The appeal of games to children is beyond imagination. Everything he does is designed to be able to play, and he always wants to have more time to play. In the past two days, my son swept the study task as fast as possible. Then with a look of nervousness and excitement, I asked for an autograph. That day, I said with an exclamation tone: "Wang Xile, your level of homework is high, and it is not even eight o'clock now." ”

"You have to hurry up with your homework now, otherwise you won't have time to play games. ”

It's been two weeks in the blink of an eye, and my son does this every day, and every time it's time to go to bed, he always finds a way to bargain with adults and play a little more. During this time, everything became bright for the son, he did not go to the building to play, nor did he go to the pine forest of the office compound, and the divine glory of the game covered him.

Coming home from school on Friday afternoon, my son demanded even more. He said, "Dad, I want to play a little more games today and Friday, and write a diary tomorrow." ”

The home, which was laughing just now, suddenly fell silent. The sunset reflected on the windows of the people in front of me, like a flame jumping. The wife put down the kitchen knife and walked out of the kitchen with her hands wrenching spasmodically, "It's fun enough to not do homework on Friday, and now I don't even want to write a diary, I haven't heard of any child who plays more tightly than homework!" Wang Jianhua, you have to support your son, you go to cook. I have no intention of serving you. "The wife went out.

"Joy, Mom loves you, but Mom and I have different views on education, and both hope that you will become a responsible child in the future. A person's sense of responsibility begins with excellent play. As long as you can complete your study tasks as planned, your dad will support you. You play, I'll cook. ”

After a while, his wife came in from outside and asked suspiciously, "Where is Wang Xile?"

I frowned, avoided my wife's gaze, and said, "Go play the game." ”

"I'm guessing you're going to be like this, am I having a problem with my brain, or is there something wrong with you?" I don't understand," said the wife, "It's clear that my child's addiction to playing games is getting bigger and bigger, am I stupid, am I not even able to tell the difference between good and bad?"

My wife is angry, what else can I do!

"Have you forgotten the last time we gave our children the right to freedom?" I whispered.

"Then how can you forget. You and your son let Mr. Liu criticize him fiercely, and he said with a face. The wife said.

"And then?"

"Honestly do your homework on time. ”

"Who forced him?"

"No one forced it. ”

"That's right. I said, "How can you see a rainbow without going through wind and rain." The plan is made by the child. Adults want their children to learn more, and children want to play more. He had to find a way to find a balance. Learning to use one's brain to overcome difficulties will develop the belief that children do not believe in failure. If he has ten years of this experience, he will gain the ability to deal with problems for the rest of his life. This ability is intangible, it does not arise in books and in the classroom. Play is a fetish given by life to the child, and it is his power. In fact, my son already has the germ of using his brain, but it is not manifested in his academic scores. Think about it, a child who loves to use his brain and has perseverance, is his future worrying?"

"Don't talk about it, you don't cook anymore, what words become a set of things as soon as they come to your mouth. Tell you: children playing games are what Qianfu refers to. Come out and see how clumsy you are," said the wife, who came into the kitchen, "and peel some garlic." ”

As I worked, I cleared my throat and said, "I always think that scores don't mean anything to twelve or thirteen-year-olds, and that's a kind of insight that nature has given me." The tree can only be called alive after three years because the capillary roots on the roots are formed. Only in the repeated reincarnation of spring, summer, autumn and winter can the child let his heart grow capillary roots. 'The wood of the hug is born in the end of the millennium, the nine-story platform starts from the soil, and the journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step. If you look at the situation of many of the high school students I have met in the past few decades, it is clear that Chinese education has gone too far in commenting on those famous sentences, and there seems to be a deviation in the direction. ”

"Originally, I was talking about the problem of my son playing games, but how did I talk about it, but it became an educational theory seminar," said his wife, "and call my son to dinner." ”

My son was forcibly pulled off the computer by me, and he didn't have the heart to eat, so he took a few bites and went to play games. After eating, I went to the back room and said, "Joy, what game are you playing?"

"Red Alert. ”

After watching it for a while, I said, "Play until 10 o'clock and go to bed." ”

"Dad, I'm finally looking forward to Friday, ten o'clock is too early, let's play until twelve o'clock. ”

"How's eleven?" I said bargainingly.

"Preferably half past eleven. The son said reluctantly.

"Good. Talking counts. ”

There are a lot of things to do at work this week, and my wife and I are tired and want to go to bed early, "We are sleeping, what will happen to our son?"

