The existence of every cultural phenomenon must have its own unique charm.

I don't know when the banquet has become an indispensable and important role in daily social interaction.

Whether it is in the business field, or a gathering of friends, or even an important occasion such as a mother-in-law meeting her son-in-law, if the wine glasses are not knocked together, things often do not go so smoothly.

As the saying goes, feelings are deep and boring, and feelings are shallow to lick.

As long as you drink high, the ones who can't beat the eight poles are also brothers, and the sisters who don't know each other are also good girlfriends, not to mention the relatives and colleagues who have a good relationship.

The wine is steaming, gradually getting better, and the conversation is in full swing.

Ke Xiao has basically asked for advice, and according to Brother Hui, it can be summed up in nothing more than three points - politeness, general knowledge, and proportion.

It sounds simple, but it's not the same thing to do.

First of all, take politeness as an example, focus on clothing and gifts. When you meet for the first time, it is very important to make a good impression on your future father-in-law and mother-in-law, and you must not look sloppy or pompous in terms of clothing.

So what should I do? Brother Hui gave the answer.

He suggested that Ke Xiao could blow the pillow breeze on Hui Min, knock on the side, and see what kind of work his parents did before, and what type of clothes they usually buy for the children at home, and then prescribe the right medicine to dress up and show the appearance of a good child in the eyes of his parents.

Regarding gifts, since the wind has been blowing on the pillow, it is better to take the opportunity to inquire about their preferences, and strive to send them to the heart, and do not blindly send them.

However, this is a bit difficult, although with Huimin's family conditions, parents should not care too much about the amount of bride price. But in addition to the daily tobacco, alcohol and tea, like what can change the pattern of RV coin and jade paintings, Ke Xiao does not have them, and the few remaining Grandpa Mao are still small in face value, so don't be self-conscious, honestly take the civilian route, and strive not to look shabby.

Secondly, to understand the general situation, or should be called to take care of the overall situation.

The ancients said that if you can't bear it, you will make a big plan.

When the mother-in-law sees her son-in-law, she picks a bone in the cracks of the egg; when the father-in-law sees her son-in-law, it is even more that the enemy is very red when she sees him, and he is naturally opposed.

Hell it would be easy to get through!

If there is only Gao Tang on top, it is just a matter of serving respectfully, in case there are seven aunts and eight aunts, three uncles and six aunts and the like, to join in the fun, it is inevitable that sometimes they will be dwarfed, careless, and overturned in the gutter!

After five passes and six generals, three sessions will be tried. All kinds of complicated and intricate interrogations not only tore off their material coats, but more importantly, their spiritual leather armor was not spared, and the sharp and even piercing voices constantly stirred their fragile nerves, and the slightest impatience would make a big mistake and cause irreparable losses.

Listening to Brother Hui's exaggerated tone, Sister Chun couldn't help but give him a big roll of his eyes and let him restrain himself. He stared at Ke Xiao, who was sweating on his forehead, for a few seconds, but he didn't stop Brother Hui's intimidation of him.

From the perspective of those who have come over, she is actually not optimistic about Ke Xiao's adventure.

When we are young, we are always fearless, everything is taken for granted, but the reality is always very different from what we imagined, and sometimes it is not an exaggeration to call it purgatory.

The whispering of Sister Chun and Hui Min made her fully aware of the fluttering young couple.

As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success.

The feelings that have not experienced setbacks are obviously more mirages. We admit that there is a butterfly love between Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, and we also envy the beautiful talk of the Titanic, but such a tragedy is never worthy of envy.

The joy of fish and water that is too young may not be the final answer in life.

The asymmetry of real family conditions will be the biggest test they face. The love that meets at first glance seems to be beautiful, but whether you can get along for a long time is the real key.

Who made them all too young!

Although the emotional foundation of the two people is strong enough, the relationship between the weak man and the strong woman will inevitably be cruel. It's not that the opposition of parents can be conclusive, but the worldly stereotypes are too terrifying. Even if Ke Xiao and Hui Min are equally willing to sacrifice for each other, how strong can the happiness of this castle in the sky be?

Sister Chun, who was extremely frightened, her compassionate eyes fell on Ke Xiao for a few seconds again, and she continued to pull with Hui Min quietly, and in her heart, Ke Xiao had actually been sentenced to death.

Ke Xiao had no way of knowing what she thought, but Brother Hui's spitting lecture had already made his scalp tingle.

"Boy, this is frightened? There are still many doorways here! Especially when it comes to proportion, you have to figure it out first!"

Brother Hui, who hasn't had fun showing his self-worth for a long time, is here tonight, and Na Ke Xiao is really not an outsider. Not to mention what he knows, he also added a lot of extra oil and vinegar, and hearsay was also adulterated, and he stewed in a live pot, striving not to let him spend money in vain.

That's really a dare to say, a dare to listen and a dare to believe.

Of course, it is undeniable that to remove the moisture in the words, what Brother Hui said is quite reasonable, at least it is much stronger than Ke Xiao, a little white.

"Hey, don't get on the fire yet, I'm not done yet! I'll teach you how to be brilliant later." Come, let's go first!" Brother Hui looked at his little brother who was restless alone, and his intimate big brother came up, patted Ke Xiao's shoulder, and the small wine glass in his hand slammed on the wine glass in front of his table.

"Brother Hui, what should I do?" Ke Xiao was like an ant on a hot pot, hearing the words as if he had grasped the last straw in his life, he quickly picked up the small wine glass and drank it all, and asked for advice urgently.

The wine and meat have passed through the intestines, and the output is fast and accurate!

