By mid-July, my son was completing his study tasks faster and faster, and my wife was scolding me all day long and asking him to add more study tasks. Although I am disappointed that my son can go out to play with friends and play with the computer at home, he should have the right to enjoy the happiness after completing the plan. In the face of my wife's blame, I kept grinning and smiling. In this process, instead of adding more learning tasks to my child, I taught him to play backgammon, checkers and chess, so as to ease his enthusiasm for games.

That day, I took a checker to play a game with him, and when I opened it, I saw that there were many fewer checkers inside. I was puzzled and asked, "Wang Xile, where did the marbles go inside?"

"Let me bounce and lose. The son said, "One day I'll have to win it back!"

As soon as I heard this, I stepped forward and kissed him on the forehead, and said, "Ambition!" and I found a new game.

In the game of chess, I thought: Wang Xile is nine years old, and when he reaches the sensitive period of comprehensive physical development, he must be given a formal physical training to make his body more sensitive. How does this training work?

The child's intake has "teeth", and if he respects the rules, he will grow up harmoniously, and he will be punished for violating the rules in the future.

At the age of nine, the most favorable time is to develop body coordination, and at the age of twelve, the development of cranial nerves for coordination function will stop. The development of various body functions, once that age is passed, will never return. To this end, I developed a twelve-day professional training for him. Focus on the development of the following:

1. Responsiveness, 2. Ability to move at high frequency, 3. Ability to discriminate space, 4. Balance, 5. General flexibility, 6. Coordination and sense of time, 7. Control of co-arrangement, 8. Ability to discriminate against time, 9. Rhythm, 10. Sensory ability.

Inertness is man's original sin. This is especially true for children. In order to repel the child's inertia and exercise the child's physical and intellectual education, I use six volleyballs to change the method of running in a straight line, curve, changing direction, jumping obstacles, throwing, slapping the ball, kicking the ball, body contact ball and other competitive games. There are three opponents in the competition: one is the father, the second is the stopwatch, and the third is the father's ability to create joy.

For the first six days, every morning from 8 to 9 a.m., the children's smiling faces followed my activities. I'm also proud of how much I've become. On the seventh day, "Rejoice, run a 20-meter serpentine run," I said.

The son frowned. "It's not easy for a child, a person to stick to a training task," I muttered, "and it's normal to feel anxious about training." ”

Wang Xile sat on the corner of the room to rest after running and changed direction, and at this time, three children took the opportunity to go to the volleyball place and ran and played like Wang Xile.

"Come back," yelled, and the mother of a child stepped out of the north corner. The sound seemed to shake the ground through a crack.

The laughter of the three children died down. Later, a parent came from the corner of another room, "What's the use of going home and playing with these things? At this time, the faces of the three children were glowing white in the sunlight, and the youngest boy was still trembling. I held my breath and waited, waiting for them to disappear from my sight.

"Dad, why are the adults in the back rows of these families so opposed to children playing, and why are they so cruel to dolls?" the son asked, getting up from the shade.

From the first day of the children's training, I don't know how many children cast envious eyes, and some of the bold ones rushed over directly to play with Wang Xile, but unfortunately they are children after all......

"Dad, after I got good grades in the second grade, the parents of a few good friends in the class also let them play. ”

"Joy, there are many things here that cannot be explained, and we will continue with our things. "I said,

"What's next?"

"Racket training. ”

I threw the volleyball at the child, his face tensed, and he was able to dominate his limbs as flexibly as possible. From time to time there were shouts of "clap, I clap again".

When it's time for training and we're packing up together, I say, "Joy, let me ask a question?"

"What's the problem. ”

"I see you're getting a little impatient with training, can't you hold on?"

The son looked surprised, and he squatted on the ground smartly and put the volleyball together. The son used this move to hide his surprise. I cleared my throat and said:

"Any innate talent, if you don't stick to the spirit as the foundation, everything will come to nothing. Since we have agreed to the 12-day agility training and think that it is very good for your physical development, we have no reason to back down, and if we back down this time, you will be more withdrawn in the future. ”

"Dad, I'm a little annoyed! I didn't say how do you know?"

"Joy, that's the value of learning. Useful learning perceives the unknown. The purpose of learning is to discover and innovate, and to find ways to solve practical problems, which is the responsibility that learning must fulfill. Adults and children alike. ”

"Why are adults and children the same?"

"Adults learn to discover and innovate in their work, children learn to discover and innovate in play, if there is no new discovery in learning, you will stagnate and decay. However, the practice of learning for the sake of learning is also wrong, and the kind of dead reading is a kind of useless consumption, and it is difficult to generate strength in the human heart. However, children's learning ability must be developed through play. ”

"Dad, playing really makes people improve. ”

"Yes. Play is the most useful social learning for children. ”

"What is the most useful social learning?"

"Social learning is the most useful social learning is to constantly learn common sense from the people and things around you, and to bring you pleasure from that kind of activity, such as the experience that you can have fun with others. ”

"If you say that, the scope of learning is endless. ”

"There is no limit to learning. As long as you can see with your eyes, everything is worth learning. I said, "If every child can learn enough socially, the scenes of the Japanese massacring the Chinese in the 'unexpected brutality' will no longer happen to the Chinese." ”

"Dad, I can persevere in training to the end," said the son, "I won't tell you, now it's time to study, and I'll find someone to play with after studying." ”

The days of training are over, and my son's life is back to its old rhythm. SARS has stopped all kinds of study classes, now it's good, my son can find someone to play, lazy and don't sleep, get up on time at eight o'clock every day, face the sunlight that comes in in the flying state, happily complete the day's learning tasks, and run out all day. He never seems to have enough fun, and treats other people's homes as his own.