"It's okay, he'll play until half-past eleven at the latest. I said.

When I opened my eyes again, the moonlight shone through the window from the west. It was late at night, and the lights in the back room were still on. "Wang Xile is so careless, he doesn't turn off the lights after playing. I got up and walked to the back room. There was a noise in the back room, and I realized that my son was not sleeping. When the king saw me come in, he trembled. When I looked, the computer display was turned off, but the console was still on. My head was full of anger, but it was anger that could not be vented. I said, "Didn't you say that you would play until half past eleven at the latest?" and how did you beat yourself! You go to the corridor and see what time it was?"

"What are you afraid of if you didn't do anything wrong?" I said.

My son rubbed past me and walked down the hallway, "It's half past two," he said in a low voice.

"Male dolls should think about what they say, and they must do what they say. Hurry up and go to bed. The son walked to the bedroom.

"Joy, you're not done with the computer. ”

The son was shocked. He was keenly aware that the console was not turned off, and turned around and went back to turn off the console. When he returned, he quietly raised his head and looked at me, the corners of his mouth twitched, he wanted to say something, but he didn't say anything, and walked over quietly.

When my son got into bed, I said, "Joy, in the future, when you encounter panicked things, others are panicked, don't panic, your brain can't be messy, you must mention your ability to stabilize your emotions and deal with things in a panic." My son nodded vigorously for me.

Why do children love games so much?

I lay in bed and tasted insomnia for the first time. The nights in late April were already quite pleasant. "It's important to explain the pros and cons of computer games. It's easy to talk about the big truth, but it's difficult to get to the specifics. It is not easy for such a young child to make him understand the truth and sacrifice time for the game he loves so much. "I thought and thought, but there was nothing I could do. It's six o'clock. I got up and opened the door, walked out, and gently closed it.

To the right of the house, there is a road leading to the industrial area of the alkali field. I often walk on this road. As I walked along the road, I touched the trees on the side of the road, trying my best to convince my child of a reason to learn about the game, but it was empty. There is nothing wrong with playing games in itself, it is the driving force for children's growth, and we must not educate children about their ability to play for the sake of education, which is putting the cart before the horse. There was a glow in the east, and I couldn't do anything about it.

Walking to the feed gate on the east side of the alkali field, there were several flashlights shining inside. Out of curiosity, I walked over and saw a few neatly dressed workers looking for something underground, "It's all the glasses that are causing trouble, not helping them to fall." The car will arrive at seven o'clock, what can I do?" Then another voice came and said, "Don't panic, the place is not big, look carefully." One rebuked himself, and the others comforted him. They squatted on the road, not knowing what to find.

The tension is theirs. I walked past the gate and along the dirt road towards the dam on the east side of the alkali field. The sun has risen. The green buds that emerge from the bushes envelop it, the reeds twist their hips like models when they are blown by the breeze, and a flock of swans flutter into the water like gliders in the distance. Dew soaked the shoes. I came out of the house with a mind full of questions, constantly thinking, and as the sun rose, I felt that my previously full brain became like a blank sheet of paper. If children's education cannot be harmoniously integrated with play and learning, all the factors of growth will trample on each other, and well-behaved children will become thorns in their teens.

The sun is high, and the birds are busy among the bushes. A wild duck flew from there with a wail, and this fallen wild duck injected the word "drop" into my brain. What is the connection between this "drop" and the game? Why is it always in my mind? Is it hiding something that I didn't expect? Suddenly, the scene of the worker who lost his glasses just now and caused inconvenience to work appeared in front of my eyes.

Right. Playing with the computer if it is not reasonable can cause damage to the eyes. Wang Xile and his second father, eldest brother-in-law, second brother-in-law, second aunt and we are all short-sighted, these living teaching materials through rational guidance, will definitely make my son change when playing games.

In an instant, my dull mood took a radical turn, and I couldn't understand how strange things in the world were, and now I was so excited that I had been so sad a few minutes ago.

The morning glow dissipated, and the reeds on the west side of the dam swayed majestically against the wind, rising in high spirits, and surging in the direction of home. The new green in the reeds reflected the sky, the water, and my heart. It taught me that education is a wave of failures and successes, surging forward year after year. As for whether the waves will be green or something else in the future, it depends on the "cultivation of the heart" rather than knowledge.