After the next ten minutes, Brother Hui continued the topic just now, and in Ke Xiao's trusting and inquisitive eyes, he vividly and three-dimensionally depicted the rich experience he had accumulated back then.

As far as the method of breaking the camouflage in general, the central idea taught by it is one central two basic points - that is, to firmly establish a self-image, show self-worth, improve self-literacy, deepen their impression with patience, perseverance and sincerity, and strive to achieve that they do not object, that is victory.

In the face of tricky problems, we have basically turned big things into small things and small things into small things. In the face of unruly relatives, it is basically calm, there is no need to be overly cowardly or flattering, but it is necessary to maintain the necessary respect.

Finally, when it comes to proportion, Brother Hui actually can't tell why, after all, this is similar to the college entrance examination, it's useless to study badly, sometimes the plan can't catch up with the changes, it's very important to play on the spot, and it all depends on life to do well or badly, otherwise there is that sentence that people are not as good as the sky!

It is true that Brother Hui did not release the cannon, and at the end of the details in the common and necessary situations, he still took out the housekeeping skills and taught the little brother to learn from the guests, such as the rules of the wine table, the mystery of the mahjong table, the witty words of conversation, the etiquette of salutation, etc., Ke Xiao urgently needs to master the skills.

Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years.

Between the collision of wine glasses, Ke Xiao benefited a lot, and nodded from time to time. seems to understand, but in fact, it is mostly half-understood, commonly known as a bottle of dissatisfaction, half a bottle of smack. What's more, this is at most the first step of a long march of thousands of miles, and he is still far from being ready!

The communication between the two big men didn't know how to lower their voices, so that the three little women next to them also heard a lot. In addition to Sister Chun, who can't bear to look directly at Brother Hui, who is boastful, Zhang Liang and Hui Min's worldview has been greatly impacted.

Especially Zhang Liang, thinking back to the scene where her boyfriend came to the door, except for clothes and gifts, drinking, eating and playing cards, which made her boyfriend worry a little, the others had nothing to do with what Brother Hui said, and it was decided on the same day, could it be that she remembered wrong?

Small eyes, big doubts. Zhang Liang wanted to interject, but seeing that Sister Chun didn't make a sound, she thought about it or forget it.

"Look, look, these people are so conscienceless, they don't call us when they eat, it's too picky!"

In fact, the dinner is basically about the same at this time, who knows that a few Cheng Biting Gold will be killed halfway.

It may be that the photos of the party in the circle of friends attracted a few wolves, Zhang Yong's dead fat man, and Shan Dan, Li Xiang and Lu Handsome actually appeared together.

"Go to the edge, which time is there less of you for dinner! This time it's Ke Xiao's treat, can't you just eat when you come, do you have the goods?"

Since there is a person halfway, then you must not leave like this, because she is not a treat, so Sister Chun did not directly say let them join. However, he still nodded Ke Xiao.

"I'm sorry, I'm looking for Brother Hui to discuss something with Sister Chun today, so I couldn't call a few, please bear with me!" Ke Xiao still had this awareness, and immediately got up to apologize, and then hurriedly put out the fire, "Waiter, please bring the menu and tableware! Hey, don't stand, sit down, order what you eat, I'll treat you!"

"Then we're welcome!" "If the meal is successful, what else is there to be to be treated, Shan Dan pulled Li Xiang and sat down on Zhang Liang's side, and Zhang Yong and Lu Shu sat on Brother Hui's side naturally.

The crowd naturally became lively, and the chattering hot pot banquet was noisy again, but Ke Xiao's wallet should cry!

"Sister Chun, what did you say just now? There are goods, what do you mean?" The dead fat man Zhang Yong can eat very much, and the fat cow is often full of pots, and he can't be idle while eating, and he yells at Sister Chun.

Ke Xiao is going to her house to meet her parents, what experience do you have to share? ”

The situation of the people in the group is basically clear, although this guy is usually unreliable, but when it comes to pleasing his mother-in-law, he still has a set, Ke Xiao should learn to learn, maybe it will help.

"What's the matter, this is to see the parents, Ya is very fast!" Before Sister Chun's words fell, Zhang Yong, the dead fat man, gave Ke Xiao a thumbs up with a teachable attitude, and before Ke Xiao could respond, this guy's slut nature was exposed, and he said endlessly: "I said, Ya won't get pregnant, right?"

"Die, you're pregnant!" Although he knew that the dead fat man was out of tune, Hui Min didn't expect that he didn't even have a door on his mouth. In a fit of rage, he grabbed his chopsticks and threw them over.

"Then why are you in such a hurry? Isn't it good to enjoy the world of two people more?" Zhang Yongfu asked.

If it is not in the early stage of preparing for marriage, under normal circumstances, the woman will be allowed to come to the door after meeting the man's parents, and after comprehensive consideration, how did he get here, but it was reversed.

"Oops, my mother knows, I'm worried that he's not a serious person, so I just want to meet him first, it's not that complicated!"

Seeing that everyone was looking at him with cryptic eyes, Hui Min explained helplessly, as for whether they believe it or not, whatever it is!

"What you said is light, Ke Xiao dares to be a little sloppy, but you can't be prepared!"

Ke Xiao didn't ask Zhang Yong to sit down in vain, he was quite powerful at a critical time, at least this sentence was to the point.

Of course, Hui Min also knew that this was the case, so she couldn't bear to argue with him, so she asked the waiter to change her chopsticks and turn around and return to the woman's camp.

And the man's camp is not lonely, and the conversation between the clinking glasses is becoming more and more enthusiastic, and everyone expresses their opinions to add fuel to the fire.