Life is a wave that beats forward in the midst of sorrow. My son's bed is cleaned every day, no matter how good or bad it is, his homework is improving every day, whether he is right or wrong, and his test results are still good or bad, and his learning status is maintained at a low level.

Recently, since forcibly restricting my son's drinking, there have been more days of getting angry with him, and what is worse is that every time I wrestle with my son, I will watch him take advantage of his grandparents and celebrate his victory with a drink.

I don't think this situation can be changed for a while, so I have to find another way.

After school at noon that day, a fat girl who was short and not amazing made my eyes light up and I had a plan in my heart, which was really funny.

At lunchtime, I said, "Wang Xile, I ate rice today, and my father bought something and put it in the drawer of the TV cabinet." ”

"Drinks! Drink! The son went over and opened the drawer and shouted, "Mommy, Daddy bought me a drink." ”

"Neurotic, I can't manage it strictly for a while, quarrel again, and quarrel again, I want to give my son a drink, and I will buy it for him again, do you have a spectrum in your heart?!"

"Yes, yes, yes. I said.

My son and I ate and drank at the same time. Only complaining about others and never obeying instructions is a characteristic of children's growth. As long as we grasp this psychological characteristic and take appropriate measures, the child's progress is something to be expected. I said, "Is the drink good?"

"Delicious. ”

"You can't drink it for nothing, you have to do Daddy a favor. ”

"What's the hurry?"

"Dad wants to write an article, I want to know the children who run a small shop, whether they are fat or thin, can you please help me investigate?"

"Good. ”

"I'll give you two days. ”

The son's eyes were stunned, as if something was worrying at him. After eating, he absentmindedly helped his mother with the work. When everything was packed up, he said:

"Dad, I investigated clearly, there are many fat people, and they are very fat. ”

My son's words hit me right, and I said, "How did you get the result without even going out?"

"What do I do when I'm running outside all day, and you may not know about other children, but you must know about two children. ”

"Which two?"

"Do you remember the last time I said the fattest kid in our school?"

"Yes. ”

His surname is Guo, his family lives on the railway, and his family runs a small shop. The son said, "There's another one you know for sure." ”

"Who. ”

"Even the children of Aunt Sun's family in your school are also very fat, and her family also runs a small shop. ”

"Joy, you didn't play in vain, you observed society quite carefully, and your conclusions were correct. Are you talking about fat people?" I said.

"Not good. ”

"Why?"

"Fat people are easily deceived by their classmates. ”

"Why?"

"You punch him, and as soon as you run, he's dumbfounded. ”

"Why?"

"Fat people can't run. ”

"Joy, is fat a good thing or a bad thing for a child?"

"Bad things, definitely bad things. No one wants it when the fat man plays. ”

"What's the biggest harm to a child?"

"Don't know?"

"Want to know?"

"Yes. ”

"Fat is the enemy of children's intellectual development, and fat children are generally not very smart. ”

"Why?"

"Because 70 percent of the oxygen you breathe into your body is consumed by the brain. When the child is fat, a large amount of oxygen will be occupied by the body, and the oxygen supply to the brain is not sufficient, which will affect the development of brain function in the long run. ”

"I see. ”

"Joy, now many small food names are weird, these new foods are frequently riveted on TV as advertisements, tirelessly inciting children's appetites, some foods have become children chasing each other, children who have never eaten or drunk will be laughed at by their classmates. ”

"Dad, did you know yesterday?"

"Dad has been a child," I said, "and the key is what these foods will bring to the children, and why are there so many fat children in the small shops?"

"I don't know. ”

"Joy, that's the composition of drinks, some things are chemicals, and long-term consumption will change the absorption function of the stomach and intestines," I said, pointing to the packaging on the bottle, "These chemicals that make children lose weight make them lose weight." Joy, do you want to be a big fat man in the future?"

"I don't want to. ”

"Then you have to drink less and eat less bagged food. ”

"Dad, there's chemicals in all snacks," the son said, churning through the snacks.

This time I talked to him about drinks, and because of the focus on things, he felt that his father was helping him. Although his deliciousness of snacks and coolness of drinks will not change anytime soon, at least the child is no longer emotionally upright with his parents about such things.