Nature is truly the greatest teacher who has given me such a profound education in this short period of time. Although it does not speak, it is a good oracle that cannot be compared with any language, writing, or admonition. This shows that children who do not experience the education of nature will be born without a wordless thing, and only nature can trigger the solemn beauty of the human soul to meet the challenge. With awe, I gazed at the waves of the reeds, thanking them for giving me new ideas.

As soon as there is hope in the heart, there is strength in the body. I walked home in two steps with a big smile on my face. "You're back! The wife said in an annoyed and expectant tone.

"What's going on at home?" I asked.

"Wang Xile has played games all night, it's not a problem!" said his wife, "I heard you talking, and I didn't close my eyes all night, and I was almost angry!"

Alas, the child is really the tip of the flesh in the mother's heart!

"If you are angry about this, how will you educate your children in the future. I said, "I've got a solution." ”

"Tell me about it. My wife brushed the hair on her forehead with her slender fingers and stared at me with love.

I told her my idea of going out. "This method is very good," said his wife, "Guan Jian will see if his son is willing and whether he can persevere." ”

The sun turns the sky clear and clear. At eleven o'clock, it was time for my son to get up. I went into his bedroom.

One night, the two adults didn't close their eyes, but the son slept very comfortably. The quilt is half covered on his chest, and his little arms are exposed, strong but not weak, which makes people think about his future strength. I patted my son on the face and said:

"Rejoice, get up. ”

The son opened his eyes and looked, but without speaking, he pulled the quilt up, turned around and fell asleep again.

In the first three months of the first grade, our son started to get up as soon as he heard movement from his parents, and we thought he had developed a good habit of waking up early. The son's lazy sleep has no psychological burden, which does not meet the requirements of school education, but meets the scientific needs of growth and development. Only people who are physically and mentally healthy can better survive in a diversified and competitive society in the future.

"It's almost twelve o'clock. The wife shouted.

"Wake up with joy and sleep no more than twelve o'clock. If it is past twelve o'clock, it will turn a good thing into an evil thing. I said sternly.

"Evil thing," the son muttered, taking out his two little arms from the quilt and quickly stretching them into the air. This is a manifestation of happiness after people have attained satisfaction, and it is also like a display of victory.

"Dad, why does sleeping after twelve o'clock turn a good thing into a bad thing?" asked the son.

Originally, I said it casually, but my son took it seriously. "Everyone is a sun, do you like the rising sun or the setting sun?" I asked subconsciously.

"Loved the rising sun. ”

"As soon as the sun passes twelve o'clock, it becomes the setting sun. If you sleep past twelve o'clock, this day of your life will be the same as the setting sun. If there are too many things that are declining like this, it will deplete the strength of the human body. ”

"Is it the kind of skill in martial arts TV?" asked the son with wide eyes.

"Where did you go," I thought to myself. However, it shows that my words have attracted the attention of my son. He's thinking about things in his own way. I was confused and said:

"Pretty much. ”

My son got out of bed as fast as he could. The wife's lunch was also ready. Usually my son asks this and that when he eats, there is no sound today, and the table is unusually quiet. "Did he blame himself for playing the game last night? "I thought to myself. The son "poured" the rice into his stomach a few times, and without saying a word, went into the study to do his homework. From his back, I sniffed out another smell.

It was almost two o'clock when the study door rang. The son was holding two notebooks in his hand, "Dad, the homework is done," the voice was so loud that he was afraid that others would not know. "I'm going to play games," he said. ”

"No, I can't. ”

"Why? This is my plan. ”

"You played late last night, didn't you?"

"Yes. ”

"Why don't you talk and don't stick to your plan?"

"This, this ......," said the son, who was silent for a while, "don't you just want me to play, and say that you support my plan." ”

"I'm 100 per cent behind playing games at home, but you have to understand one thing. ”

"What's the problem. ”

"What do your second father, eldest sister-in-law, second aunt-in-law, second aunt-in-law, and your mother have in common?"

Through guidance, Wang Xile discovered what these relatives had in common. "They all wore glasses," he said. ”

"Do you recall that when they come into the house from outside in winter, do they have to take off their glasses and wipe them?"

"Yes. ”

"Is that good?"

"Not good. ”

"Do you want to be the one who wears glasses?"

"I don't want to. ”

"Your unreasonable play on the game will make you just like them, and you won't be able to become a pilot in the future. ”

"Why?"

"Pilots, don't be people with glasses. Besides, if you're a boy, you're likely to like sports in the future, have you ever seen anyone wearing glasses playing basketball or soccer on TV?"

