Xu Xincheng realized that his confidence was a little shaken, and his determination was reduced a lot. No, it can't be like this!

He secretly took two deep breaths in a row, stabilized his mind, adjusted his mentality, and immediately thought that the highest goal was what Lucy wanted him to achieve, so ...... But......

At this time, Xu Xincheng's mind was a little messy, and several questions appeared in his mind at the same time, he decided to ask first, first to understand the situation more deeply, and then to figure out some of these questions, perhaps, his confidence and determination can be firmer and stronger.

Xu Xincheng pretended to smile lightly and asked, "Mr. Wen, I want to know more deeply, can I ask you some questions?"

"Excuse me. ”

"My first question is, you just said that there are very few people who can score more than 85 points, and even fewer people who can reach 90 points. Why is that?"

Mr. Wen said softly, "Steve, this matter may be a little complicated to explain. Please listen patiently. ”

"Okay. ”

"In order to make it easier for you to understand, I will first make an analogy, in fact, a person's improvement in personal image, or diligence, is similar to a person's improvement in art, the higher the realm, the greater the difficulty in the future.

Let's take sculpture as an example. It is also a figure sculpture, exactly the same 1:1 figure sculpture, 80 points of work, 85 points of work, 90 points of work, 95 points of work, its value is very different. You agree with that, don't you?"

"Yes. ”

"If an 80-point sculpture is worth 1,000, then an 85-point sculpture is worth 10,000, a 90-point sculpture is worth 100,000, and a 95-point sculpture is worth at least 1,000,000. ”

Xu Xincheng nodded abruptly in agreement.

"In China, there are still a lot of people who like sculpture, we take 1,000 people as an example, after years of hard work, in the end, among these 1,000 people, there are still a lot of people who can carve 80 points of works, we assume that the number of people is 500 people, however, can carve 85 points of works, there are very few, 50 people are good.

Those who can carve 90 points of work can become a well-known sculptor, such people are very rare, and it is very good to be able to emerge 5 people from 1000 people.

In the end, those who can carve 95 points of work can become masters, such masters, I'm afraid, there can only be one person out of 1,000 people at most. ”

Xu Xincheng suddenly said: "Mr. Wen, your analogy is really very good. I understood it all at once. Indeed, the further you go, the more difficult it will be, and the fewer people will be. In fact, this is the case in most industries. ”

Xu Xincheng finally understood and understood that Mr. Wen had been engaged in this profession for 15 years, but he had a score of 93. In terms of personal image, if you can reach 95 points, it is a master level, and I am afraid that only the world's top experts in this field can reach that level.

Mr. Wen said, "Yes. Let me make a relatively simple quantification and comparison of the difficulty, which is not accurate, but it can still clarify the reason.

First, 80 points is the first watershed, from 80 to 85 points, and the difficulty of improving these 5 points is basically the same as the total difficulty from 60 to 80 points;

Second, 85 points is the second watershed, a bigger watershed, from here, every point of improvement is difficult, and the difficulty of each point is equivalent to the total difficulty from 60 points to 85 points;

Thirdly, 90 points is the third watershed, and from here on, each point of improvement is harder, and each point of difficulty corresponds to the total difficulty from 60 to 90 points. ”

Xu Xincheng had a sense of sudden enlightenment, and hurriedly said: "I understand! Mr. Wen, this quantification and comparison of yours is really wonderful, and it can be used to clarify many things."

In fact, my father is a carpenter, woodcarving is his biggest hobby, he has been working as a carpenter since he was 13 years old, he has studied very hard and hard, by the age of 20, he can carve about 80 points. However, it is not until you are about 30 years old that you can carve a work with about 85 points. Now, he is almost 50 years old, and he still can't carve a work with a score of about 90. ”

"Very good, your father's case is a very good case. Mr. Wen said happily.

Xu Xincheng first felt a burst of joy in his heart, joy after enlightenment, but then, he felt a burst of anxiety, and for the worry of time, he hurriedly asked: "By the way, Mr. Wen, is there a timetable for the goal of the three stages?"

"Yes. 80 points in half a year, 85 points in two years, and 90 points in six years. ”

"This ......" This time is too tight and too tight, if there is enough time, if there are two years and five years respectively, Xu Xincheng is still confident that he will reach 80 points and 85 points, but now......

Mr. Wen looked at him with encouraging eyes and said, "Steve, I know, this time is a little tight. However, according to my judgment, your foundation is very good, to reach 80 points, to complete the first stage of the goal, although there is a certain degree of difficulty, but I believe that as long as you work hard and care enough, you can achieve it in half a year. ”

"Mr. Wen, thank you for your affirmation and encouragement!"

"The goal of the second stage, I am also very confident in you. As for the third phase goal, it is difficult for me to judge now.

For a person, in terms of personal image, 80 points is a small metamorphosis, 85 points is a large metamorphosis, and 90 points are a super-large metamorphosis.

Increasing from 60 to 80 points can be achieved by improving etiquette and manners.

However, to improve from 80 to 85 points, it is not only dependent on external etiquette and manners, but more importantly, internal change and internal improvement. It is necessary to promote the external transformation of the inner transformation and the transformation of the personal image.

Especially after reaching 85 points, a person wants to improve from 85 points to 90 points, and achieve a breakthrough of 90 points, in addition to the external personal image to reach the extreme, its internal personality, morality, mind, bearing, pattern and other aspects must reach a very high realm, only in this way, it is possible to reach 90 points.

Absolutely most people, including Feng Yunjie and Lin Yaohui, will be stuck at around 85 points, just because their inner level is not enough, or their inner transformation is not enough. ”

Xu Xincheng nodded and said, "I understand!"

Mr. Wen's words, he has firmly taken to heart, and the inner transformation promotes the external transformation, and promotes the transformation of personal image.

Isn't this exactly what he is pursuing? Even if he doesn't have this personal image improvement plan, he will ask himself to constantly improve himself and constantly transform.

Before, he just wanted to constantly transform, but he didn't have a clear goal, but now, with such a clear goal, wouldn't it be a great thing?

What's more, before, he didn't know exactly how to do it, how to achieve improvement and transformation, but now, with such a professional consultant as Mr. Wen to guide and train himself, wouldn't it be twice the result with half the effort?

As for the highest goal, the goal of the third stage, the goal of 90 points, leave it alone for the time being, and try to achieve the goals of the first and second stages first.

As soon as he figured these things out, Xu Xincheng suddenly felt a sense of comfort and understanding, and his confidence and determination were completely stimulated at once.

He looked at him firmly and said, "Mr. Wen, I will definitely go all out and achieve my goal!"

Mr. Wen nodded appreciatively.

Xu Xincheng smiled confidently and said loudly, "Let's continue." ”

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