No matter how cruel the situation is, increasing the amount of time your child spends in school as much as possible and learning a little more about the knowledge and experience of their predecessors will greatly reduce the possibility of committing crimes along the way.

So we used our social connections to find an opportunity for Wang Xile to go to high school at a senior high school in Yongning County, 20 kilometers from Yinchuan, with a score of about 6,000 students, and a score of 565.

On August 29, 2012, it was the preparation day after the end of the formal student military training, and we also reported to the school on this day.

Wang Xile was divided into the ninth class of high school, with more than 60 people in the class, and the head teacher was a math teacher in his thirties surnamed Ma. Mr. Ma had a special conversation with me individually, and he emphasized that students with low scores like Wang Xile generally have some bad problems, so he hopes that parents can cooperate with teachers to manage their children well.

Coming out of Mr. Ma's office, he walked on the way to the student dormitory. As I passed by the stadium, I saw a group of sports students training there.

"Joy, you play basketball very well, or you can practice like them and take a physical education major. I pointed to the students training in the stadium.

"Nope. Anyway, I don't take the physical education major. My son answered me without even thinking about it.

"Why?" I asked.

"Not why. It's still good to play basketball every day, but I don't want to do this major at all. The son replied more simply.

"According to the current academic situation, it is too difficult for you to get into other majors. I said in an accentuated tone.

"The world is not a way out of learning, my master who plays games can earn at least more than 5,000 yuan a month, and now I can start to earn money playing games, I feel that my level is not too much different from them, as long as I work hard, I can catch up with their professional level. The son said very seriously.

"There is a world of difference between professional and amateur, and the hidden gap is beyond the comprehension of children of your age. "I'm serious, too.

"Why?"

"One of my 1993 students was attracted to a professional boxing coach and later went on to the national team. In the more than six years of national team life, although he felt a little bit worse than the first place, he never won the national championship, and always lingered between second and fifth. By the way, Brother Bruce Lee, are you still there?" I asked.

"Remember, never forget. Because when you took them to training, those high school students knew me very well. Wang Xile replied quickly.

"Your brother Xiaolong graduated from high school in 2007 and entered the Institute of Physical Education, he won the 400-meter championship in the sports college group of the National University Games in 2010, and was also favored by the national team coach and transferred to the national team. What I want to say is that the layer of window paper between professional and amateur does not seem to be thick, and if you are not talented enough, it may be difficult to pierce for a lifetime. Therefore, everyone wants to develop a hobby into a profession, and the process is best to test themselves step by step to see if the talent is enough, and the kind of strategy of pressing all the forces in one direction is against the great virtue of heaven and earth, and it is also a stupid practice that only cares about immediate utilitarianism. "I'm serious.

When he arrived at the dormitory, Wang quickly got in touch with seven other roommates. I didn't seem to feel much strangeness when he arrived in a foreign land, so I made my bed and went back to Yinchuan, and the next day we transferred back to Jilantai.

We work in Gilan Tai, and Wang Xile attends high school in Yongning, more than 200 axioms away. Since this was the first time that our son had left home to live in school, we were very worried, and it seemed as if the days had become more and more difficult.

One day in mid-to-late September, Wang Xile called to say that he had been elected vice president of the student union. I was surprised and asked curiously, "Didn't you say last week that you didn't run for any class positions, but why did you become the vice president of the student council instead!?"

"No, it's mainly stimulated by our class president, and it's still a woman. The son said.

"Why did she irritate you?" I asked.

"People are self-aware and self-aware. At the beginning of the class, the class cadre selection was conducted, and I knew that my admission score was not competitive at all, so I quietly pretended. Last week, the school's student union positions were competing for the whole school, and the head of our class took a competition form and asked me if I would report, and the tone of her voice made people feel very uncomfortable. However, if it's uncomfortable, it's uncomfortable, who will let yourself get a low score, so I looked at the list and said that I didn't report anything, but I didn't expect that the class leader actually dumped me when he asked other students forward, saying that students with scores like ours would report in vain, and I was angry at that time.

So, I called the class president back and asked her what the biggest official in the school's student union competition was, and she said that she was the vice president of the student union, and I said that I would report this and said that I would take care of her in the future. The son said.

"So you're well prepared for the competition?" I asked.

"Yes and no. The son said.

"What does that mean?" I asked.

"When I was in junior high school in Yinchuan, I was always the president of the student union, and these days I see that my high school classmates are just like junior high school students, they are busy looking for materials to prepare speeches for the competition, and I just refine the past student union experience in my mind. Everyone was reading the scripts during the pitch, and I only spoke clearly in front of the crowd on the podium. The son's tone of voice was very capable.

"What did you say? I asked.

"When I was in junior high school, I served as the president of the student union in a middle school in Yinchuan for two years, and I have accumulated rich experience in facilitating the relationship between students and the school, so I have the ability to let students have a better understanding with the school. "My son is confident.

"You rushed up in a daze, and then came down after saying a word!?" I said

"Dad, look at what you said, am I that stupid. I know the common sense of politeness very well, and it is natural to do it. The son hurriedly explained.