"Nope. ”

"The game is fun, but it's easy to get your eyes out of the way like it was yesterday. I think your plan is a bit wrong with the arrangement of learning and games, and I always feel that you are doing your homework for the sake of playing games. ”

"I just want to play more games so I can do my homework. The son exclaimed.

"That's wrong. I said, "How can you make learning a condition of playing a game if you play a game to help you learn? ”

After reading it, my son thought for a while, then moved his finger and said, "I don't play games on Mondays and Tuesdays; I finish my homework early on Wednesday and Thursday, play for a while at night, and go to bed at 10 o'clock; on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, I finish my homework on Saturday morning and play at other times, and no more than 12 o'clock at the latest." In this way, you spend less time playing with the computer than before, and your eyes are protected. ”

My son's plan is still to do everything possible to play more. I wanted to deny it, but then I thought about it: children are just playing games, and they will definitely encounter strong resistance if they are too demanding. I said, "Good plan, there's a ten-minute break between classes, you don't have a break to play games, right?"

"Then take a five-minute break. ”

"No, in order to protect your eyes, playing games is played in lessons, and you must take a fifteen-minute break in between. I said firmly.

My son didn't agree at first, thinking that the break was too long, but when he saw my resolute attitude, he agreed.

My son went to play, and he couldn't get off at all during the break. I said, "Wang Xile, do you have self-control?"

"It's so fast, it feels like it's a lesson before I play a few times. ”

"You go out and walk around our row of houses ten times, and your son goes out......" That's it, every time you "invite" him off the computer through a verbal war. Every time I say the phrase "Where's your self-control?"

The power of the game is too strong. However, it is not comparable to the wisdom of the human brain.

At five o'clock, I estimated that there were children playing in the building community, and said: "Wang Xile, Dad heard the sound of children playing in the building, you go and see, come back to see if Dad's ears are downwind." ”

"Bragging, how can you hear it from such a distance. ”

"Speak with facts. You'll find out if you go and see it. ”

I coaxed my son out. My wife praised me for this trick, and I "deceived" the children without paying attention.

At seven o'clock in the evening, my son called from his aunt's house and said that he would not be going home to sleep tonight. I listened to him on the phone and asked him what was going on, and he said that he was playing animation cards downstairs and was very busy, so he hung up the phone without talking to us.

"Old man, look at the good son you have cultivated, how crazy you are! Do other people's children dare to go out alone at night? I see that when you are older, you can't control Wang Xile at all. The wife said.

"I didn't even think about him. As long as you treat him with a positive attitude, support him, guide him, and do your best to maintain his upward spirit, all problems will be solved in the future, and he will manage himself. ”

"I hope so," the wife whispered.

Chapter Twenty-Seven: Speaking Counts

The next day, Sunday, at noon, my son came home, ate a few bites of food, and said, "Dad, I'm playing with the computer." ”

"Wait. ”

"What's wrong?"

"Didn't we say last week that we were going to Huxi to dig cistanche? ”

"This, this, this......" The son played a trick, and 10,000 didn't want to go.

"Male dolls should count when they speak, and they should be responsible for their words and deeds. ”

"But I wanted to play games so much that I didn't want to go out into the wild at all. ”

"There are many days to play, digging Cistanche for just a few days a year. ”

"Let's go, then. The son said reluctantly.

As I was preparing my camping stuff, my son took a big bag, "What are you doing with such a big bag?" I asked amusedly.

"Didn't you say that Cistanche is very expensive, let's dig it up and sell it for more money, so we can buy delicious food. The son said seriously.

I can't say anything, because this question can only be answered by practice.

Huxi is the common name of the salt field sand control station. Both sides of the dirt road were empty, and the son had a sad face. After about four kilometres, the ride passes a salt lake green reserve with a large green area dominated by red willow and saline grass. The migratory birds roosting in the afternoon were startled by our sudden arrival, "Swans, swans." The son cried out. There are seven or eight swans among the migratory birds.

This large flock of migratory birds brought the children to the spirit. He said: "Dad talks about the Sui and Tang Dynasties. ”

"Joy, you are very dull in front of you, why do you have the heart to listen to the story after seeing this green space?" I said.

"I don't know. The son said, "Daddy, why do you say that?"

This shows that the earth's green is the most touching and loved, and life can only continue to rely on green. It's a pity that there is less and less green in your hometown, and you have the responsibility to make your hometown green when you grow up. ”

"Dad, let you tell the story of the Sui and Tang Dynasties, why do you keep saying things I don't understand. "My son was extremely dissatisfied.

