was embarrassed to ask, but she remembered that a classmate who had just divorced cried to her a few days ago, and wanted to hear what kind of crooked reasoning Rong Anran still had.

"I have a classmate who got married for less than three years and then left ......"

"Do you believe she got married out of love and not because of anything else?"

"I'm sure my classmate likes dreams and doesn't pursue material things! And I'm sure his husband loved her deeply before they got married. ”

"Is her husband having an affair?"

"Nope!"

"So, how does she maintain the love in her heart?"

"Maintenance? You mean how she treats her husband, right? She is a shoulder to shoulder at home and outside the home, she is meticulous to her husband, everything for her husband is her purpose, she just wants to have a perfect home, but ......"

"Wrong--" Rong Anran smiled.

"Wrong again, what's wrong?" Qiao Meimei also pricked up her ears.

"It was so wrong that she didn't even know what love was, so to speak. ”

"How?"

"First of all, her 'everything is for her husband' is wrong, it should be everything for herself! Because, when she is good to her husband, she is the happiest when she does anything for her husband, and people live to be happy, isn't it? Therefore, everything she does for her husband is ostensibly for the other party, but in fact, it is for herself. ”

"You're saying she did something wrong?"

"No, she was wrong, if she realized that everything was for herself, she wouldn't have any resentment towards her husband......"

"And also: she's too demanding!"

"Too demanding?"

"Yes, there is no perfection in life at all, 'fifty in the great yan, nineteen in its use'; in her pursuit of perfection, she will inevitably demand perfection from her husband, even if she doesn't say it, she will think so in her heart!"

"In fact, people with flaws will love forever!"

"It's a complete fallacy, true love is the most perfect! There is humor, there is romance, and there is respect between husband and wife!"

Hahahaha, have you ever heard of 'respecting each other for decades'? Anyway, I've only heard of 'decades of ups and downs'!"

"What do you mean?"

"Hey, woman......" Rong Anran took another sip of wine: "I have to admit that you girls are too emotional, and a little greedy-insatiable!"

"Greedy?"

"Yes, greed, eat and stay!"

"Eat and stay?"