"It's good to understand. Thoughtful etiquette is half the battle. I said.

The child is stable and steady, and the days are dull. In high school, Wang Xile is still struggling, especially in mathematics, so we specially got a one-on-one math tutoring for him from the homeroom teacher, Mr. Ma.

Before I knew it, Wang Xile's senior year was coming to an end, and I went to the school again that day to hold a parent-teacher conference for Wang Xile. After the meeting, I specially brought the Cistanche and Suoyang local specialties that I dug to Mr. Ma to thank him for his education of the children in the past three years. In the past three years, I have personally attended every semester's parent-teacher meeting, so I am also familiar with Mr. Ma.

"Teacher Wang is very embarrassed, I have a total of five students, and the other four have made great progress in mathematics, and their mathematics scores are basically stable at the level of more than 120 points. And your Wang Xile can't improve from the original 40 points to the 60 points level, and I'm really embarrassed to meet you every time. Teacher Ma said self-deprecatingly.

"What's so embarrassing about that. Everything is greatly affected by genetic factors, I only scored 51 points in high school mathematics when I was in high school, and mathematics is a special logical thinking thing, and only 5% of people can really learn mathematics well, which is a worldwide probability. Having said that, Wang Xile came to study with you after class, and the more time he could spend with good classmates, the less likely the child would be to learn badly. I hurriedly started the round and said.

"If parents are as open-minded as you are, we will be able to do much better education. You have also seen the situation in our class, there are several parents of students who are really heartbroken, those children are at the level of 600 when they are admitted to high school, to tell the truth from beginning to end, your Wang Xile is really okay. Teacher Ma said seriously.

"What do you mean by that!?" I asked, a little confused.

"In the first year of high school, you led Wang Xile to my class to register, and at that time I thought that this was another troublesome student. Soon after the start of the school year, I was surprised that he was running for the vice president of the student union. On the one hand, because of your family's Wang Xi's low academic performance, he didn't even have the opportunity to be nominated by the class committee; on the other hand, we are a school in the Hui area, and no student from other places has ever held such a position in the history of the school, especially since Wang Xile is still a Han people. Especially in terms of studying, I thought that he would become a failed and extremely difficult kind of student, but I didn't expect that his learning has been very stable, unlike some students who originally had a good foundation, but gave up studying in the third year of high school. There was a little excitement in Mr. Ma's words.

"This is mainly due to the good teachers of your school, and it is also the great god of the Hui people, Muhammad, who has favored him. Wang Xile has struggled to study since he was a child, but he is still a little capable of getting along with others. I said in a tone of gratitude and affirmation.

"Teacher Wang, you are also a teacher, I don't say that you also understand that a lot of things will happen in any class from the first year of high school to the third year of high school. The key problem is that the student structure of our school is very special, there are local Hui and Han people in Yongning, special students transferred from Yinchuan, and students from surrounding towns and villages, and the conflicts are very complicated, and there are often conflicts between small groups of students, and sometimes the situation is very serious. Teacher Ma said very seriously.

"I haven't heard Wang Xile say what kind of conflict happened between students, I only heard him say that there have been large-level incidents between students and canteen masters. I said.

"It's true that last year there was a lot of trouble with the students' boycotts. In the past three years, a lot of things have happened in the class and between the classes in the school, no matter how big or small, whether male or female, whether it is this class or other class, and students of different grades, none of their classmates has exposed your Wang Xile in big and small things, and everyone shirks their responsibilities for him, and they have shielded him until now. However, your Wang Xile did contribute a lot to the class through the student union, and there were many things in the school and the class in the second year of high school, and some things were not easy for the class teacher to coordinate, but your Wang Xile was able to actively communicate with the teachers of the Political and Educational Office through the student union, which effectively reduced a lot of contradictions. Teacher Ma said.

Listening to Mr. Ma's words, I originally wanted to explain why Wang Xile was less blamed by students, but after thinking about it, I still don't want to provoke this kind of thing. Because, one-third of the children in the class have no intention of studying by the third year of high school, compared with the all-round excellence in junior high school, which adult is not sad. Every time, parents, teachers and parents will criticize the game, hoping to get a way to keep their children away from the game, but there has been no good way.

According to Wang Xile, his game level in this school is definitely the highest, and he has instructed many students in different grades to play games. Some students who have only started playing games in high school have to find a way to climb down from tall buildings and climb out of the campus wall to play night games in the middle of the night. From the perspective of preaching, teaching, and solving doubts, many students in the school have a master-apprentice relationship with Wang Xile, and the probability of apprentices in the world exposing the master is always extremely small.

In a blink of an eye, the day of the results of the college entrance examination has come. Wang Xile scored 351 points and went to a college in Qingdao, Shandong Province, majoring in accounting. At this time, we have shifted from the failure of the child's high school entrance examination and the unsatisfactory college entrance examination to the hope that through the improvement of professional academic performance, Wang Xile can realize the dream of transferring from a junior college to a bachelor's degree.