"Well, last time Sui Tang talked about ......"

At three o'clock, we came to the No. 1 well in Huxi. Putting down his bike, the son ran along the fence wall of the vegetable garden towards the fountain well. After refreshing myself with clean water, my son squatted in the shade of a tree to drink, and I stood under the eaves of the well room to prepare something to enter the desert. "Joy, the west side of the lake is very large, it is divided into three sides: west, northwest, and north, and we can only choose one side. I said, "Which side do you think we're going to?"

The son stood up, looked around with the bottle, and then stared at the sprinkler pipe. After a while, he said in a somewhat hoarse voice, "Dad, where have you dug cistanche before?"

"On the northwest side. I pointed my finger and said.

"Then we'll go to the northwest as well. ”

"Good. I said, "Except for water and shovels, put everything on the car." ”

"Everything?"

"Yes. ”

"Don't you take the bag? What if there are too many cistanches and you can't hold them?"

"It's very difficult to find Cistanche. I said.

"That's not there. The son said unconvinced.

"You don't believe it. Grab the bag yourself. I said.

The sun was hanging high in the sky, and it was giving grace to the earth with its feelings, and the whole world seemed to be hot everywhere, and it didn't go far, and it was sweating. "Dad, where is Cistanche, where is Cistanche?" the son kept asking.

Soon after I walked into the desert, I knew that I would be in vain today. Because the Cistanche forest in the northwest has been destroyed, I can't find a shady place to rest. The environment has really changed! I dragged my son to climb the high sand beam, and saw a house a few hundred meters in front of me, so I walked over.

It's finally here.

It's an abandoned house, the roof has collapsed, but it's not all of it.

"Joy, we can't dig Cistanche today. ”

"Didn't you say you dug cistanche here?"

"That was twenty years ago, when there were all kinds of shuttles and now there is nothing. ”

My son was a little anxious, he put his arm around my neck and said, "Dad, as long as you don't give up, you will definitely be able to dig cistanche." It turned out that digging Suoyang was also successful in this way. ”

My son's words thrilled me. In this case, I thought not of going home but of persevering, and I felt that nature was giving us something in return, and something extremely precious was sprouting in my son's heart. But the child is young, and he has not yet discerned the ability between success and perseverance, success and direction. How to answer will make him understand that sometimes giving up is the most correct decision and the greatest perseverance.

"Joy, please drink water. "I drank the water from a bottle in one gulp and handed him the empty bottle.

"Dad, how can I drink if I don't have water?"

"Can't you drink water without water? Try it, and maybe a miracle will happen." I persuaded pleasantly.

A child is a child, and when he has not developed his intelligence to that age, it is difficult to understand some problems that seem obvious to adults.

The son held the water bottle and drank it again, "Dad, I can't drink water if my skills are not good." He handed the bottle over and said, "Drink, let me learn high technology." ”

"Joy, I'll ask a question before I drink. ”

"What's the problem?"

"What did you say Cistanche was on?"

"I don't know. ”

"It is parasitic on the roots of the Saxon tree. In the distance to the west and north, there are also a few Saxon trees, and possibly Cistanche. But do we have a shuttle tree on this side?" I said, pointing back and forth with my hand.

"Nope. ”

"Cistanche is parasitic on the roots of the Haloxylon tree, and if the Haloxylon tree is gone, will there be Cistanche?"

"Nope. ”

"Now look at this empty bottle, can you drink water?"

"Daddy is lying to me. The son cried out.

"It's getting late, and there's still some way to the car. When it's hot, save water to drink. ”

"Dad, can't you really find Cistanche by persevering?" the son was obviously very distracted.

"If you can drink water from an empty bottle, we'll stick to it. It's not a question of persistence or non-persistence, but an effective renunciation. Giving up and going home the way you came from us as soon as possible is the most correct and courageous thing to do. ”

"It seems to be. The muscles on his son's face were very unnatural, and after saying that, he squatted on the ground and grabbed the sand with his hands.

It's really hard for my son today. On a hot day, the game was not played, Cistanche was not digging, and he felt uncomfortable. But this kind of unbeautiful thing is very common in life, and everyone must learn to accept it.

I walked over and crouched down with him. I wanted to say something, but my mind was empty. I exhaled deeply and said, "Joy, what are you thinking?"

All around, except for the sound of our breathing and heartbeat, it was very quiet. For two minutes, my son looked up and muttered, "Can I play a game when I go back?"

This is an extremely hot problem that must be solved immediately. My eyebrows furrowed, and my heart twitched. To let play means to break the rule of not playing games on Sunday nights, and if you don't play, the child is now very mentally weak, and it will be difficult to conquer the sandy road in front of him, which will be a blow to his interest in coming out to camp in the future. What to do?

I looked up, and for a moment I had a feeling that the remaining forests to the west and north were clear. It's clear: what people think is important and beautiful and put a lot of energy into it often backfires. The area at our feet is the main battlefield of artificial desert management, and after many years, all that is left behind are the dead branches of fast-growing plants, and the dazzling brilliance of the past, the beauty of those short days, often cover up the commonplace mistakes, not only are not punished, but are all the rage, and people have taken great pains to beautify them. I don't know how many people have been promoted to officials and made a fortune in front of them.

"A shower is a must at nine o'clock in the evening. Until then, if you have time, you can play it. ”

"Great! The son's movements suddenly became lighter.

"Just go like this, don't dig up Cistanche and don't even protect the environment?"

When my son heard me, he turned around and picked up the empty water bottle and urged me, "Hurry up." ”

Goals are important, but compromise is fundamental to achieving them. It was so hot that he didn't go far, and his son's speed slowed down, "Dad, how long will it take to get to the well?" he looked around blankly.

On a day like this, walking in the desert is physically demanding, "Daddy carries you," I said.

The son was unwilling. I said, "It's a difficult road for a kid, but it's not a big deal for a dad. ”

I walked on the high and low soft sand with my son on my back, and after a while my cheeks were sweaty, "Dad, you're tired!" said my son as he wiped the sweat from his face.

My son's voice and sign language made me feel the true meaning of the phrase "people are emotional animals".

One or two hundred meters from the garden, my son got down from me and ran forward, and the place where the water sprayed became the hope of all. When we arrived, we took off our clothes and let our bodies taste the rare coolness in the desert.

After playing with the water, I looked up at the sun in the west, and then at my son's stroller, and there was absolutely no time to play on the eight-kilometer dirt road back to play. I found a wire from the shaft and said, "Come, joy, screw this wire to your handlebars, and I'll drag you along." ”

"I can ride. ”

"Time is running out. ”

"The sun is still high!"

"Your car is small and slow, I'm afraid it's a bit mysterious. ”

Make sure your son plays games, which will have a big impact on the success of future camping plans. Along the way, I kept my eyes on the front and kicked my bike with my feet. When we got on the asphalt road, crossed Lin Meng Road, passed the club square, and arrived at my mother's house, the "news network" had just begun. The old mother said angrily, "Where did you lead the doll?"

"We went to dig Cistanche, but we didn't dig a seedling," the son said, "Does Grandma have any food?"

"Yes. Your mom just left after eating. My mother said with resentment, "If you don't catch the doll to study, you will run around for a day, and your daughter-in-law will always complain to me." ”

"Grandma, don't talk about my dad, it's interesting in the sand. Hurry up and eat, I'm dying of hunger. ”

The mother was busy bringing the food, and the son devoured it, "Look what the doll has become of hunger." Before the mother's words could be explained, the son said, "Dad, I'm done eating, you eat slowly and I'll go back first." As soon as the words fell, the son ran away.

"I haven't run enough after running all afternoon. Mom said.

After eating at my mother's house, I came home. As soon as he entered the courtyard gate, his wife snorted angrily and said, "Wang Jianhua, did you promise to let Wang Xile play on the computer?"

"Yes. ”

"Didn't you say you wouldn't play on Sunday night?" said the wife, "and I wouldn't let him play, and if you look at him like that, it seems that I have suddenly become an enemy, and I want to eat me in one bite." Who teaches children to break away from the rules? You seem to be smarter than everyone else. ”

I quickly went into the back room and said to my son, "Hear me, your mother is so angry." It can't be like that again. It's 7:30 now, and I play until 8:30 and turn off the machine and take a shower. I'm waiting for you in the den, hoping that you can beat the game with self-control. ”

"Dad, don't you usually play until half past nine?"

"Look at how angry your mother has become. You go to bed early, and I can give your mother an explanation. Otherwise, your mother will have to scold me at night. ”

At half past eight, my son really turned off the computer and ran into the study. This is the first time he has voluntarily closed the game. I went up and kissed him on the forehead and said, "Joy, you will be able to manage yourself in the future." ”